Don't let the mentality of taking it for granted evolve into sin

Family affection should be the most cherished by people, however, in real life, it is often distorted by various evil thoughts. Of course, there is an important role to play in this.

Do we often see this phenomenon: children who have been able to support themselves still take it for granted to spend their parents' money, and parents should not spend their money?

Under the domination of this distorted mentality, the family affection is gradually diluted or lost, the heart of the parents is broken, and the fights between brothers and sisters occur from time to time.

One parent divided the 100,000 yuan of their savings evenly among their two sons. The parents thought that they would be satisfied with each other, but they never expected it, but they annoyed the second daughter-in-law. She believes that her family's economic income is not as good as her brother-in-law's, and her family should divide it by 20,000 yuan. Angry father-in-law has an illness.

There was a state official, with a higher salary, his grandson and granddaughter's schooling and all the expenses, when the grandfather's all-inclusive. He saw that his daughter's family was not rich, so he paid a tuition fee to his grandson. But after the daughter-in-law knew about it, she made a big fuss and had to get the money back. Because in her heart, the girl who marries out becomes an outsider. The father-in-law's money can only be given to sons, daughters-in-law, grandchildren and granddaughters. Just imagine, such a father-in-law, even if the salary is high, can he be happy and happy?

We've had one more incident here. An old man had just distributed the 20,000 yuan earned from part-time work to his two sons, and he fell ill, but he had no money in his hand. Ask your son for money again, and don't give anything. The old man was sick and angry, and within a month, he went away with hatred.

When the old man is capable, the children and daughters-in-law think about the old man's money, which also makes sense. But there are some children and daughters-in-law, knowing that their parents and in-laws have no income, and they are still worried about the old man's old-age allowance of one hundred and ten yuan.

They lived in beautiful small bungalows, drove cars, had large deposits in the bank, and their parents struggled to survive in low huts, not only at ease, but also from time to time to take the pocket money squeezed out of the teeth of their parents and in-laws. If you don't give, you'll speak ill of each other.

When the old man is squeezed dry, can no longer squeeze out oil and water, and enters a situation of poverty and illness, some sons and daughters-in-law no longer care. But when the old man died of illness, he was scrambling to be buried, because he could finally make another profit. It is ridiculous that they pretended to cry at the funeral, and performed the image of a filial piety and filial piety daughter-in-law.

These twisted hearts have fallen into the abyss of sin, but do they think that this sin has been passed down and that the same fate awaits them?

Although these people are in the minority, they can defile the Chinese civilization and should not be underestimated.