Why will 40 million men face singleness? How can we get rid of being single and how can we stand out from it?
In fact, the increase in single men is not only because there are fewer girls, but more importantly, most young people are more and more afraid to express their inner love, more and more single boys, their attitude towards feelings is also more and more contemptuous, which leads to an increasing number of singles. If we want to get rid of being single quickly, a lot of times we have to take a proactive approach. Although everything is good with fate, opportunities often prefer to go to the active side. If you take the initiative to master the scientific method, you will get unexpected results on the road of love.
A very ordinary boy can't feel inferior because he is not handsome, and at the same time, he can't feel inferior because he doesn't have money, and this result will only make you lose more. We're not handsome enough to be rich enough, but you have to be able to chat. Chatting can help you open a girl's heart and make it easier for you to succeed in love and move towards the happiness you want.
There are many chat software in daily life, such as QQ WeChat seems to be a simple communication tool, but it looks very simple, but it is not like this.
I met a friend who had liked a girl for a long time, but after talking to that girl recently, he found that the girl was increasingly disliked talking to him and even wanted to avoid it, which made my friend very helpless. Then I asked him how he talked to her, and he said that usually in the beginning, he would ask her what she was doing, whether she had eaten, and later, he felt that the girl was getting more and more annoying to him, and he felt that he was getting hopeless. After listening to him, I told him that this kind of uninvited way of chatting will make her feel more annoyed and even disgusted in her work life, not to mention that she is someone you like very much.
So how to have a pleasant chat with the girl you particularly like.
First, reasonably control the time spent chatting with girls
When chatting with girls, be sure to choose a good time. Like when girls get up in the morning or on their way to work, you shouldn't go talk to her at this stage. If you go to chat, the girls will have no patience, no interest, and no mood to chat with you, and you will feel very frustrated. Instead, you'd better find a suitable time to chat with the girl, such as after dinner at lunchtime. At this time, we are all more relaxed. If you are lucky, the girls encounter happy things in life and work, and she will share them with you, so you can have a more pleasant chat.
Second, pay attention to the way you speak
Everyone likes to listen to happy and pleasing words, especially girls with cat attributes like to listen to some words of praise from the opposite sex. But this time it's not about teaching you to use some extreme exaggeration or even "licking" expressions. If you look at her circle of friends, you can praise some specific details. For example, when you see the clothes she's wearing today, most boys will say she's as beautiful and beautiful as a flower. This kind of praise that seems exaggerated will only disgust the girls. You can say that the color of your clothes and the necklace of the earrings go together perfectly for you. With this way of speaking, the girl will feel your sincerity and attentiveness.
Third, when chatting, they know how to respect each other
Some boys think they can chat with girls at will, so they talk about topics that girls seem to be interested in, such as being immodest with girls at first. Note that chatting and "flirting" are two completely different concepts. Happy chats can get value exchange and idea boosting. If you don't know how to respect each other, it will only make people very disgusted. Knowing how to respect girls is a prerequisite for chatting. Mutual respect is therefore essential.
Learn the above methods, we can stand out from the army and get rid of singleness. I hope that my single friends will leave single soon.