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Kai-Fu Lee admonished young people: In your 20s, you can't afford to lose

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If you're over 20 but not yet 25, you have to find something other than love that will make you stand strong on the earth with your feet. You have to find a way to make a living, and it's not too late to think about it.

I never thought that academic qualifications were important, geniuses are not science classes, but, not science classes, even dragon sets can not run.

Those floating thoughts must be gradually transformed into clear ideas and simple words. Neither flamboyance nor floating lasts long. You have to know that it is not enough to give the pleasure of reading the words, the content, the thoughts, the realms, the soul, the spirit and the wisdom, these are the things that matter. Don't read more about the texts of female writers who make the way with you. Don't be trivial, disease-free moaning. Don't write anything out of your mind. Don't linger on small sentimentalities and small touches.

I want you to believe in the old words of warmth, beauty, trust, dignity, and strength.

I don't want you to be decadent, empty, confused, abusive, and hurt others. I don't want you to make a mess of yourself. Temper your feelings and cherish them, understanding that this feeling is not something anyone can want.

Experiencing life is another matter and does not mean depravity and indulgence. Don't identify with those disguised cool and alternative. They are people who have nothing to do to find an excuse to let themselves have nothing to do, and the real coolness is in the heart, you have to have a strong heart.

Have the belief that it will pass and will not wear and die. It's not because I love the world in the ivory tower of the school that I say things like I love the world, it's because I know that it's black, dirty, and ugly outside, and then I have to say such things.

Love well, live. Youth is so short, don't sigh old. You can stop and rest once in a while, but don't crouch down and look. When you've walked a road, remember not to look back. Ask yourself from time to time, what are you doing?

When you are sad and aggrieved, you will cry. After washing your face after crying, pat yourself on the face and squeeze out a smile to show yourself. Do not rub, otherwise the eyes will swell the next morning.

Give yourself a big future and goals. Remember to always look up at the sky. Remember to look up at your feet when you look up at the sky.

Any time anyone asks you how many times you've been in a relationship, the answer is twice. Once he loved me and I didn't love him. Once I loved him and he didn't love me. Good love is always in the next time. Don't give the same guy two chances to hurt you.

Don't associate with prodigal sons, literary and artistic youth, don't be with people who have no heart and no lungs, don't be with people who don't have a legitimate career.

Don't take the sluts seriously. When a person abuses himself to please you, don't be moved by it. One man's cigarette butt burns on him, and the next one may burn on you. Similarly, when this woman's blade cuts her wrist, the next time it may cut yours.

Don't trust a man who isn't ready to introduce you to his circle of friends. When a woman is only willing to call you "baby", insist that she call you by your name because you are a man. When a man or woman is no longer looking for you, don't look for him or her again. Don't trust people who use means in love. Don't speak ill of you when you break up. Learn your lesson, but don't regret it. Regret is useless.

Don't do things that only someone does in third-rate love TV dramas like tearing photos, burning letters, and tearing diaries. Believe in love. I believe that good men and good women still exist, still unmarried, and still looking for you in the vast sea of people. Don't say "men (or women) don't have a good thing", so that others mistakenly think that you have read countless people.

Love matter, appropriately. Always knowing the spirit is more important. Compared with those famous watches, famous brands, fashion, more beautiful is the diligent and energetic self. If every penny you spend after the age of 20 is still reaching out to your parents and relatives, then your brand full of brand can only set off your shamelessness. Don't think that you have taste in the brand, know that if there is no real connotation, the mule with the golden saddle will not become a horse. You are still young, not to mention starting your career and creating your future, but you have reached adulthood, at least you must stop being a burden to your parents, so that your parents can see the hope of 20 years of hard upbringing.

Doing nothing will only turn you into a waste, a waste that is despised by all others, because you are a literal parasite. Don't think that with a weird hairstyle, wear non-male or female clothes, spray with pungent perfume, others will pay attention to you, and understand that the eyes that attract others are looking at a different monkey. Many cultured people do not write on their faces their dislike of the alternative you, but this disgust is certain to bring you extremely adverse consequences.

Don't look down on working people. Don't be ashamed of your labor. The land is not dirty, and the smell of sweat is not unpleasant. Please respect those who seem to be living in a situation inferior to yours, but still use their hands to work honestly to support their families, because this is to respect yourself. Always sympathize with those who live on the bottom, because our loved ones are in these crowds. We are not petite. We must be able to support ourselves, and that is where your dignity lies.

Don't underestimate a penny. You might as well earn it yourself. Sometimes you have to be tough, and when you are bullied, you must get it back! But don't be hateful.

The villain's opinion, let them go. Principled tolerance and mercy will make you noble.

Girls with careful machines are cute, but don't use this kind of trick on the corner, it will be very tiring.

Don't be too high-profile, high-profile is easy to provoke right and wrong. But don't be too low-key, when it's tough, it's tough, but don't be aggressive.

When hurt by a friend, don't doubt friendship, but beware of the person who betrays you. Forgive, but do not forget. Be a little naïve and childlike, and maintain some chivalrous feelings for friends. Be happy, be cheerful, be tough, be warm. It has nothing to do with personality. But you have to be loyal, diligent, and sincerely respectful of others so that your life is not dark.

Be lenient with yourself and be lenient with others. When you don't get angry or upset about little unsatisfactory little things, you'll be much more relaxed.

Forgive the world and yourself. Tell yourself that I deserve the best of everything.

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