I often hear people say "fireproof, anti-theft and anti-girlfriend", which is true.
Generally speaking, women see that their girlfriend's man is excellent and think about when I want to be with him; while men see that their brother's woman is beautiful, they just want to find such an object in the future.
In Mo Yan's novel "Red Sorghum Family", Yu Zhan'ao, the man of jiu'er, is worried about the handmaiden lover next to him, and when the time is ripe, he does not hesitate to grab it, and his name is: "The man you don't want, I don't want to rob it." As for whether it can succeed or not, it also depends on the man's face. If he had never thought of such a thing, and was loyal to his woman, then even the best girlfriend could not take it away.
However, whether in the original novel or in the adapted TV series "Red Sorghum", the lover has succeeded, she of course does not rely on her own posture or to get Yu Zhan'ao's love, but he chose to be with the intimate woman next to her in order to retaliate against Jiu'er, which can be described as quite vicious and broke Jiu'er's heart.
However, Yu Zhan'ao did not hate Jiu'er, but only retaliated, revenge for her lack of appreciation. In the play, there is such a scene: Yu Zhan'ao is deeply in love with the front of the Single Family Compound and scolds and grins, and even kicks the door to the slamming, Jiu'er in order to shame him and directly pours a bucket of urine directly on his head, which undoubtedly angers Yu Zhan'ao and also pours cold feelings on both sides.
At this time, Yu Zhan'ao could not get off the stage, and he could not break into the compound to find Jiu'er to settle the account, and then what account could he calculate? And you can't walk away immediately, that hurts a lot of face. At this moment, the scheming lover appeared, and her sudden confession to Yu Zhan'ao became a life-saving straw to help him break the siege, and also made Jiu'er stunned on the spot, and she did not ease her mind for a long time.
At this time, Yu Zhan'ao, who had been off the stage, began to fight back, showing off to Jiu'er while holding his arms around His er. In fact, he was not in love, and as long as a woman was willing to stand by his side, he also hugged him to prove that he was attractive: you don't want me, there are so many women who want to be with me.
But this lover is no one else, although she is nominally the ninth child's maid, but the relationship between them is excellent, and they have suffered together, more intimate than the sisterhood relationship of the average family, in our words today called girlfriend. Jiu'er saw that it was Lian'er who was rushing towards Yu Zhan'ao, and she didn't know how big the shadow area in her heart was, at least at that time, her heart was painful.
Soon after living with Her Sweet Er, Yu Zhan'ao began to get tired, especially when she saw the shortcomings of her body, she thought of Jiu'er's good. However, Yu Zhan'ao, who is not good at handling the relationship between men and women, and has a machismo, has begun a new round of revenge after eating the closed door soup in front of Jiu'er.
For example, one night, Yu Zhan'ao went to the Shan family compound to ask to see Jiu'er, and after being rejected, he was very faceless, so he found a step for himself, so he made up an excuse to say that he came to tell Jiu'er to let her drink his and his lover's happy wine tomorrow, and then angrily returned to his home in Xianshuikouzi Village.
The manly husband is a big husband, and it is difficult to chase the horse without a word. Since Yu Zhan'ao said that he wanted to invite Jiu'er to drink happy wine, he had to marry His Lover. Lian'er was naturally excited and ecstatic, but Yu Zhan'ao was worried and couldn't be happy at all. He originally just said an angry word, but he did not expect to ride the tiger difficult, and could only watch and continue to act, and finally faked it.
Jiu'er naturally did not miss such a good opportunity to stir up trouble, so she let Grandma Dashao take her two children to go, Yu Zhan'ao looked confused when she saw the children, and the bride's lover was angry and ran away. When Lian'er returned, Yu Zhan'ao could only honestly explain that he did not love her, that he loved Jiu'er, and that he only did this to anger him and retaliate against her.
No matter what Lian'er said, Yu Zhan'ao still returned to Jiu'er's side, and this farce came to a temporary end. Judging from the whole incident, although it was Jiu'er who was hurt, she did not hate this man, but instead tried to find a way to lead him to the right path, from a bandit who did nothing evil to an anti-Japanese hero that everyone admired - this is true love.
Just like jiu'er said to her lover: "A woman who cherishes her man should know what kind of path the man who led her should take." Lovers only know that being with the man they like is everything, and never thinking about how to cherish is love.
Although both women were hurt by loving a man, their attitudes were different. Jiu'er's love does not care about the previous suspicions, and even correctly guides Yu Zhan'ao, while the love of The lover is a pure possession, and she has become a poor worm who is noisy and noisy but not pleasing at both ends. If Yu Zhan'ao's revenge was against Lian'er instead of Jiu'er, the ending might have been much more tragic.
Because Jiu'er knows that Yu Zhan'ao's revenge is for love, just like an adult who cries and cries when he sees his child because he can't get the same thing, when he is tired of crying, he still has to obediently go home. It is undeniable that Yu Zhan'ao's revenge is really vicious enough for Jiu'er, and being with a woman she is intimate with is even more vicious revenge.