With the development of the times, there are more and more international exchanges, more and more Korean actresses who come to China for development, and there are many who leave China to get married and have children.
However, the encounter between the two people became a sharp contrast.
South Korean actress Cai Lin officially announced her divorce with her husband Gao Ziqi on December 7 last year.
It is said that the last 3 years of the 6-year marriage were almost zero communication, and the two spent less time together.
In contrast, after another Chinese and Korean couple, Qiu Xuancera and Yu Xiaoguang had children, the relationship between husband and wife was more harmonious.
As Han Xing, who followed the trend of development in China at that time, the two encountered similarities, and their husbands were together because of filming, why was the situation of Cai Lin and Qiu Xuan porcelain so different?
Cai Lin was born in March 1979 in Seoul, South Korea, and graduated from Seoul National University of the Arts.
In 1994, she officially debuted by participating in the Miss Haitai Audition.
By starring in the hydrangea in "Dear You", it completely caught fire in Korea.
Subsequently, he shot many works and won many honors.
The beginning of the 21st century was a period of vigorous development of Chinese entertainment culture.
Perhaps the Korean stars at that time felt that the development prospects in China were better, and they all flocked to China.
Cai Lin also entered the Chinese mainland in 2004.
At that time, Chinese entertainment was also somewhat outdated.
In her first year in the mainland, she starred in "Love in the Aegean Sea" with Su Youpeng, which became popular overnight and was deeply loved by Chinese audiences.
Cai Lin, who has fame, is deeply loved by major directors, and the film does not stop at all.
Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi became acquainted with each other for filming "Li Family Compound".
At that time, the two even used translation software to communicate, but they still did not block the spark of love.
The two chose to get married in the case of less than a year of love.
Yet marriages at first sight rarely last long.
After marriage, the two took their parents to a reality show, and the first shot of the show saw Cai Lin packing her needed luggage in the room.
While packing his bags, he took the Chinese with a stammer and said, "This is the mother-in-law's, that is the father-in-law's." ”
However, Gao Ziqi's Korean was not much better.
In the show, the family will also have various contradictions because of language.
Although both sides have good intentions, they are often misinterpreted by language.
Over time, the relationship between Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi has also changed somewhat.
Neither husband and wife wants to learn a language for the sake of each other, and translation software is used for daily communication.
However, translation software is not 100% correct either, and sometimes translation errors can occur, often making things worse.
In 2017, the two had a child, and Cai Lin quit the show business circle for the sake of the child.
But who knows that she suffers from postpartum depression like many pregnant women.
When Gao Ziqi was most needed, he was not there.
Why not?
At that time, Gao Ziqi's mother just happened to be ill.
He had been busy taking care of his mother and not caring for Cai Lin.
Postpartum depression and not being cared for made Cai Lin very disappointed and directly returned to South Korea with her child.
The mother-in-law who knew about this matter not only did not persuade Gao Ziqi to find Cai Lin.
Instead, he persuaded Gao Ziqi to find another one.
All kinds of situations just piled up, so that Cai Lin had the idea of divorce.
Many careful netizens found that Cai Lin had emptied her Weibo a few years ago.
And Gao Ziqi also sent a Weibo message in an ominous manner:
"So much has happened in the past year"
These signs make people suspect that the marriage of the two has changed.
Yet they don't admit it.
In 2020, due to the outbreak of the epidemic, there was no chance to meet, and the relationship between the two finally had no room for redemption.
At the end of 20 years, Cai Lin announced on her personal account that she was single.
At the same time, when she came to China to develop, and stayed in China to get married and have children, the fate of Qiu Xuan Porcelain was exactly the opposite of her.
I remember when I first saw Qiu Xuan porcelain on the screen when I was a child, it was because of the "Temptation to Go Home" that left a deep impression on me.
It is precisely because of this TV series that she quickly became famous in China.
However, the autumn dazzling porcelain that scenery in front of people, the life of a child was very tragic.
Cho Cho Cho Hyun was born in 1979 to an ordinary family in Osaka, South Korea.
However, this family is very patriarchal, and the birth of Qiu Xuan porcelain has made the family very dissatisfied.
Later, he added a sister to Qiu Xuan porcelain, which made the family, which already had many contradictions, even worse.
The scolding of the mother-in-law and the indifference of the husband have made Qiu Xuancera's mother's emotions always be in a tense state.
Even she and her sister had to live by looking at their grandmother's face.
Just when she was 10 years old, her sister drowned, and this blow caused Qiu Xuan porcelain's mother to fall and suffer from schizophrenia.
He often insulted Qiu Xuan porcelain, saying that why he died at that time was not Qiu Xuan porcelain.
Growing up in this family environment, Qiu Xuan Porcelain has never experienced the feeling of being loved.
But she was very sensible and persuaded her mother to leave the family.
Finally, when she was 17, her parents' unhappy marriage came to an end.
The two sides formed new families one after another.
However, Qiu Xuan porcelain was abandoned by the two.
At that time, Qiu Xuan porcelain was also competing, and he was admitted to the university with half work and half study.
In 1996, Qiu Xuan porcelain debuted for participating in "The Feeling of Growing Up 18".
In 2004, she followed the trend and came to China to develop.
Qiu Xuan Porcelain, who came to China, is different from Cai Lin, and she learned to Chinese in order to be able to develop better.
Subsequently, he filmed film and television works such as "The Legend of the Hero of the Great Banner", "Beauty Map", and "Intolerable".
The business is in steady development.
In 2011, she starred in "The Temptation to Go Home" and became popular all over the country, dominating the first place in the same period of broadcasting.
Qiu Xuan porcelain has also become popular all over the country, and this drama has also won the "Popular Idol of the New Year" award at the LeTV Network Festival.
Like many foreigners now, Qiu Xuan Porcelain regards China as his second hometown.
I gained a lot of fans in China.
Qiu Xuan porcelain, which is full of sad memories in South Korea, came to China and met the light in his life, Yu Xiaoguang.
In 2012, the two met for filming a TV series.
In the crew, Yu Xiaoguang felt heartfelt pain for Qiu Xuancera's experience as a child.
After the film was completed, Yu Xiaoguang sent a text message to Qiu Xuan porcelain for two years.
In 2015, Xuan Porcelain announced his relationship on Weibo.
In 2017, he stepped into the palace of marriage.
As soon as the wedding video was announced, it was on the hot search, and countless netizens commented on the blessing at the bottom.
After marriage, the two participated in the Korean variety show "Same Bed, Different Dreams"
The love of the two can be seen everywhere in the show.
Yu Xiaoguang studied Korean every day for his wife, and the money he earned was given to Qiu Xuan porcelain.
Because of his tragic experience as a child, Qiu Xuan porcelain was a little panicked about love, so he asked Yu Xiaoguang to sign a lot of "unequal" contracts.
However, Yu Xiaoguang didn't care, still sincerely facing Qiu Xuan porcelain, a proper wife to manage strictly.
Yu Xiaoguang's parents know qiu xuan porcelain's experience and treat her like their own daughter, protecting qiu xuan porcelain everywhere.
The children of the two were also participating in "The Same Bed, Different Dreams", and the protective measures were not done well.
Unlike Cai Lin's indifference when she was producing, Qiu Xuan porcelain at that time can be said to be the focus of the family.
Because the age at the time of production is not small, there have been many accidents in the process.
But fortunately, the mother and child were safe.
The first half of Qiu Xuan porcelain's life can be said to be unfortunate, but because of his positive and optimistic attitude towards life, he met the right person in the second half of his life and lived a very happy life.
One is Qiu Xuan Porcelain and Yu Xiaoguang, who are still happy and happy.
One is Cai Lin and Gao Ziqi, who divorced last year due to feeling rupture.
It's easy to see how much difference they can make.
It is not that the marriage is difficult to manage, but it mainly depends on how the two treat the relationship.
Marriage is not a one-time demand, but only by giving can there be a reward.
At the end, I wish that any lover can become a family member.