In 2011, Qiu Cixuan became popular in China with the TV series "The Temptation to Go Home", and in 2019, she and Yu Xiaoguang registered their marriage. But what impressed many people on her was not these two opportunities, but the reality show "Stars to My Home" that she participated in jiangsu satellite TV in 2014.
In this show, people found that such a beautiful autumn porcelain show had such a miserable life.
In this show, the actresses are "married" into the farmhouse, so that people can understand the real side of their plays that are not known.
When Qiu Cixuan chatted with his "mother-in-law", he talked about his bitter experience, which caused the audience to burst into tears.
Qiu Cixuan originally had a younger sister, but when he was 10 years old, the two went out to play, and his sister drowned.
Her mother was severely mentally devastated, believing that Qiu Cixuan was responsible for her sister's death, and she scolded her:
"You should die for her!"
Speaking of this, Qiu Porcelain's eyes glowed with tears.
The "mother-in-law" asked her: What about the grandparents and grandparents? Don't love you either?
Qiu CiXuan replied: I am making money now, and my grandmother especially wants to see me.
Cho Cho Cho Hyun was born in 1979 in Daegu, South Korea, to an ordinary family, his mother is a beautician, and his father works for the company.
This is a family with a serious preference for sons and daughters, the birth of Qiu Porcelain Xuan, has been dissatisfied with the grandmother and father, and the mother of Qiu Porcelain Xuan gave birth to a daughter, which caused family conflicts.
The mother-in-law constantly scolded, the husband was indifferent for a long time, and Qiu Cixuan's mother's emotions have been on the verge of collapse.
She and her sister need to see Grandma's face to live, and Grandma often blames her: "Why aren't you a boy?" ”
But fate did not let them go, when they were 10 years old, their sister drowned, and this blow made Qiu Cexuan's mother suffer from schizophrenia.
The emotions that her mother had nowhere to release fell on Qiu Cixuan, and she scolded Qiu Cixuan: "Why don't you die?" "How come it wasn't you who died?"
Qiu Cixuan, who struggled to grow up in this environment, never felt the happiness of his family, and the nightmare shadow followed him all the way.
But she understood her mother's suffering, and she advised her mother to divorce:
"Mom, I'm all right. You are also a very beautiful woman, I think you are still young, you find some other lover. ”
At the age of 17, the unhappy marriage of my parents finally ended. They have successively set up their own new family, Qiu Porcelain Xuan, and finally abandoned.
The first question she faced was: How to survive, how to support herself?
Fortunately, she has one advantage: she looks good.
At the age of 16, she was discovered by a star scout because of her sweet looks and filmed her first advertisement.
Because of this advertisement, she got her first role, playing Song Huiqiao's sister in the SBS idol drama "Growing Up Feeling 18 Years Old".
These two experiences made her realize that she might be able to take the road of acting. She applied for the Drama Department of Dankook University in South Korea and began to study acting professionally.
In order to earn living expenses, she kept working, she said: "I want to make money from filming to go to college, I have been studying to shoot all the time, there is no time to be lonely and lonely." ”
In order to make money, she was also tricked into taking large-scale photos, which became her "black material" after she became famous.
But at that time, Qiu Porcelain Xuan, there was no other way, she had to seize every opportunity to smash over, to earn her own survival capital, even if this opportunity was a trap, she also had to stick headlong.
After graduating from college, Qiu Porcelain Ran Dragon Sets on various sets.
At that time, in the Korean showbiz circle, Song Huiqiao, Zhang Nala and other people were on fire, and under their brilliance, it was difficult for Qiu Porcelain to find his own position.
She began to move to the Chinese film and television circle. In 2003, she co-starred with Peng Yuyan in "Love Xiang", and later participated in a number of mainland film and television dramas.
And what really made her popular was the "Temptation to Go Home" broadcast in 2011, in which she cooperated with Ling Xiaosu to play Lin Pinru.
Her career is gradually on the right track, but outside of work, loneliness follows her.
After her debut, she would regularly give money to her parents and grandmother, who were indeed very kind to herself, but the warmth of the family she wanted was still not there.
Most of the time, she lives alone.
At the age of 27, she won several awards for filmmaking, but when she returned home, no one shared the joy with her, and she spent an hour alone on the couch.
She likes to put herself in a busy job that allows her to forget about loneliness for a while. She said that she prefers to shoot scenes during the festival, because the crew is not lonely together.
In 2005, Qiu Cixuan starred in the first step of the mainland film and television drama "The Legend of the Hero of the Great Banner", and she conquered a group of audiences with her acting skills and gained a lot of popularity.
In 2008, she played the famous prostitute Snowflake in "Beauty", and for this role, she won the Korean Film Award for Best Supporting Actress.
Then, she ushered in "The Temptation to Go Home", which made her a big hit. After that, about one film after another, she finally ushered in the peak of her career.
In the autumn of 2012, Porcelain Xuan waited for his lover Yu Xiaoguang.
Unlike Qiu Porcelain, Yu Xiaoguang lives in a happy family loved by his parents, he was a swimmer and kayaker, and after retiring from the army, he became an actor.
But like Qiu Porcelain Xuan, he also had a very bitter time.
In 2009, Yu Xiaoguang's mother suffered from viral encephalitis and lost her memory.
In order to treat his mother's illness, he desperately filmed a drama and once borrowed 1.1 million yuan to buy a house for his mother to improve living conditions.
Qiu Cexuan met him in "The Happy Time of spicy girlfriend", at first she could maintain a distance from Yu Xiaoguang, and she grew up in a fragmented family, and she had no confidence in love and marriage.
But Yu Xiaoguang noticed the girl. Once, Qiu Cixuan was drunk in the crew, full of mischief, and after she woke up drunk, she was worried that others would look down on her, but Yu Xiaoguang said to her: "I feel sorry for you." ”
However, the two did not come together quickly, this girl who came out of misfortune, her heart is closed, she is afraid of being hurt, afraid of repeating the mistakes of her mother's marriage.
But Yu Xiaoguang did not let go, after nearly two years of sms offensive, the two slowly came together.
In 2017, the two went on the variety show "Same Bed, Different Dreams", and the two were sweet in the show, kissing and hugging dozens of times a day.
Here, too, people see a lot of details about how they get along together.
Qiu Cixuan only gave Yu Xiaoguang 5,000 yuan of pocket money per month, and asked him not to buy online more than twice.
Yu Xiaoguang will also talk about conditions in turn, trying to restrain his wife from losing her temper. Qiu Cixuan said with a straight face, of course, you can lose your temper with your husband, if you are not allowed to lose your temper, why should I marry you.
Yu Xiaoguang could only compromise, well, his wife was right.
In Yu Xiaoguang's eyes, Qiu Porcelain xuan is good everywhere, so much so that the program team calls him "wife fool".
In 2017, the 38-year-old Qiu Cixuan became pregnant, and as an elderly mother, she was sent to the ICU because of pregnancy and height, and for a time she could not breathe spontaneously.
But this adventure is worth it for Qiu Porcelain Xuan. She had never had a home, but finally had a complete family, with a husband who loved her, a lovely son, and even a mother-in-law who treated her like a biological daughter.
In 2019, they made up for the wedding.
At the wedding, Qiu Porcelain xuan confessed to Xiaoguang:
"Thank you for coming to me, thank you for being my dearest, thank you for always supporting me, thank you for always keeping me from being alone and making me laugh."
Because she was so happy with him, she felt that the next life she walked together was too short. She hopes to continue to be together in the next life.
This wedding is very crying, and Qiu Cixuan and Yu Xiaoguang on the stage, the guests offstage and the guest hosts in the studio can't help but wipe their tears frequently.
But the difference between reality and fairy tales is that fairy tales can end here, but in reality, the lives of the two have just begun.
Soon, Yu Xiaoguang fell into a scandal suspected of cheating, which made this perfect marriage make a wave.
In "Same Bed, Different Dreams", Qiu Cixuan once discussed the topic of derailment with Yu Xiaoguang, when Yu Xiaoguang said categorically: "If you cheat, you will die together!" ”
But this vow was broken by a video in July 2021, where Yu Xiaoguang was photographed giving a beautiful woman a human meat couch in the middle of the night, and the beautiful woman sat on his lap, and the two were very intimate.
The former "perfect husband" has become a "cheating scumbag", and Chinese and Korean netizens are in an uproar.
In the face of doubts, Yu Xiaoguang gave the answer: don't worry, it's a neighbor.
This explanation does not make netizens buy it, what kind of relationship neighbors can sit on your lap so freely?
On the cusp of the storm, Qiu Cixuan chose to stand up for her husband, she said:
"Although the people in the video are also my acquaintances, I also feel that Xiaoguang's behavior will indeed be misunderstood... For his rash behavior, I also blamed and criticized him, and Xiaoguang was also reflecting and deeply reproaching himself. ”
This "derailment incident" passed with qiu porcelain dazzling round field, but the netizens who once snorted the lover knew that this marriage may not be as perfect as it seems.
After this storm, the lives of the two seem to be calm again.
Recently, Qiu Celer xuan participated in the Han Zong "My Bear Child" as a guest, sharing interesting stories about her husband and son in the show. She worries that her 3-year-old son will already be working against her.
Now she seems to enjoy her status as a wife and mother. And for the hand-torn scum male drama that netizens are eager to see, it is not staged on her.
She chose to forgive, perhaps the truth is indeed different from what netizens see, perhaps she does not want to let go of this man who has given her a lot of warmth and love, or perhaps she misses the family life of a husband and a child.
For a person who has not had a home for half a life, this is really too tempting.
However, when the two were in love, she did not forget to sign a premarital contract, which stipulated that if Yu Xiaoguang cheated, the money and the house would belong to Qiu Cixuan.
From this point of view, although Qiu Cixuan is in love, he also remains sober.
Emotional things, cold and warm self-knowledge, I hope that she has experienced a lot of bitterness, and what she will taste in the future is sweet.