Inadvertently seeing a sentence on the Internet, the channel for adults to end a relationship is not quarrels and collapses, but a silent departure, as if the heart has already been thousands of troops. But on the surface, it still does not change color. Talking to you about today's experience, not to give in, not to publicize, as if you have already seen through everything. This state is actually quite comfortable.
Once there was a friend who had been in a relationship for ten years, and we had a very good relationship, and after going to college, we went to different cities. At the beginning, we still often contacted each other, and the circle of friends also liked and commented on each other. On their birthdays, they will send each other gifts, and they will make a few phone calls to talk about the latest situation. Until later, as they studied with each other, work became busier and busier, and the people and things they came into contact with were completely unsociable. Gradually, we stopped contacting each other, and even the circle of friends rarely liked it. It wasn't until I had an inadvertent conversation with another bit friend one day that I learned he was married three months ago. And left the industry he had loved for a few years. When I first heard that my friend got married without notifying me, I thought I would be sad. The former good friend said that he broke off, but it seemed that he was only lost for a few seconds. It turns out that we have all diluted each other's place in our hearts over the years. Adult care is sometimes really too fragile to withstand the slightest test. One no longer asks, one stops talking, and so drifts away. But from another point of view, life is a process of continuous encounters and farewells, and it is good to look down. Friends are like a tidal wave coming and going, and then coming and going. It's like friends around us, though come and go. But in the process, we must have left us with a lot of unforgettable, they accompanied us for a gentle time. You say, isn't that enough? So regarding friendship, please don't be too greedy. Seeing clearly and looking down on it, I think this is probably the most familiar way for adults to end a relationship.
When we were young, when we were awkward or far away from a person, we would cry and say, I don't play with you anymore. And the channel for adults to end a relationship is not quarrels and breakdowns. but. A silent distance, the other party hurt his own heart, will not rush to theorize with him, will not tear his heart and lungs to entangle why. But it is no longer to communicate with him, to take back the care and care for him before. Slowly and slowly from the heart, I began to move away from him. Because we gradually understood. Constantly dwelling on the cause of the problem is a naïve approach. Even if the reason is asked, what can be done? The ending will not change, it will only add to your own embarrassment.
Ending a wrong relationship may be painful for us, but the long pain is not as good as the short pain. Love will never settle down, but respect and tolerate each other, love a person should not make yourself humble to the point of no dignity. You have to believe that there is no such person in this world. Hungry to eat with you, sleepy to sleep with you, crying and waiting for you to laugh. The best is always in the end, leave a decent oneself, and leave the best self to the best