My grandfather, who had three sons, was my dad. My grandfather loved my second uncle very much, and when my second uncle was very young, he was very accustomed to him, and he bought him everything delicious to eat, and my second uncle had the ability to please my grandfather.
Later, when my second uncle grew up, it was time to talk about marriage, and my grandfather asked a matchmaker to introduce a woman to my second uncle. This woman is very good to my second uncle, that is, she is a little short, chubby, and her appearance is slightly ugly, and she does not get along well with my grandfather.
Grandpa with grandson
Later, this woman, with my second uncle, about a year or so passed, for some reason, they did not have children of their own, so my grandfather asked my second uncle to leave this woman, and then this woman separated from my second uncle, because my second uncle suspected that this woman could not have children.
Later, my grandfather was introduced by a matchmaker and found a woman who was four or five years older than my second uncle. This woman was in her 20s at the time, my second uncle was about eighteen or nineteen years old, and then they were together, and they had a simple banquet at home, invited relatives and friends to the house, and drank happy wine.
Even if this woman officially became my second uncle's wife, they didn't have a marriage certificate, because my parents didn't rip it, and many of the older generation of people on our side didn't get married and didn't have a divorce certificate.
My second uncle has been very fond of my grandfather since he got married. Because my second uncle was married for the second time, and then this woman gave birth to a child for my second uncle not long ago, at that time, my grandparents, who were very happy, could finally hold their grandchildren.
Old grandpa
But since my second uncle married my second aunt, he has to listen to his wife. My second uncle was afraid of hurting his wife, but my second aunt looked down on my grandfather, because when my grandfather was behind, he got along with my second aunt a little discordantly, and various contradictions appeared.
How many times has my second uncle told his wife to be good to his father, my second aunt is ostensibly saying, be good. In fact, I hated my grandfather in my heart, and I hated my second aunt very much behind my grandfather.
After my father and my second uncle both became a family, my grandfather gave my second uncle his house on the right side, and my father got the house on the left.
The house is connected together, with two rooms on the right, a kitchen on the outermost side, and a hut behind the house. The house on the left has only one room, a kitchen, and a hut next to the house, which occupies a much smaller area than the one on the right.
Dirt houses in the countryside
My father and my second uncle all became a family, got married, had children, and my grandfather lived with my second uncle's family, and then my second uncle and my second aunt went to Shenzhen, Guangdong Province, to raise pigs.
My second uncle would pay back to my grandfather every year to spend money, because my grandfather needed to raise my cousins and cousins at home, and at that time, my cousins and cousins were young and still in elementary school.
My grandfather never raised me, because when my parents went to Guangdong to work, they left me at home, and then called my grandfather to be in my house, and my grandfather raised me for a few years. In fact, my father would also pay my grandfather every year to spend it, but my grandfather did not accept this.
Later, my parents took me to live in Yangjiang, Guangdong Province, until I was in the 5th grade, I returned to my hometown, and my grandfather did not raise me, so I went to school and read by myself, and cooked and ate by myself.
The second uncle raised his own pigs in Guangdong
My second uncle worked in Guangdong for decades, made a little money, and returned to his hometown, built a large piece of land that his grandfather had given him before, built a bungalow, and after repairing it, before the decoration was completed, my second uncle went outside to work.
My second uncle's house was three and a half stories high, and at that time, my grandfather was at home alone, cooking and eating on the fire.
A few years passed, my second aunt came back, my second uncle also returned, and my cousin also returned from working outside. Then my second uncle began to renovate his own house, and after the renovation, my grandfather also had his own whitewashed room.
Because my grandfather had a very bad relationship with my second aunt, my second aunt also looked down on my grandfather. My second aunt often said that my grandfather did not pay attention to hygiene, often did not brush his teeth, did not wash his face, and did not change his clothes for many years, which made my second aunt very disgusted.
The second uncle worked and made a little money
It's also common for my grandfather not to bathe for months, and he really doesn't like hygiene. Every time, when my grandfather was eating, my second aunt made a bowl and gave my grandfather a little rice, and a little dish for my grandfather to put on the table.
My grandfather ate or didn't eat, and my second aunt came to a rice spot and came to fetch a bowl to cook. If I saw that my grandfather hadn't finished eating, my second aunt would dump it in the trash.
My grandfather and my second aunt often do not speak, gamble, and my grandfather is also because he is often unhappy, unhappy, very hateful to my second aunt, and finally put himself out of the disease.
When I went to visit my grandfather, my grandfather was in very, very poor health, and I asked him why he didn't go to the hospital. My grandfather said, "Forget it, my feet hurt anyway, and it's a day to live." ”
Hospitalized grandpa
My grandfather held this mentality, my second uncle, only listened to my second aunt, at that time, my second uncle's family, obviously knew that my grandfather's health was not good, that is, did not send him to the hospital.
It wasn't until later, when my grandfather was almost out of sight, that my second uncle took my grandfather to the hospital, but when he came to the hospital, the doctor said that he was late, and then it wasn't long before my grandfather died.
My grandfather was very, very good to my second uncle all his life, but this son of his listened to my second aunt everything. My grandfather chose to live with my second uncle's family in his life, and did not choose to live with my father, because my grandfather was a little prejudiced against my father, and when my father had no children, he looked down on my father very much.
After my grandfather died, he had four or five thousand dollars in his pocket, which was taken by my cousin, who also said to me in a show of pride: "When my grandfather died, there was so much money left, and it was a pity that he did not spend it." ”
My grandfather lived to be 80 years old, he left this world with a look of hatred and despair, and when he died, his eyes were not closed, indicating that he was very unreliable when he left.