At the end of 2021, get ready and move forward again

#十二月你好, see you in November ##父母老了 #

Time is like water, caught off guard, and 2021 is coming in December. In the last time of November, the bank loan was ushered in, which means that from December onwards, it will be necessary to work for the bank for a long time in the future!

Last night on the phone with my mother, the old lady knew that I was going to start repaying the loan, and the first sentence was: Then do you have enough money? There is no impatience in the heart when I was young, only warm. The so-called children's worries are like this.

Gradually, I could cook more than an hour of telephone porridge with my mother, and talk to her about the world I saw and about my life. When she did not understand, she was no longer excited and angry, but calmly explained the changes in the world to her, and reached a state of mutual understanding. It's a whole new experience for each of us.

I began to mature, and my parents grew older. Not only the aging of the body, their thinking gradually becomes stubborn and narrow, even willful, just like when we were children. I'm willing to spend more time and patience with her, sharing the world I've seen that they haven't seen, and hopefully soothing their insecurities that can't keep up with the changing pace of this era.

When I hung up the phone, my mother said, this time last year, as soon as I called you, I was going to argue with me, and now that you are so sensible, I am relieved. In the past year, from sensitive and sharp to now more and more peaceful and tolerant, looking back, I feel a little magical. Maybe it's the power of time, or maybe it's the energy from Mr. Q.

No matter what, be a better version of yourself. In the last month of 2021, be good, persistent, and accomplish what you should, and want. Live up to the years, live up to yourself!