Brushing up on a video of Fu Seoul in "Strange Story", I was shocked by her extremely real, sharp and funny way of dealing with the world.
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Fu Seoul talked about her own experience of a collapse, she called her friend for comfort, and the friend made her even more broken; she asked her husband for care, but her husband came with her "Ah, a person who asked for "support" missed the opportunity to perform, and this year's career luck is good."
In this experience of collapsing and asking for help, she said that she understood a truth, that is, "human tragedies and joys are not connected."
Everyone has everyone's stress, and everyone has unspeakable pain, even children.
Fu Seoul said that the passage where his son wrote his homework is a classic, the son said that he was going to collapse, but the father made his son cry, and said that not crying is not a man.
After listening to it, my son replied that I would insist on insisting on it, and when I grew up, I wouldn't have to write.
At this time, Dad came again, "When I grow up, I am more tired of watching others write."
Although they are all witty words and sound very funny, they are true and full of wisdom inside and out.
Finally, Fu Seoul said:
"The collapse of adults doesn't require an audience. When people reach middle age, I finally understand that negative emotions must be hidden, even if it is wind and rain outside, no matter how bitter and tired, no matter how many critical hits, no matter how much pressure, I have to dry my tears on the road and push open the door with a smile."
Fu Seoul's change, all this was brought to her by her son, it was her son who taught her how to love.
When Fu Seoul had someone else in her heart, someone more important than herself, when she no longer demanded that someone care for her, she got more love and understanding.
Teacher Dongyue once said: "There is only one way in life, and that is the road to pay."
Kazuo Inamori, the "holy man of management" in Japan, also often talks about extreme altruism.
When your heart begins to contain others and actively give, others will have you in their hearts and know how to care for you.
Life is so hard and interesting, sad and growing at the same time, collapsing and happy at the same time.
Excellent as Fu Seoul, she still has so many times of collapse, let alone so ordinary ordinary us?
Therefore, we must not only have others in our hearts, but also learn to love ourselves before we learn to love others.
Wilde said: "Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifelong romance."
The older you get, the more you understand that only when your heart is full of love, and your words and deeds radiate love, all you can give to others is love and romance.
Love yourself starts with having a good body.
It is said that the body is the capital of the revolution, but today, when materialism is abundant, many people no longer take their bodies seriously.
Stay up late, don't sleep at night, get up in the morning; three meals upside down, often don't eat breakfast, Chinese fast food ok, dinner big fish and meat; never exercise, go out for a taxi, climb the mountain is too tired....
Playing games and videos every day often feel anxious, empty and bored, and many good bodies are slowly consumed, deteriorated, and even sick in such a accumulation.
At this moment, I would like to say that as adults, we must know how to take the initiative to take care of our bodies, and we should also have some awareness of "active immunity".
"Active immunity" is a new way to improve self-health with a proactive attitude in a "White Paper on National Health and Immunity Improvement in the Post-epidemic Era after 2021" released by DSM and iResearch Consulting.
Because in the post-epidemic era, due to the great influence of the external environment and the tenacity of the virus, as well as the individual's own poor diet, sleep and exercise, it is really urgent to enhance the body's immunity.
The White Paper on National Health and Immunity Improvement in the Post-EPIDEMIC Era after 2021 states:
"The immune system is the body's natural defense mechanism, like an umbrella to protect our health. Insufficient immunity will lead to many conditions of the body, and even the occurrence of diseases."
I really hope that everyone knows how to care for themselves, pay attention to their own physical health, and be able to take the initiative to immunize.
References:
Demans and iResearch Released White Paper on National Health and Immunity Improvement in the Post-EPIDEMIC Era