Reading the book "Ordinary World", I greatly liked and appreciated the image of Tian Xiaoxia, a girl created by Lu Yao's pen. Like her beauty, kindness, cheerfulness, vitality, personality, appreciate her intelligence, wisdom, open-mindedness, knowledge, ideals, and pursuits. All the good qualities that have been placed on her seem to be too much.
It may have been so perfect that it was heart-wrenching and regrettable that she had left this world so unexpectedly in the midst of that flood-ravaging catastrophe, and it was difficult for the author to arrange her ending in this way for a long time.
Perhaps too much immersion in the storyline itself, or perhaps too heavy a personal affection for Tian Xiaoxia's liking, when I closed the book and withdrew from it, I seemed to suddenly understand Lu Yao's idea of arranging this ending, and admitted that it was reasonable.
Fireworks are unforgettable precisely because of their fleeting, fleeting beauty, and it wouldn't be surprising if they continue to be gorgeous.
The reason why first love is beautiful is the same. The initial appearance of love, that is, the girlfriend and you are petite, you feel cute, and you lose a temper, you will take the initiative to coax, too independent, you will blame why she does not rely on you. When your boyfriend is careful, you will think that he cares about you, and when your boyfriend smokes and drinks, you will feel that she has a manly taste.
The love in memory is the youthful face of the other party, the youthful body and the sweet smile, and it is young enough to be young enough to not bear the heavy pressure of life when they are together, and only talk about dreams and future green years.
However, life goes on and people grow and mature. Many things that I wouldn't have thought about before are slowly becoming immediate real problems, and the essence of life is to constantly make all kinds of choices and compromises.
Having children, ascending parents, and descending children are realities that every adult man and woman have to face. According to Tian Xiaoxia's personality and characteristics, can you imagine that such a beautiful girl needs to face the trivialities of life after being with Sun Shaoping?
For love, sacrifice their ideals and hobbies, be willing to be other people's wives, wash their hands and make soup, imagine that the picture is weird. For their own pursuit, not returning to the family, being a professional woman, it seems that it is not in line with the social trend of the time.
Still
Xiaoxia is the only white moonlight in the book, the author can't bear to write her worldly, and can't write her out of reality, so it seems reasonable and reasonable to write Tian Xiaoxia's ending as leaving this world.
Tian Xiaoxia, the ideal of the world, she is otherworldly, lonely and not proud, not trapped in traditional etiquette, not confined to class hierarchy, able to be elegant and vulgar, sensitive and sensitive to culture and politics, sympathetic to the suffering and difficulties of ordinary people. In her, romance and reality coexist, reason and sensibility coexist, and nobility and simplicity are shared. Such a girl, society is the stage for her to realize her ideals and ambitions, and youth is her weapon to exude charm.
Such a Xiaoxia lives forever in Sun Shaoping's memory, but also in the reader's heart, and her beauty is eternal.
Existence is truth, and since ancient times there has been a saying that the door is right.
Marriages with the right door are not necessarily happy, but many marriages with improper doors and wrong households will be unhappy.
Tian Xiaoxia and Sun Shaoping, a cadre girl with a rich family, a broad knowledge of her own, and a decent job, a poor family, born in a peasant family, although through their own efforts can only become a coal miner's young boy. Although they are attracted to each other because of each other's inner qualities and have the same ambitions and spiritual pursuits, objectively speaking, there are insurmountable obstacles between them.
First, there is the influence of the family of origin. What kind of family environment a person lives in from an early age plays a pivotal role in his life, such as personality, ability and behavior in the world.
Sun Shaoping lived in a family with many brothers and sisters, he was a boy, his sister was married, and there was another sister at the bottom, in that era, a man played a very important role in sharing physical labor in the family after he became an adult. If he and Tian Xiaoxia are married, it is impossible to completely separate from the original everyone, whether it is economic or physical, the original family is still his concern, since it can not be separated, then many things will be ambiguous, just like the kind and capable sister-in-law Xiulian, at first hard work, and then slowly have selfishness.
Marriage is really a daily life of rice, rice, salt, care for parents, and raising children, and in the end, it depends not only on feelings, but also on obligations and responsibilities.
If Xiaoxia marries Shaoping, it is considered to be married, like Xiaoxia, a girl with a strong sense of feminism, she has pursuits and ideals, and she cannot be a woman who is confined to family trivialities. Although she can also suffer hardships, what she can eat is the pain of pursuing her career, and it will definitely not be the pain of chicken and dog life.
In this way, it can only be Sun Shaoping to take care of the family more, however, in that era, the environment is still dominated by patriarchal thought, it just so happens that Sun Shaoping is also a person with his own pursuit and ambition, I am afraid it is difficult to accept the mode of life outside the female protagonist and the male protagonist, two such people into marriage, it is difficult to imagine whether the previous love can continue to be beautiful.
Secondly, the gap in the cultural level and ideological level of Sun Shaoping and Tian Xiaoxia will bring ineffable resistance to their future.
Although the high school graduation degree was not low in that era, Sun Shaoping could also be regarded as a cultural person, and he was also a worker, but compared with Tian Xiaoxia, he was still slightly inferior. After all, Xiaoxia is an upright college student, a reporter in a provincial newspaper, and has a decent job.
At first, when he contacted Tian Xiaoxia, Sun Shaoping was looking up to her, and then when he approached, he admired her, on the other hand, Xiaoxia was curious to appreciate Shaoping. In the whole process of communication between the two, Shaoping has always been a passive and passive party, and when he encounters anything, it is Xiaoxia who encourages him, helps him and supports him. In Shaoping's life, Xiaoxia can give Shaoping a lot of things, but she can't give him self-confidence and optimism, which is brought by a person's bones and cultivated from the environment of childhood life.
If a person does not have self-confidence and optimism, how can he resist the ups and downs of his future life?
In Xiaoxia's life, she has been lucky to have a lot, materially Sun Shaoping can't give her anything, the only love, companionship and optimism she needs, Sun Shaoping may not be able to give.
The inherent gap between two people is doomed to be unhappy together, and the story of the poor boy and the rich woman is destined to be a tragedy, so it seems that marriage is still a little better.
Because I have had it, I feel more beautiful, because I have lost it, I cherish it more, things are like this, people are even more so.
When we are together, we always feel that coming to Japan is long, I have not said anything, I have not done anything, and there will be opportunities in the future, I don't know, accidents and tomorrow I don't know which one will come first. In "Ordinary World", the squad leader is so for Hui Yingjie, and Tian Xiaoxia is also true for Sun Shaoping.
Sun Shaoping personally saw the sudden departure of the squad leader hit Hui Ying's sister-in-law, and after he once again experienced the harm caused by Xiao Xia's death, he felt the responsibility and heavy responsibility of cherishing the people around him and taking care of the people around him.
Hui Ying's sister-in-law has seen Xiao Xia, and she also knows the matter between ShaoPing and her, she has lost her husband, and for Xiao Xia's departure, she can feel the blow and hurt of Shao Ping by this incident more than anyone.
For a long time after the death of the squad leader, xiaoxia had not yet had an accident, Shaoping often went to Huiying's sister-in-law's house to help with chopping firewood, collecting coal for cooking, and accompanying Mingming, and Huiying's sister-in-law was grateful for his selfless care of their mother and son and often made him some good food, accompanied him to drink some wine and the like, and the three of them got along like family.
Later, Shaoping had an accident, and during the period of recuperation, Xiu, a good friend who grew up with his sister, expressed his heart to Shaoping, but Shaoping politely refused.
He thought very clearly, Xiu is young, educated, educated, and has a bright future, whether Xiu is impulsive or really loves him, he can't delay Xiu.
Perhaps, during the period when Shaoping was recuperating, he had already thought about it and made a decision, and he wanted to return to Daya Bay to live with Hui Ying and Mingming.
Yes, living with Hui Ying's sister-in-law may be the most reasonable and correct choice.
One who has lost her husband, an orphan and a widow, and is still young, and one who has lost his fiancée, the two have the same experience, the pain is similar, they feel sorry for each other, they know the roots, and they have lived together for a while, who is more suitable for him than Huiying's sister-in-law? They come together for granted.
Slovak people have passed away, life will continue, cherish the living people, live well, in order to be more worthy of the deceased people, isn't it?
When I immersed myself in the storyline of the book, I was more emotional than rational, and I never understood why the author wrote Tian Xiaoxia's ending so sadly. Two people who love each other are forced to be separated forever, how much they want to rewrite the ending, come to a Happy Ending, calm down and think about it, it seems to understand the author's intentions, but admire the author Lu Yao's thoughtfulness.
Perhaps he also does not want to write Xiaoxia as a woman image that is lost to everyone, but it is difficult to detach from reality, how to give her a good ending, this is the most test of the author's writing skills, but also the key to determining whether a book is classic or not.