Everything must be grasped by one degree, otherwise it will only be counterproductive.
Yesterday the child drew, a whole paper lid almost did not have a little gap, or not satisfied, always have to add two strokes, and finally accidentally drew a line on the side of the lid, which completely destroyed her beauty, collapsed and cried.
I was really angry and funny by her earnestness: she had countless moments to stop and announce that she was finished. However, because of repeated dissatisfaction, the result was a busy end.
Children's greedy play ends up like this, and adults who do not grasp the good degree of work will also gain dissatisfaction.
Parents love their children, there is nothing wrong with it, but if it is excessive, it is coddling, which will either make the child rebellious or make the child have no opinion;
Husbands and wives, out of concern, understand each other's food, clothing, housing and transportation status and other situations, it is normal, but excessive, is the problem of control, the relationship will evolve into a deformed love, so that the other party has a sense of bondage, will only want to escape;
The old man, repeatedly talking about his old age, it has become a dependence on the old and selling the old, but it is not easy to get respect, such as the frequent news of grabbing seats on the bus and being scolded;
No matter how good a friend is, he should also keep an appropriate distance and write down the deepest secrets of his heart into a diary;
No matter how good the girlfriend is, or to grasp the frequency of the three of you in the same frame, there are not a few things that cause fire, do not compare trust with human nature, and do not easily test human nature;
No matter how fragrant the food is, it cannot be hard-braced, and it is not worth the loss to eat and vomit;
No matter how approachable the boss is, he must also distinguish between public and private affairs and the relationship between the upper and lower levels, and do not put himself in an embarrassing situation;
Men who want to achieve things, and women to get along with more to grasp the measure, to see how many of the popular traffic male stars in the past two years, because of the collapse of female "roles" of various identities. There is something to be done, and it must be done;
No matter who you are, no matter what the reason is, no matter when, no matter where you are, it's almost enough, don't be greedy.
Greed, greed, greed, greed, greed, greed, greed, greed, greed, greed, greed is difficult to satisfy, point to do.