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Is there such a person in your heart?
She is brave and doesn't get overwhelmed by anything, and men like this kind of woman.
After re-reading the original work of "Red Sorghum" 3 years later, after watching the TV series, I still appreciate Jiu'er's personality and admire her big pattern. Her family is poor, her father gambles like fate and ignores family affection, her brother is not motivated, and her sister-in-law is selfish. Even in order to pay off the gambling debts, her father, who disregarded his family's affection, actually sold her mother and house, and finally became so mad that he promised her to a young master of the single family who suffered from leprosy.
People with cowardly and weak personalities encounter these situations in such a family, and may not be able to withstand the blow and choose to go to extremes, or they may be powerless to resist resigned to fate.
Zhang Junjie's family was wealthy and he was a rich young master. The two of them have a common heart, a deep affection, and even a lifelong promise to each other. Since ancient times, it has paid attention to the door to the door, and the two people's family situation is very different, which is naturally opposed by the man's parents.
What about opposition, what she values is not Zhang Junjie's wealth but him as a person. As long as the other person treats her consistently, she is not afraid of everything. In the face of love, for the brave Jiu'er, she can bravely face the love she pursues. In the face of life, in the face of those bad things, there is no compromise and concession.
There are so many places where her bravery and determination can be reflected. For example, after her mother was sold, the first thing she did was to find a way to raise money to redeem her mother, but it was only one step too late. After her mother committed suicide, Jiu'er did not fall into pain for too long, on the contrary, she was not sad and sad, but it was better to avenge her mother than to cry alone.
In that era, girls did not want to do what they wanted, feudal thinking still required women to understand the three from four virtues, to understand etiquette, and to bind them from all aspects.
But Jiu'er is such a special existence, after reading the original work, I have always known that Jiu'er is not a cowardly person who does not know how to resist. Instead, she was brave, affectionate, and decisive. She is a person with a personality and a temper.
Men like jiu'er such a brave, personality woman.
Zhang Junjie of qingmei bamboo horse has never forgotten her, and the flower neck has been worried about her for a long time, and Yu Zhan'ao has long regarded her as his own woman.
In the era of "Red Sorghum", the status of women was very low, and they had to be attached to men. But Jiu'er is different from others. She is a very assertive, thoughtful person.
"I'm myself, I'm not anybody's who."
It is such a person who has ideas, in the face of feelings, she chooses to follow her own wishes. Free love with Zhang Junjie. Even if she knew that she would not get the approval and approval of the other parents, she was firm in her choice.
Once, Zhang Junjie inadvertently revealed in front of his mother that he was going to elope with Jiu'er, but unexpectedly, Jiu'er was kidnapped by his parents and let the bandits take him away.
Sometimes, a miss, a hurt, a lifetime is difficult to repair. It's Zhang Junjie and Jiu'er.
Hua Neck has been worried about Jiu'er for a long time, and naturally will not let go of such an opportunity, wanting to marry her immediately.
In other words, ordinary people may be frightened into being left alone, either to compromise or to go to extremes. But Jiu'er was different from others. She can bravely stand in front of the neck of the flower and negotiate with her. This boldness and courage is not possessed by ordinary women.
For Jiu'er, if he was not willing, no one could force himself to give in and compromise. She would rather die than marry Flower Neck against her heart. As it turned out, she won and gained her freedom.
But she also gave up on the love she had always insisted on. Zhang Junjie would rather be misunderstood by her than tell the truth, then she is not willing to drag mud and water, embarrass each other, it is better to go from this day to the next, do not disturb each other.
Unable to leave the country with his beloved, he had to marry the young master of the Shan family who suffered from leprosy.
For all the injustices she encountered, she did not cry or run away except to face them head-on. It can be seen that she is still calm and calm sitting in the flower car.
Yu Zhan'ao, after she carried her to sleep in the sorghum field on the way back to her mother's house, this man who occupied a very important position in her later life, the two people also began to have a real intersection from this moment.
Looking at "Red Sorghum" again, I have a different view of Jiu'er, and I know that such a brave woman, men like this kind of woman.
There's a stark contrast. The lover in the play was originally Jiu'er's Yahuan. A person with a conscience who knows how to repay the favor will not do anything to be sorry for the master. But she just remembered Jiu'er's man, and after falling in love with him, she also took the opportunity to seduce him.
In love, some women will adhere to the original intention, maintain dignity and bottom line to love a person; some people can abandon the so-called dignity and bottom line for each other. In front of a lover, you can give up everything.
For the sake of a man's loss of self-love, she completely regards Yu Zhan'ao as the whole of her life, and she does not even want dignity, let alone consider whether her actions have hurt Jiu'er.
I have to admit that love will make some people lose their minds.
Take Jiu'er and Lian'er together for a comparison, and immediately see where the gap is. The bravery, heart and pattern of Jiu'er's body are all incomparable to lovers.
The same is to love a person, the lover can be desperate, no dignity, no bottom line. Jiu'er, on the other hand, was able to keep her sanity in love and knew that she was right to do something.
For Jiu'er, Yu Zhan'ao loves herself or not, she can be brave enough to live well. In the face of love, she always knows what to do and what not to do.
For Yu Zhan'ao's betrayal of herself and entanglement with her lover, she can leave decisively, and she can also choose to forgive at the right time. But this is not a concession to please. Going through a lot of things has made her braver and able to make a lot of rational choices.
It is not difficult to see from Jiu'er that the best state in love is not to be accommodating and not humble. Respect yourself before you can get the respect of others.
A woman has her own personality and uses the setbacks and blows of life as a motivation to make herself strong. Brave women with personalities, men will like, such as Jiu'er. People who are humble and flattering and desperate to pester will only push each other farther away, such as lovers.
Zhang Ailing said: "Loving a person will be humble to the dust, but if you put yourself too low, bury yourself too deep in the dust, you can't see the sun after all, and such love can't blossom, let alone bear fruit." ”
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