Use the simplest words to give you warmth, give you companionship, lead you to grow, and help you be strong.
Being alone is not because of indifference, but because after a thousand sails, there is a new way of life.
Once single-mindedly devoted to friends, but the result was encountered across the river and demolished the bridge, ungrateful.
He once plucked out his heart and lungs for his relatives, but as a result, his relatives could not see that they were good, and they would take revenge.
Who was not simply kind, full of blood, had a chivalrous heart, and was eager to save the world.
But the number of times it can be let down is more, the number of times it is hurt, and slowly I understand human nature and see through the evil side of human nature.
Life is like this, like people drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
In the end, you understand that "the aspirations are different, the ways are not in harmony, and they do not conspire with each other." ”
When people have different aspirations, different three views, and different levels, words cannot be said together, ideas cannot be agreed with each other, and hearts and hearts cannot be sorry for each other.
Therefore, on the road of life, when you continue to move forward, there will be fewer and fewer people on the same road with you, and eventually there will be no friends, and the family affection is also very weak.
You have become a solitary person.
This solitude is not your thin feelings, not that you have no humanity, but the inevitability of your continuous climbing to a higher place.
There is a sentence in Lu Xun's essay "Grave": "Only cattle and sheep will flock, and lions and tigers will only walk alone." ”
Truly powerful people often take the initiative to stay away from the rabble and go alone.
They see through human nature, and there is a sharp edge in kindness
In a world of extreme materialism, many relationships are based on interests.
Some people, who are only concerned with taking, are very stingy in giving.
In the relationship between people, knowing people knows the face and does not know the heart, and human nature also has an evil side.
Not all sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity; not all goodness can be exchanged for kindness.
If you wholeheartedly do things for others, for others, and for others, you may only get hurt.
"A man is good and is deceived, and a horse is good to be ridden." Blind kindness, only bullying will be gained.
People who come and go alone, have no friends, and their affection is very weak.
It is not that there are no friends in life, there is no family affection, but it is hurt a lot, gradually seeing through human nature, away from some people, and detaching from many relationships.
Put away the warm heart, still kind, but there is a sharp edge in that kindness.
It is not easy to be kind, not easy to trust others, reduce too much contact, and cut off unnecessary contact.
They don't pander to flattery and know how to live well
Pandering to others is wronged by oneself; pleasing others, being humble is oneself.
When people live a lifetime, they should not focus on pandering to others, but should please themselves and live themselves seriously.
In order to fit in and please others, you should not deliberately say something against your heart and do something against your will.
Do not cater to others, do not deliberately please others, seriously live themselves, gradually become solitary, no friends, family affection is also very weak.
When the true heart is always let down, it loses the passion and impulse to pay, begins to put away its own efforts, and begins to think about itself.
Will put more thought, more time, more energy, into their own body.
It is in response to the saying: "The best investment in life is himself." ”
Investing in others and managing relationships with your heart often backfires.
Even if you are sincere with others, when it comes to the critical time, especially when you are in trouble, you will not find anyone who is willing to help you.
Instead of seriously managing various relationships, it is better to make yourself strong, improve your ability, and plump your wings.
It is better to rely on people than to rely on yourself, and to shield yourself from the wind and rain is the most reliable.
They are strong at heart and are not afraid of loneliness.
Gregariousness is the loneliness of a group of people; being alone is the joy of a person.
Many people like to make friends everywhere because they can't stand loneliness and fear loneliness.
It seems that only by being surrounded by friends can we dispel loneliness, not fear, and not loneliness.
But in the end, what you inevitably get is a true friend, a relative who is really good for himself, but a group of fox friends and dog friends, wine and meat friends.
And people with strong hearts are not afraid of loneliness, can withstand loneliness, and enjoy loneliness.
Gradually, I got used to being alone, and I also enjoyed a person, and I liked to be alone.
In this way, they do not get together at will, do not participate in the liquor and dinner bureau at will, have few friends, and their family affection is also very weak.
In their own world, they are at ease and full of heart.
There is no panic, no loneliness, and some are comfortable life.
Read books, raise flowers, drink tea, and accompany time, quiet and far-reaching.
In the face of great ups and downs, they can not be alarmed; in the face of tribulations and misfortunes, they can be indifferent.
Going it alone is not a kind of compulsion, but a choice.
Being alone is the best way to survive after experiencing the cold and warmth of the world and seeing the prosperity and loneliness.
In this way, although they have no friends and their family affection is very weak, they live a wonderful life and their lives are also very rich.
See through human nature, know how to rely on yourself, no longer waste time and feelings on top of useless social interaction, begin to love yourself, please yourself at the same time, constantly improve yourself, let yourself transform and grow.
Being alone is the enlightenment after all the vicissitudes, and it is a sign of a person's true maturity.