Author: Xia Yumo
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The most romantic thing a man can do for a woman is to marry her home! Marriage is a commitment, a lifelong practice, if a man does not even dare to marry you, then any love is false.
Sun Zhongxin, under Yiqun's questioning, finally said his inner words: "I love you, I love you very much, but I can't marry you!" He said so decisively and resolutely, without the slightest consideration of Yiqun's situation and feelings.
Yiqun is 26 years old this year, Sun Zhongxin is 47 years old, and Yiqun has been with Sun Zhongxin since graduation. Just like Sun Zhongxin said: "You are very pure, like an unpolished piece of jade, I like you very much, when I was with you, I really became myself, I want to stay with you like this for a lifetime..."
Sun Zhongxin will say a lot of sincere words and a lot of sweet words to Yiqun, Yiqun for love, she can ignore her eyes, she can put down her dignity to do a small third identity and Sun Zhongxin to communicate.
In this way, they have been together for almost three years, and Sun Zhongxin has been giving Hope to Yiqun, but he has repeatedly disappointed Yiqun. Yiqun has reached the marriageable age, and the parents at home are also urged, often arranging blind dates for her, hoping that her daughter can meet the right person as soon as possible and help each other on the road in the future. But Yiqun has a heart, and every time he thinks of various reasons to prevaricate his parents, and promises that he will find a good husband and ask them to rest assured.
However, after cheating again and again, he almost believed it, but reality coldly gave Yiqun a slap. Yiqun asked Sun Zhongxin again when he could divorce and marry her, Sun Zhongxin no longer avoided, nor did he use the tactic of slowing down the army, he said bluntly: "I can't divorce my wife, although I love you very much, but I can't marry you..." In an instant, Yiqun burned the heart of the earth, as if it had been poured with cold water, extinguishing all illusions.
Leaves don't turn yellow every day, and people's hearts don't get cooler by a day. This time, Yiqun knew that Sun Zhongxin was speaking from his heart, and Yiqun also knew that the three years of youth he had paid for were ultimately fruitless. She didn't know what to say next, maybe just to give herself a step, and she asked, "Why?" Why can't you marry me? Didn't you say you were going to stay with me for the rest of your life? ”
Sun Zhongxin is not in a hurry, these words may have been brewing in his heart for a long time, or maybe he is also waiting for the opportunity to talk to Yiqun, and it just so happens that there is an opportunity now. Sun Zhongxin finally said three reasons, because because of these three points, he would not divorce and remarry.
First, for the sake of the children. Sun Zhongxin said that no matter what, he did not want the child to hate him, although he was not a good husband, but he wanted to work hard to be a good father, an impeccable good father, not to mention because of the mistakes he made, affect the future and future of the child, can not leave a bad impression on the child's mind.
Second, for the common good. For middle-aged people, divorce means separating the family, working hard for half a lifetime's savings, not wanting to lose most of it for no reason, not to mention divorce because of their own fault, perhaps facing the risk of leaving the house. Sun Zhongxin has always attached great importance to money, saying that it is his own blood and sweat, and he cannot put it down casually.
Third, marriage is the same as who is together. Perhaps love is beautiful, but entering marriage, being contaminated by chai rice oil and salt, in vivid love must also become realistic. Sun Zhongxin said that the longer you are with me, the more you feel like my wife, nagging, nosy, but you are not as good as her, she will work hard and complain, silently pay a lot for me, and you always force me to divorce and want to get something from me...
Women listen, this is the voice of men. For a man, if he really loves you, he will not be willing to let you be nameless, and he will not delay your life in order to enjoy a momentary happiness for himself. A man says that love is beautiful, but you can't be allowed to marry, that is also a white match. What do you think?