Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
Love is a game of love and love, and it needs two people to break through together.
When two people are together, they must operate with their hearts and maintain their feelings with each other. If so, without one party to operate, love will be missing color.
How many women, in order to keep the passionate love and let the man love her forever, can't help but pay and please in every possible way.
Women, do you know, there are also many invalid givings in love.
The means to let a man not change his heart and love you for a lifetime can be summed up in four words: "value exchange".
02. Exchange emotional values and gain insight into his heart
I've seen a report that says:
A boy stood on a bridge and wanted to jump.
It just so happened that a girl ran up to him, showed the scar on her wrist, and told him that giving up her life would not solve the problem and was a sign of cowardice.
She said that she had done stupid things in the past, and she was glad that she was rescued. Now that I'm living a good life, I feel stupid when I think about what I thought at the time.
She stepped forward and hugged the boy, who hugged her and cried.
Later, the boy was inspired to work his own hands. The relationship between the two people has also changed from strangers to friends, lovers, and they live together lovingly.
Women and men also have emotional changes, and they also bear a lot of pressure and burden.
If so, if you want a man to love you deeply, you must learn to exchange values, gain insight into a man's heart, and understand what he thinks in his heart.
Pete Collins said, "Love is a magical process through which we can meet our soulmates. ”
You can know his fear, his helplessness, and can be his spiritual support.
Understanding his difficulties can give him more tenderness and love. Then, men will inevitably cherish you more and love you.
03. Exchange value, support and encourage each other
In this life, there are many difficult moments, and you never know how much wind and rain awaits you in the future.
And, most of the women who really make men can't let go are because she has strong value. When two people are together, there is an effect that one plus one is greater than the sum of its parts.
When encountering difficulties, exchange ideas, opinions, and experiences with each other, face problems together, and solve problems together.
Men will love her more deeply because of a woman's trust and her help.
Su Qin said: "True love is to give each other something special. Not everyone has the ability to give you the best of everything, but at least you can prove your worth in each other's hearts with something different. ”
When encountering something, if a woman can hold up half the sky, the man will appreciate the woman more and will be more impressed by her.
Between husband and wife, grow together, be consistent with the outside world, have dependence, and have balance.
You can eliminate the negative thoughts in each other's hearts and support each other.
There is a material exchange, and there is also an emotional exchange, so that the two become one and can no longer be separated.
04. Exchange love and actively express love
Jiang Ni and Xu Fengnian in "Swords in the Snow", the two are burdened with national hatred and family hatred, but they grew up together since childhood and have a deep love for each other.
On the surface, Jiang Ni has always been an enemy of Xu Fengnian, but in fact, he grew up with him, and he is the person who understands him in the world.
The two of them were forced to separate due to the development of the situation, and Xu Fengnian handed over his mother's sword to Jiang Ni, which was regarded as a token of love.
When he returned to his ship, he found that Jiang Ni had given him a dagger rune that could be exchanged for a city.
Xu Fengnian was particularly shocked and moved, and he was even more determined in this feeling.
Between them, because they trust each other, they generously show their love, and decide that no matter how the situation develops in the future, they must follow each other.
Zhang Jiajia wrote: "The only effective way to comfort me is that you are by my side. ”
Women, if you love someone, you must be brave enough to express it, so that he can feel your sincerity and affection.
In the world of feelings, don't let a man take the initiative alone, but actively exchange the love in your heart and express your deep affection for him.
Because of your love, men will feel that their lives are more valuable and meaningful, cherish your existence more, and are willing to treat you as the only one in this life and love you alone.
05. Summary
Love can nourish women and experience more happiness in the world.
If you want to make love last longer, women must constantly improve themselves and manage their feelings with each other.
Women, when you know how to exchange your value with men, they will respect you more, and when you can provide emotional value and express love for men, men will love you more.
Husbands and wives should learn to express love and understand each other. Running in both directions, the feelings will not be washed away by time, and each other's hands will be held more firmly.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.