The man in the north has a common name: the great han of the north.
The word is rough when you hear it, but in this northern elderly blind date show, there are many northern men who look like big men but are very delicate in life.
The eldest brother is 62 years old, quite pay attention to maintenance, in the past male guests, pay attention to the maintenance of the skin is also a lot, but on the washstand, see the men with hyaluronic acid is really not much.
And his delicacy has attracted at least 50 female guests to his liking, what is going on?
Brother Ma, 62 years old, pension of 3500 yuan, divorced, housing more than 100 square meters, will soon be demolished.
Sister Liu
Sister Liu, 60 years old, pension of 2400 yuan, widowed, living with her son and daughter-in-law.
Big Brother Ma has already been on a show once, and when Big Brother first appeared on the show, he attached great importance to it and was very enthusiastic about the two female guests, so that some of them were overly enthusiastic, but the female guests had no feelings for Big Brother Ma.
But as soon as his program was broadcast, his enthusiasm infected many offline blind dates, and they asked to go on a blind date with him, and this time the red lady came to The big brother's house again with good news.
Big Brother Ma compared to the last show
As soon as the red lady entered the door, she was very surprised to see the white hair of the eldest brother, the last time she was on the show was still black, was it because there was no success in blind date, and the white head was white overnight, at this time, the big brother Ma explained that the last time it was specially dyed.
He also quipped: Is it that your red lady's work is not done well, introduce me to a few more, isn't it appropriate? The hair was also black.
Red Lady also said the purpose of her visit, she said: Since the broadcast of the show, there are not 100 female guests in your photo, and there are at least 50.
Brother Ma couldn't believe it, and thought that the Red Lady was joking with him, and he said: Oh mom! Is there so much? Scared the baby to death!
The Red Lady said affirmatively: Really! A lot of people have a crush on you.
Brother Ma believed this, and he said: He lived alone in this family, like a grave, lonely and lonely.
Red Niang also apologized for the last blind date, but this time Red Niang selected a relatively high-quality quality from more than 50 big sisters for the eldest brother to see.
Red Niang matched Big Brother Ma with Liu Dajie, who has also been on a show once, Liu Dajie is a person who dresses in a foreign style, has a gentle and kind personality, and likes to read and has taste.
As soon as The Red Lady saw Sister Liu, she saw Sister Liu feeding the stray cats in the community downstairs.
The eldest sister said that she has been keeping stray cats for twelve years, in addition to feeding cat food, she will also make them some cat food, boil some eggs, etc., and the nutrition is balanced.
The Red Lady asked her: How much does it cost to feed stray cats?
The eldest sister said: 100 yuan of cat food, about two months to eat, these years, five or six thousand yuan of expenditure is there.
Because she lives with her son and daughter-in-law, she did not invite the red bride to sit at home last time, and today her son and daughter-in-law went to work, and the red bride followed the eldest sister to the house.
As soon as the red lady entered the house, she felt that the items in the home were arranged very neatly, and the eldest sister also said that she was too pursuit of perfection, as if she had obsessive-compulsive disorder, and everything had to be placed on the board.
The red lady also saw that there were lilies in the house, and the eldest sister said that this was bought by her daughter-in-law, and she liked lilies, and the house was constantly there.
It is said that women who love lilies are gentle and considerate, and somewhat introverted, which is very consistent with The personality of Sister Liu.
Red Niang asked the eldest sister: the personality of the sister, usually there is no feeling of a little princess.
The eldest sister said that there was before, and now it is gone, mainly because no one spoils me now.
Talking about her husband, she was full of admiration, she said, her husband is very good, and she is the same as the construction group, is the deputy manager, capable, people are still handsome, so if you look for it again, you must not compare your husband with the blind date, otherwise you will never find it.
The eldest sister said that her husband died somewhat suddenly, and after taking antihypertensive drugs at night, the control was quite good, and at six o'clock in the morning, her husband also spoke to her.
At that time, she also told her husband that the doctor would go to work for two more hours and go to the hospital to do a systematic examination, and her husband nodded at the time, who expected that at seven o'clock the person was gone.
The eldest sister said: I was right in front of him, I didn't know that he was breathing, and later I learned that it was a heart attack.
What makes the eldest sister blame herself the most is that the sudden death of her husband did not allow her to take care of her husband for a day, even if she was tired of taking care of the service for a year and a half, her husband could feel better in her heart when she left.
Sister Liu's last blind date
The last time Sister Liu and Brother Jiang went on a blind date, they did not succeed, and when he saw Brother Ma's program, his heart lit up with hope and felt that his love was coming.
The eldest sister said bluntly: I like the tall man of Big Brother Ma, and then the performance of Big Brother Ma in the show, very enthusiastic about the female guests, in the middle of taking care, I also feel that the other party is a bit clumsy, quite likable.
As she spoke, the eldest sister's face was filled with heartfelt happiness: Sometimes, it is necessary to fight, and when I saw it, I immediately called and tried to pick him.
As soon as the two met, the eldest brother took the initiative to say that he was different from the image on TV, and now this white hair is the true color, do you regret it now?
The eldest sister hurriedly said: No, no, don't care about black and white hair!
The eldest sister also said privately to the red lady: Watching on the spot is more cordial than on TV, but this person is the kind I like and is what I want.
The eldest brother and the red lady also said privately that they had a good impression of the woman.
The two sat down again, and the eldest sister took the initiative to talk to the eldest brother about the widowhood, saying that the husband died of a heart attack and now lives with the child for 3 years.
The eldest sister took the initiative to ask the eldest brother: How many years has it been divorced?
The eldest brother said, twenty-five or six years.
The eldest sister further asked, these twenty-five or six years of good times, are all single?
The eldest brother said that he had not been abandoned in all these years.
When the eldest sister heard this, although she smiled on her face, she almost held out internal wounds in her heart: What is "no waste"?
The eldest brother said: Even in these years, I have learned a lot of things and gone to many places.
At this time, the eldest sister's heart fell to the ground, and she said: I thought you were talking about feelings.
The eldest sister and the red lady said privately that their ideal is to find a widow, do not want to find a divorce, but if people are good, they can also be considered, because she just knew that the eldest brother has been divorced for twenty-five years, so there is no worry, the eldest brother will go back to find his ex-wife.
The two sat down again, and this time the eldest brother first asked the eldest sister: How many stray cats have you adopted?
Sister Liu said: There is no adoption, just feeding seven or eight stray cats downstairs in the community, not falling for a day, sending cat food every day, and it has been 12 years now.
Brother Ma said, you are like me, the eldest sister is a little surprised: do you also send?
The eldest brother said that he likes dogs, cats and other animals, but he does not keep them, and often buys some dried fish to feed the neighbor's kittens.
Sister Liu agreed with this and said that she thought the same way, and the two had something in common.
She said: There is a saying that people who like small animals are kinder.
After the two communicated, the eldest brother and the red lady said privately that he had a good impression of Sister Liu, because they both liked small animals, and the two were on the same frequency at this point.
Since the eldest brother had a good impression of the eldest sister, he began to take the initiative to attack below.
The eldest brother proposed to wash some fruit, and the eldest sister also took the initiative to say: Let's go together.
The two bought and washed together, and the relationship between the two became more and more familiar with each other.
The eldest sister said that she bought a very good set of fruits and was very good at picking, but she would not buy lipstick and did not understand it.
The eldest brother took over the stubble and said: You won't buy it, I can help you introduce it."
Watching the atmosphere getting better and better, the camera brother jokingly interjected: not only lipstick, hyaluronic acid, essence, the big brother understands.
The eldest brother continued: "Well, I still have a little research on lipstick."
The eldest sister and the red lady sighed privately: When I washed the fruit, there was a man standing next to me, like a family, this feeling is really good, so many years have been alone, for a long time there has been no such feeling.
When the eldest brother and the red lady communicate privately, they are already enjoying the life after the two are together.
He and the red lady said: When you come back next time, it will be Sister Liu who opens the door for you, and the life after being together is simply too warm.
After both of them determined their good feelings for each other, the eldest sister also felt more secure.
She said: After making an appointment on a blind date, I dreamed that night, and all I dreamed about was you, and although I had only watched TV once, my dreams were very real.
She continued that the appearance of the eldest brother, as if engraved in her mind at the time, woke up the next day and did not dare to tell the children.
Now after seeing the real person, the eldest sister said that she must not miss this opportunity, so she began to take the initiative to confess.
She said in front of Brother Ma: After meeting, I feel that you are a very good person, maybe this is the fate.
The eldest brother interjected: I am just a little real, stupid.
The eldest sister directly confessed: Can we be in one place? Through today's red bride to build a bridge for us, after getting to know, it feels very good, if you agree, we will be in one place, to see if we can be in tune in other aspects in the future.
The eldest brother said succinctly: Yes, that line.
As soon as the eldest sister heard this, she immediately took out her mobile phone and said: Then let's add, don't forget something.
"We know too little about love." —Freud, founder of the psychoanalytic school of psychology, before his death.
In the whole process of blind date, Liu Dajie only talked about whether she liked each other and whether the other party's living habits were in tune, and did not talk about the management of family finances.
This is rare in blind date programs, whether it is young people, or middle-aged and elderly blind dates, "who cares about money" This has always been an important topic, but Liu Dajie did not talk about it.
From the performance of the eldest sister in the blind date, it can be seen that she is coming for the person of Big Brother Ma, and the height, temperament and humor of the other party are matched, and what can make the eldest sister not care about money may be "love".
As she said: I have all you in my dreams.
That's true!
Who are you dreaming of?