Three major flaws lead to living at the bottom

1. No successful experience guidance

The main reason why the bottom layer is the bottom is that in the whole process of life, many things must be wrong, and most of the things accumulated in the brain are wrong thinking concepts and incorrect experiences. So in the process of rising, the fathers can not provide key and effective guidance. Because I am young, I have no experience, and there is no noble person in the surrounding environment. Naturally, with wrong ideas or natural choices, they will explore the direction on their own, and it is easy to make mistakes through trial and error. And these mistakes, the pits of life, sometimes one can't climb out. Even if you climb out, you will be skinned, without the correct guidance, and the cost will be infinitely large if you fight on your own. It is possible to struggle and suffer all your life, and the sea of suffering is boundless.

2, there is no deep accumulation of resources

The fathers lack the right experience on the road of life, and they cannot accumulate resources on their own. The status quo of poverty and poverty is passed on to their children, and let the children fight on their own. Many people say that our parents have exhausted us when they can raise us, and we should be grateful rather than complaining. The reason is that behind it is actually the zeroing out of resources again and again. Because there is no accumulation in one field, it is impossible to make money in an industry, and then jump everywhere and always be at the bottom. Because the work at the bottom consumes a lot of physical and mental energy, the body is not healthy, and in the later years, it will generally be seriously ill and spend money, and because of the unequal desire and income, it will soon fall into the debt quagmire. Without the accumulation of resources, nature does not have any investment ability, and it is cycled from generation to generation.

3. Do not have the ability to deal with the world

The poorer you are, the more you like to go it alone, be self-righteous, and be self-absorbed. Replace self-esteem with jealousy, unwilling to lower the posture and humbly ask for advice and ask for help. There are three main reasons, one is to be at the bottom for a long time, every day is faced with the study of things, or manual labor, can not communicate with people, naturally no experience. Second, the small peasant consciousness of the past two thousand years, self-sufficiency, is not good at exchanging resources and benefits with outsiders, and has no consciousness to take the initiative to interact with people. Third, because they do not understand, because they are unconscious, natural interpersonal relationships are relatively poor, which in turn exacerbates the fear and disgust of interpersonal relationships. After often encountering walls everywhere, gradually becoming a Buddha, escaping, not being able to effectively reflect on themselves, are all criticizing others. Without relationships, information and resources cannot be revitalized.

Although interpersonal relationships are written at the end, in fact, this is the most important, because whether a person can achieve great things is mainly the experience of interpersonal relationships. Sunny atmosphere, gratitude and humility can often get the support of nobles, and their own struggle can alleviate a lot of resistance. To take the simplest example, if you are well-liked, you can naturally get help from friends. For example, borrowing money can develop their own careers with high leverage; having friends provide reliable advice, so that they can continuously reduce the process of trial and error, and then accumulate corresponding resources. You can become stronger and stronger, and then change the class. Therefore, the correct life experience, continuous accumulation of resources, and the proficiency of interpersonal relationships are the key factors in the rise, and these three points are precisely the three fatal loopholes that are locked at the bottom. Just look closely at the cases of winners and losers to find the answer. Even if the story of the counterattack is staged in life, this kind of dick is not a mortal, it must belong to high emotional intelligence, high intelligence, high toughness quotient, and has a strong self-criticism and self-reflection. Will be a person will come to do things, welcome people. Otherwise, there is no possibility of counterattack at the grassroots level in any era.