In 2003, Deng Chao's eldest sister fell ill with cancer, and all the money he spent on filming was taken out to treat his elder sister.
In 2005, Deng Chao's father had uremia again, in order to earn money from his father's dialysis, Deng Chao desperately took over the play, working more than 10 hours a day, tired to pee x, many people said Deng Chao: "In order to make money, what bad drama you starred in"
Deng Chao said: "I just need to make money, because I can't live without my father. ”
Deng Chao's father, Deng Zhonglin, was in charge of the Nanchang University Museum, and his mother, Huang Mei, worked as a factory worker, and before Deng Chao, the parents each had a marriage, the father took two sons, and the mother brought a daughter.
The couple's salary is not high, and it is really not easy to raise four children to grow up.
In order to make every child eat, parents will divide the same 4 portions every time they make a meal, one person and one small bowl, and there is only so much for each person to eat.
This life lasted until 1990, when the eldest brother and sister had a job, the family's situation improved, and they no longer shared food.
Deng Chao in junior high school is more rebellious, everything is done with his parents, every day he dresses himself strangely, fights, dance halls and dances to make money, etc., these are personalities in Deng Chao's eyes, but in the eyes of his father, this is called not doing business.
After a big quarrel, Deng Chao shouted at his parents: "What is the use of studying, what is the use of going to college, I dance more than you earn, I don't want to be like you." These words will definitely not escape my father's fists and feet.
Angry, he bought a ticket to Dongguan and ran away from home.
In order to find him, his parents searched all the dance halls in Dongguan, and finally found him, and in just a few dozen days, his parents' hair turned from black to white.
The father took Deng Chao's hand and said to his son, "Daddy will never hit you again, let's go home." At that time, Deng Chao found that his parents loved him so much because he didn't understand things.
In 1998, Deng Chao applied for The Chinese Opera and Nortel, the two schools admitted him at the same time, under the entanglement of Dong Chao finally chose the Chinese Opera, he should have been happy, but because of the tuition fees fell into trouble.
A year of 3,000 tuition fees, plus living expenses, where the family made up ah, the eldest sister did not hesitate to give the money saved from her work to Deng Chao.
In 2002, Deng Chao began to officially step into the show business circle through the male protagonist in "Young Heavenly Son", but the family had an accident at this time.
In 2003, the eldest sister was diagnosed with cancer, the family that was not rich, messed up, the eldest sister also said: "Don't spend money indiscriminately, I don't want to cure it."
Deng Chao, who was filming, rushed home and said to his family: "Money is not a problem, the eldest sister's illness is not a problem, I will find a way to find a way to pay for it, you leave it alone."
Then Deng Chao began to take the drama madly, and when he got the film remuneration, he sent it to his home to treat his sister, and after two years, the eldest sister got better.
At the moment of relaxation, his father suffered from uremia again, and Deng Chao completely collapsed and secretly cried for a long time.
He offered to donate a kidney for his father for a kidney transplant, and the doctor said: "Your father is old and not suitable for surgery, it is recommended to do dialysis."
The annual cost is 150,000, counting the usual medication and life, which is not a small expense.
Since then, Deng Chao began to make crazy filming to make money, almost fainted several times, and finally overloaded work for more than 10 hours a day, making Deng Chao tired and urinating.
After his father left a few years later, Deng Chao's hair slowly became much whiter, and he also tattooed his father's name on his ankle to commemorate his father.
"When parents are here, life still has a place to come; when parents go, life is only a way back." Life is short, and parenthood is a time limit. But why not be a child of human beings?