Text/Han Cuiping
"Bean" is our bright nickname for Dou when we go to school, one is his surname dou, the other is that he speaks crisply and neatly when he goes to school, sometimes his "ding" speech is very fast, others can't pick up the stubble at all, they want to beat him.
When we were in school, a few of them didn't play with us. Because they are a few years older than us, very mature, looking at us twittering little girls is like watching kindergarten children, it is really childish. We don't want to go to them, we have to hide from being so idiotic. Maturity means that he understands you, and you may not understand him.
I thought he should read from my slightly melancholy appearance that I had a deeply hidden inferiority complexion, so he talked to me by accident mostly, for fear of irritating me.
One year, when I went to Changwei Teacher's College to play with my classmates, several classmates actually met him when they walked out of the dormitory. My high school friends didn't know him, so I went up to him myself and greeted him.
Although Wulian is not far from Weifang, I still feel the intimacy of his hometown and acquaintance. We were all surprised at how the other party came, and we knew that it was better to sit in the car together and be bold.
Then we talked about something that I don't remember for a long time, only remember the sentence "You're beautiful, you don't know?" "A word that shocked me! I believe he just said it casually, and that meant too much to me!
The inferiority caused by high school has plagued me for a long time, and I have been hiding deeply, basically not interacting with my classmates. In the eyes of outsiders, I am arrogant and ignore no one, in fact, I am afraid that the other party will snub and despise me, so it is better for me to snub me first.
Whether he read me or not, I don't actually know. But this sentence of his obviously gave me a lot of confidence! I was instantly resurrected full of blood and restored the girl's self-confidence! Lo and behold, my classmates say I'm pretty! Sister is not ugly!
After joining the work in different schools, they rarely met each other, but the hearsay said that he had passed five levels and cut six generals, but none of them were seen in person, and there was almost no contact.
After graduating from graduate school, I moved my family directly to Rizhao and waited for the thesis defense to find a job to earn rice in the two months.
Once we were organizing a table tennis tournament for banking practitioners in the city, and in the process of preparation, he suddenly came to the fifth floor to find me.
Particularly surprised, how did he find it? How did he know I was working here? I buried all the doubts in my heart, just chatting with him with surprise.
He sat in my right-hand chair and greeted me with a note of his intentions. It turned out to be the organization of the class reunion, and he should be the main organizer.
I remember giving me a very sensational speech at the class reunion at that time, and the writing was very touching. I was hesitant because I was afraid that the time of the party would clash with the time of our game.
At that time, there was only one leader and two staff members in our department, and the other staff member took wedding leave, and all the work needed to be undertaken by me.
Competition notice, venue arrangement, souvenirs of corporate participants, awards of the winners, trophies, prizes, competition flags, mayor's speeches... All of this needs to be done by me, and I can't let the leader do it himself.
The leadership leads the overall situation, and these small pieces of work are the work of our staff. If I walk away, I will not resign!" Even if I resign for the sake of the party, it is morally sorry for me to accept my leadership. Hey, people can't help themselves in the jianghu! I promised him to do his best, as long as the time didn't conflict!
The first day of the game coincided with the meeting time, so I didn't go, and I was sorry for him ten thousand times. He personally ran to Rizhao, but I was absent, which is equivalent to not giving people face!
He was really angry, and once I asked him for a picture of a classmate party, and he said, "Don't give, you don't go, you won't give it to you." I know he's resentful of my absence, your grandmother's legs, don't pull them down, do you have them?
Our office supervisor of this competition, one leader and one me, just two people, I still dare to take leave and walk away
I just don't want to live! Of course, I knew that people would change, and I never expected him to be the same forever, but when I felt that he was not like before, I still couldn't help but secretly feel sad for a long time.
Occasionally I heard from him, and I heard that he had been transferred from the household department to the street, when the streets were notoriously rotten, and his difficulties could be imagined.
I heard that he suffered a lot on the street and wanted to do his best to turn things around, but how can melting three feet of ice be a day's work? Later, because the student fight video was hyped by the Internet, he was disarmed and held a grudge.
I got in touch with him through my classmates, who were at home at the time, and I wanted to say something comforting to him, and he told me very calmly on the phone, "There is no need to worry about it." Life is everywhere, rest assured, will not fall! ”
He was always so unashamed and calm. I knew that there were some things he had to face alone, and no one could help me, so I could only wait for him to break through the cocoon.
In fact, the herringbone is the loneliest, and there is no capital in the side.
The next meeting was in the Tide River. At that time, I returned to Wulian from Rizhao to continue teaching, and in 16 years I came to the Shibei Youth Activity Center. Every year, we organize primary and secondary school students from all over the county to come to our school to expand, and each school takes turns in this activity for a week.
When it was Takazawa Junior High School's turn, Shin Asor lei was the leading teacher. Shen Zuolei and I were at the same table in high school, and we must have a meal together, so we went to a fried chicken shop in Chaohe, and as soon as we entered the door, we actually found that Dou Liangming was also eating in this restaurant.
What a coincidence! Natural table topping! It turned out that he had been transferred to the Kokan Agricultural Technical School. We ate and talked, reminiscing about our student days, as if we were back in the past.
Reunion let us cherish the friendship of classmates, the cherries in his school are ripe, he will call us "come and eat, I can't keep it", and then we will eat and drink without face; fengshui pears are ripe, he asked us to pick pears, invited us to eat and brought us two boxes of pears!
Eating and drinking with the eldest brother is comfortable to die, and every year I think of him calling us to go. He was very generous and always begged for food and drink.
He was very satisfied with his current life, and he went away from the drum horn Zhengming and integrated into sangma. He ran all over the place, dealing with the peasants, and saw different scenery.
The country tours he wrote introduced many landscapes that we locals did not know, such as green tea, cherries, and pears... There are also many customs and customs, and they have really done a lot of good things for the peasants.
His life has opened a new landscape, he does not have to work so hard for students every day, he does not have to worry about school grades every day, and he does not have to spend so many brain cells to manage teachers. Maybe it's heaven seeing that he's too tired, so find a head to let him rest and start again!
He once said, "No matter what you go through in your life, it is the most reasonable arrangement for life, you don't have to be angry, you don't have to be obsessed, you don't have to worry about it." "I think so! His broad mind is the most attractive place!
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