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Take your time, child, I'm waiting for you

author:Hao Hao said
Take your time, child, I'm waiting for you

Babies, babies, little friends, little children, all about children. This is also the most appropriate description of a child's name from childhood to adulthood.

One thing in common is the word "small".

Yeah, they're all still young and have so much to learn.

The little head is filled with exploration of the world, or ignorant and fearless. There are often many things that make you stunned or angry.

For moms, this is all no longer normal.

It is precisely because they are still young that they are doing everything very slowly.

Often people can't help but want to get angry,

Want to urge, even want to do this for them,

If there is resistance, we may also be reprimanded loudly and forcibly deprived of their right to accomplish this.

Then, it's the end of crying and crying.

When we all calmed down, did you find that when you patiently waited for them to finish this, it didn't take much longer, but it was just a few minutes, and we could wait for him.

The result of urging him is: things are completed, or we have done them for him, his heart is unwilling, it is done with an eager mentality, and the things done are not ideal, so that they lose an opportunity to learn. More importantly, the number of times he urges is more, and his personality will be impatient and unable to concentrate, which is the biggest harm.

The result of not urging him is that you have told him to do another thing, although you are very hot, but you are still patiently waiting for him, and waiting next to him, in fact, his heart is known, but also very hard to complete his own things as soon as possible, so that his impatience will be much lighter, doing things will be accelerated, but also in turn to comfort you, help to improve his personality.

We are also from children, understand that children are not empty words, try not to do no purposeless urging, appropriate urging or, a few minutes in advance to tell him, we are going to go out, after a while will find out, maybe they want them to urge you!

I am Hao Hao talking, sharing experiences, sharing life, thank you for reading.

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Take your time, child, I'm waiting for you

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