Someone asked me how to change a person.
I said that people cannot be changed by you.
We are not trying to change a person, but to change his goals.
Ordinary people live in feelings, while masters live in goals.
People who live in the feelings stay up until three o'clock and sleep until they wake up naturally.
Burger fried chicken is eaten casually, snacks are very enjoyable, and beer drinks are not stopped.
Entertainment gossip brush non-stop, the segment network diagram is funny, the variety show is really interesting.
Living in the feelings, every day you feel good, but every year your feelings will become more and more uncomfortable.
When people reach middle age, as they age, the cruelty of life is multiplied by ten times in each year.
You find that the expenses of life are getting bigger and bigger, and the money is getting harder and harder to earn.
The person who lives in the goal, although every day is very uncomfortable, he will feel better and better every year.
What wakes them up every morning is not an alarm clock, but a goal in their hearts.
What makes them continue to learn and grow every day is not the motivation to succeed in learning, but the goal in their hearts.
As we get older, each year we get closer and closer to our goals, our lives get better and better, and our money gets better and better earned.
The better you are to yourself, the more cruel others will be to you, and the more cruel you are to yourself, the better others will treat you.
Ordinary people use feelings to build relationships, and masters use values to build relationships.
When the relationship ends, so does the relationship.
The master continues to provide value and build relationships with value, resulting in relationships that continue.
Ordinary people believe in feelings, while masters only believe in value.
All your successes today are the result of your stage being used by others.
In the past, you used Nokia very happy, today you also changed to Apple?
You used to chat qq very happy, today you also changed WeChat?
The day you can't contribute value to others is the day someone else leaves you.
It's not that your husband leaves you, it's that you're not attractive.
It's not that your wife leaves you, it's that you don't have a career.
It's not that your customers leave you, it's that you're worthless.
Whoever does not grow, who is betrayed, who does not contribute value, who is truly ruthless.
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