Ang lee
"Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon", "Color Ring", "The Fantasy Drifting of the Young Pi" We met a Taiwanese screenwriter and director - Ang Lee. In addition to being a celebrity in the art film and television industry, he is also a father.
Ang Lee once said a sentence: Every day to try to earn the respect of your family.
In an interview with Yang Lan:
Ang Lee: My wife's respect for me, I still have to earn it every day when I get up, not that I'm OK as a big director.
Yang Lan: Do you want her to worship you?
Ang Lee: Of course, it's human nature.
Yang Lan: Then you should tell her that a man needs his own woman to worship him.
Ang Lee: I think whether it's a wife or a child, your dignity still has to be fought for, any relationship, especially husband and wife. I don't think it's important that love is not respected yet, and when you don't respect the other person, that relationship is difficult to maintain. When you are not trying, when you are lazy, when you are perfunctory, when you tell lies, he is disrespectful to you is disrespectful, you can see from the look in your eyes, not attitude, you can not force people, this is very natural.
The other time was an interview with Lu Yu.
Lu Yu: What is your greatest sense of happiness at this stage?
Ang Lee: My wife can smile at me, I can relax a little, and I will feel very happy. The fact that I have become a father and a gentleman does not mean that I can naturally get their respect, but I still have to earn their respect every day.
Ang Lee and his wife Lin Jiahui
When a living environment has a stable role - father, mother and child after a long time together, form a unique relationship of life on earth - family relationship.
In a family, everyone has a different role or has multiple roles, and everyone can perform their duties and responsibilities? This requires joint efforts to support common development in order to build a harmonious family atmosphere together.
Why is there a need for harmonious family relationships? First of all, emotionally speaking, we are willing to pay and fight for it, and with the goal of struggle, we will get more rich and wonderful emotional colors. Emotional sustenance will be amplified and obtained in the family.
That is, the source of happiness has a stable provenance.
The most common things or the most convenient actions may show the true portrayal: after dinner, many families will choose to walk in the nearby park, perhaps parents with children, or may be elders with children, but everyone has one thing in common: happy to talk about the future, children's expectations for the future and innocence of life; the elders' expectations for future generations, the happiness of adults, and the innocence of children are most likely to be truly displayed in front of the family.
Many children will imitate or inadvertently learn the words and actions of the people around them, for example, parents will become habitually brushing their mobile phones or watching TV programs when eating, children will be subtly influenced by the people around them, if the adults in the family do not do a good job of leading by example, when the children do not eat well and then begin to scold, will lead to changes in the child's mood: why can you do this? And I can't?
Parents need harmonious coexistence, and parents and children also need mutual respect and learning and education that leads growth.
"A chopstick is easy to bend" the truth that many people know, when a family is established together, daily expenses and economic expenses have become the biggest driving force and output of family struggle, and everyone will be willing to share material possessions and cherishes on the basis of emotion.
Now most families are elders to take care of children, parents support the main source of income, many people will use hard work, pay too much to vent emotional points, and the biggest victim is the child, the child is not a grade output machine and equipment, can not do the same input, the same output; can not copy out "as good as other people's children, as good as" . After the child returns from class, he can also ask the child with concern whether he has learned interesting and interesting knowledge points at school or what content makes him feel bored.
In every family, everyone should do their own thing and take on their own responsibilities and obligations. For example, when you go home late, you must inform your family that you know, otherwise your family will worry, which is emotional responsibility. Consider the impact of your actions on your family and how other people feel.
Only when there are people have a home, and only when there is a family can there be a family.