Where is the happiness you are seeking
How long have you not really laughed? How long have you not heard laughter? How long in a day do your expressions go to peace? How many of the expressions you see are peaceful?
Everyone is walking in a hurry, everyone says they want to be happy, but everyone's face is anxious, angry, depressed, flattering, contempt... There is no trace of happiness alone.
The elderly say that they cannot understand this era; middle-aged people say that I have the old and the young; the young people say that I want to be promoted to a higher rank and get rich; children say that I want to play games... What the elderly can't understand is actually why they will become empty nesters, the pressure on middle-aged people is actually more and more desire, young people want to get rich overnight, children lack companionship, want high scores but do not want to learn.
The child in the video quickly said a stiff concern question, the old man saw that he (she) still did not stop the work at hand, just asked a few daily words, the child has been impatient to hang up...
The person in the mirror seems to be still very young if he does not look at the hair and forehead lines, and he has been called "old man" by everyone several times as if he saw his young self in the mirror, and every day when he opens his eyes, he can't stop...
Colleagues seem to have changed a limited bag; friends have changed big houses to entertain guests; classmates seem to drive a luxury car worth millions; but they don't seem to see the hope of promotion and salary increase, and the credit card to be repaid after the nightclub...
Looking at the two- or three-year-old children playing outside the window, as if they are always accompanied by unfinished homework and interest classes that seem to be no longer interested, teenage children seem to understand confusion...
The laughter of the elderly: children and grandchildren laugh the happiest when they are reunited with the family; middle-aged people are happiest when they see the health of their parents, the excellence of their children, and the harmony of the family; young people laugh most realistically when they look at the savings that they continue to increase by their own efforts, their own small houses, and the promotion of their work positions; children look at the test papers of door A+ and look at the parents who accompany them in the playground...
Happiness seems to be far away from us, and it seems to be very close to us. The busy pace is too fast, so fast that our hearts can not keep up, we long for happiness, while pushing it farther and farther.
Be quiet, think about it, we should live happily, rather than completely pursuing material enjoyment and sensory stimulation, happiness comes from our hearts, relying on others can never get. As early as 2,000 years ago, Confucius told us that --- learn from nature, take nature as a teacher, and often practice in life. Isn't it very happy to have friends from afar? Others don't know my talents, and I'm not angry, isn't that a gentleman? Isn't the three pleasures of Confucius, placed in this life, also the constant way for us to attain inner happiness?
Zi Yue: "When you learn the heavens, don't you say it?" Have friends from afar, are you happy? People don't know and don't care, aren't they gentlemen? ”
Seek to find the beautiful hidden