The so-called weakness is our weakness, the fatal point of our defeat by others, and the root cause of our unpleasant or ill-fated lives, so let's talk about "What is the fatal weakness of women?" "If there is any deficiency, you are also welcome to check and fill in the gaps with wisdom."
1, a woman's Achilles heel is: nagging.
According to the statistics of relevant psychobehavioral research, men have to speak 5,000 words a day, and women have to speak 25,000 words a day, obviously, in a certain time interval, women have to say more than men.
Is that mostly the fatal weakness? Yes, under certain environmental conditions, most of the words spoken are nagging, which is a fatal weakness.
For example, in the process of running a marriage and family, men will add trouble to women's nagging, and children will not want to listen to their mothers because of their mother's nagging, which not only damages the relationship between husband and wife, but also makes cracks in the parent-child relationship.
2, a woman's Achilles heel is: dependence psychology.
Dependence can also be called self-reliance, especially those who do not have a job, do not want to find a job, always want to marry a rich and capable man, dependent on men to live a woman, it is difficult to get happiness in their lives.
Once in an event, I saw such a couple, the man is an entrepreneur, and his wife is a full-time mother, and now the children are grown up and have their own lives, while his wife is still not working, it can be said that the family's source of income is all supported by men alone.
Many people may envy his wife, envy his wife does not have to get up early and go to work in the dark, and at the same time, in exchange, the big and small affairs of the family are decided by men, women have almost no right to speak, and even if they want to buy a thing, they have to look at the man's face, then will you envy this woman?
Yes, only by relying on the income earned by their own hands, buying things will be ashamed, women only get rid of the dependence on men, at least have a job income that can afford to support themselves, and live more confidently.
3, a woman's Achilles heel is: vanity.
There is such a female entrepreneur, is doing female beauty plastic surgery, in her business, every day a large number of women to do plastic surgery, according to her words, she plans to add another psychological counseling section in the scope of the business, because she feels that these to do plastic surgery, more or less have some psychological problems.
According to her observations and related statistics, most of the people who come to her to do plastic surgery are some Internet celebrities or people who want to be Internet celebrities, and she also said that in the same industry, there is a company that has an accident in the process of doing cosmetic surgery for customers, resulting in the company being seized.
So, since plastic surgery is so risky, why are some people still willing to go for plastic surgery? I think it's precisely because they're not confident in their looks, and another point is vanity, because they think that changing their looks will attract more people's attention and make money on their faces.
There are also some women, in order to be able to easily live a rich life, in order to satisfy their own vanity, at the expense of their innocence, and even willing to fall into the hands of some people, and all this tragedy, is the woman's "vanity" at work.
4, a woman's Achilles heel is: sensuality.
It is also because of women's sensual characteristics that women are more likely to be moved by some of men's rhetoric, and they are more likely to be blinded by men's sweet words.
It goes without saying that so far, men's so-called pursuit of women's routines have been created in response to the weakness of women's "sensibility".
Sensibility is both a woman's weakness and a woman's advantage, because it is kind because of sensibility, but if sensibility has no bottom line, it becomes a major weakness of women.
Changyan Changyu:
What is a woman's Achilles heel?
Women's fatal weakness is the dependence psychology of "relying on men to survive", women's fatal weakness is excessive obsession with sweet words, and women's fatal weakness is to like others too much, like others to praise themselves beautiful, good figure, and it is difficult to accept the aging and change of appearance, and can not accept others to say that they are "not good-looking".
And one of the weaknesses that we all share is that we recognize our words, we listen to them, and refute our words, but we find it difficult to accept, as we all know, those who refute us or refute our words are actually the most conducive to our checking and filling in the gaps, and the most conducive to our improvement of our own "natural boosters".
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