01.
Love seems to be an eternal topic.
You see the Bodhi tree in the temple, which is covered with red charms.
Some people ask for wealth, some people ask for peace. But there are more people who are asking for marriage.
Everyone longs to be loved, to meet a soul mate who fits three views.
Accompany and support each other, and walk through the long road of life.
Some people are lucky that the hand they hold is never released.
Some people have been at a red light all the way, constantly failing, and even wondering why their emotional road is always not smooth.
In fact, sometimes it may not be true love that is difficult to find, but that you are in the wrong way of falling in love.
Love is not possessive, nor is it blindly giving, nor is it sticking together all the time.
It's like when you hold a handful of sand, the more you hold on, the faster the sand goes.

Love is the same, you give everything you want, want to catch each other, love will be too late.
Your enthusiasm is like fire, and it will only make him feel burdened and want to retreat.
The more you love someone, the more you have to know how to "let go."
After all, life is not only about love, give each other a time to digest and breathe, to feel your love.
Love is the flavoring agent, and the right amount can play its role and make life tasteful.
As the saying goes, "fine water and long flow", high-quality love is a continuous process of mutual attraction.
Let the other person see your shining point, instead of going around in circles around the other person.
The more you love each other, the more you have to "let go" appropriately.
Use this time and energy on yourself, continue to exude charm, the other party will naturally be attracted to you.
02.
Love that is too passionate can last
There is a term in psychology called "Babe's Law".
That is to say, when a person has experienced intense love, giving the same love will become insignificant.
In love, when you love someone passionately, over time, he will become accustomed to it.
Even if you blindly pay, you can't get the other party to respond.
If you love someone, you will naturally have expectations, and if you don't get a response to love, expectations will slowly turn into disappointment.
Disappointment accumulates over time, and a small thing can become a fuse, causing the inevitable fierce quarrel.
When love has cracks, it will not last long.
Just like in "I Want to Be Nice with You", at the beginning, the two people wanted to be together every day.
As the freshness fades, the two people have misunderstandings and frequent quarrels.
After each quarrel, Miao Miao was fiercely salvaged.
Even, give all your money to shine, just to save him.
But blind efforts cannot solve each other's problems.
In the end, the relationship reached an irreparable point, and they broke up.
Everyone's energy is limited, and blindly consuming themselves will only make themselves more and more barren.
When each other loses their original appearance, the feelings cease to exist.
03.
Learn to "let go" and give each other space
Everyone is an independent and free individual, and cannot bind himself because of love.
Loving someone is like flying a kite, and the thread will break if it is pulled too tightly.
It is better to give him the freedom to fly with the wind, and always hold the thread in his hand, it is enough.
The more you love each other, the more you should know how to let go and give him the freedom to play.
Love is not possession. You can support the other person's career and be considerate of his life, but you can't try to hold on to him.
No one likes to be controlled, and once they feel bound, the other person will want to leave.
There are other equally important things in a person's life besides love.
As the saying goes, "Sentient beings are full of water", but can only drink water be full?
The principles of love are intimacy and independence.
When you are together, love each other well; when you are not together, miss each other, but don't rely on them.
Trying to find a way out in love won't work.
Before you love someone, love yourself.
When you are independent and confident, you will not take love as the whole.
Love leaves some space for each other, and sticking too much together will only make the other person breathless.
Distance can produce beauty, and the best way to love someone is to learn to "let go" appropriately.
04.
"Let go" appropriately and use your energy on yourself
There is a saying: "Instead of being human, it is better to become a universe of its own."
Instead of giving for each other, pin your hopes on others and look forward to receiving love.
It is better to spend this energy on yourself and not have to please others.
When you become better and better, no matter what happens, you will feel happy.
Good love is mutual attraction, not one party's compromise.
If you love someone, you must learn to let go, and you don't have to accompany each other all the time and pay for each other.
On days when you don't see each other, spend your time improving yourself.
Learn new skills, new knowledge, and constantly add new shining points.
When you sparkle in your own realm, others will naturally come towards you.
The more you love each other, the more you have to learn to let go.
Don't treat love as the only one, and don't want to bind and possess each other.
Focus on yourself and constantly improve yourself;
With mutual love as the premise of mutual attraction, mutual companionship, to achieve a long-term flow of love stories.
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