Article Author: Taoist Nature
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There are four seasons of spring, summer, autumn and winter. Our life can not always be smooth, there will always be a cold winter, we call him: the "darkest moment" of life.
The "darkest hour" torments people's patience and willpower, and we always complain about the long, difficult, and always want to give up. But when you stand up strong and look back, you will sincerely sigh: It is only a moment!
Life between heaven and earth, like a horse through a narrow passage, passing in an instant, sometimes feeling that I have not grown up, in the blink of an eye into the second half of life, ushered in the middle age.
Thinking back to the road I have traveled: full of heartache and sweat, crying, laughing, wandering, proud...
But to say that the most memorable is "the darkest, the most difficult", but also the most thankful for the time: "the darkest moment." ”
This time made me realize: the more difficult it is, the more time to cultivate the mind!
1, the first half of life, mostly in the boiling
Life is like addition and subtraction, it is a process from scratch, to say that our first youth is given by our parents, and the second youth must be created by ourselves.
The road to creation, after all, is tortuous, doomed to a "darkest hour" of torment and pain.
"Adversity" is a compulsory course in life, just like the natural cycle of spring, summer, autumn and winter, which is not subject to human will, and the heavens are like this, let alone our small human beings?
Life cannot all be spring, it must go through a cold, dark winter. In the face of the winter of the "darkest hour", our attitude towards him will determine the height of our lives.
Whether it is a positive attitude of learning, an attitude of cultivation, or a negative, complaining attitude of avoidance, it plays a crucial and decisive role in the success or failure of our lives.
In the face of the "darkest hour", we must hold a "cultivation" mentality, and understand that the more difficult the situation, the more we cultivate the mind.
Time is a great author, and it will write a perfect ending for every perseverer
2, the most valuable time in the first half of a person's life is the "darkest hour"
"Adversity" is usually lonely, because you don't have time to spend the day and drink, and you don't have the financial ability to call friends, and the reality of "adversity" forces you to work hard, so you can only struggle alone and think alone.
And loneliness can make you "quiet", "quiet" is an excellent state of cultivation, static can give birth to "concentration", "will be able to give birth to "wisdom", this is the so-called "quiet life hundred wisdom", and wisdom is the guiding light that takes you out of the darkest moment.
But great successes are born in the darkest hour.
Sima Qian was sentenced to "palace punishment" and wrote at the darkest moment the protracted masterpiece "History" called "the great song of the historian, the departure of the rhymeless"
Sun Bing was sentenced to a funeral, and only then did he have the military miracle book "Sun Bing's Art of War"
Adversity can temper your strong will and ability to resist pressure, and the flowers that grow up in the greenhouse are not as strong as the flowers that have experienced the wind and the sun, and the vitality is strong.
Would you like to ask people who come out of the cold winter, will they be afraid of other seasons?
This is what we often say, born of sorrow, born of happiness.
As Lin Yutang said: "Holding a teapot, you will torment life to the most essential essence." ”
3, the difficult time has created the current you
Growth is like making a piece of jade, it needs to be polished, polished jade has its value, and life is also, only after experiencing the cultivation of the "darkest moment", polishing. will become wise, powerful, and invincible.
It is difficult to be poor and difficult to be a person, and it is naïve to fight without being beaten
When recruits enlist, they must be trained for three months by a "company of recruits," and without these three months of hard training, they can never become a qualified soldier and never go to the battlefield.
Sun Wukong could not achieve a pair of fire eyes and golden eyes without the fire of the 7749 days of fire in the Bagua Furnace of Taishang Laojun.
The transformation of the eagle
Eagles can live to more than 70 years, but at the age of 40, they have to go through a life decision.
It turns out that when the eagle is 40 years old, the claws begin to age, the beak is long and curved, the feathers are thick and thick, and it is very difficult to fly.
At this time, it has only two choices: one is to wait for death, and the other is to transform, and it chooses the latter.
So it flew to the top of the mountain, nested on the cliff, hit the rock with its beak until it fell off completely, and then quietly waited for the new beak to grow. When the new beak grows, it uses the new beak to pull out the toenails piece by piece. When the new toenails grow, it pulls out the old feathers piece by piece.
After 5 months of experiencing the danger of blood loss, infection, starvation, and even death, the eagle's new feathers grew and transformed into a new life. It started fighting the blue sky again, and after another 30 years of good times
Without a cold bone, how to get plum blossoms
Conclusion:
Thank you for the darkest moments in our lives that gave us the courage and determination to overcome our predicament;
Thank you for the darkest hour, He gave us loneliness, loneliness gave us wisdom, wisdom gave us direction;
Thank you for the darkest hours, let us cultivate our hearts in adversity, and grow in difficulties;
Thank you for the darkest hours that have completely unleashed our potential;
Thank you for the darkest hours, let us see through the cold of the world, let us know true friends.
"Adversity" is a compulsory course in life, there is nothing to be afraid of, optimism can be calmly faced, in order to treat "adversity" as a heart cultivation, learning, and training their own time;
When you walk through the "darkest hour" and look back on that experience, you will sincerely sigh:
The difficult time, survived only a moment, it is this time, the achievement of our current glory!
2021.11.20
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