Life is not confused
Author: Qiu Lianshan Recitation: Qiao Nan
Old Mr. Zheng Banqiao once said: Rare lake painting. This means that a person should not be preoccupied with things to deal with people, or it is better to paint a little lake. However, in real life, some people not only have a rare lake painting, but also a very lake painting, and the result is that they both destroy themselves and harm others. In a person's life, there are too many things to experience, and it is not easy to stay sober and live a life that is not a lake. Life is not a lake, that is, to have a sense of principle and to have a bottom-line thinking. No matter how big or small things are, we must not paint a picture, especially in the face of major rights and wrongs, we must strictly discipline ourselves, and we must clean ourselves in the subtleties. Only if life is not painted, can we be safe and happy for a lifetime, and be happy forever.
Life is not confused, it should be self-aware. The world is complex, life is ever-changing, if you want to live without a lake, you should be self-aware, always maintain a sober mind, learn to run your own life, rather than every day to mix days, let alone stay up every day. Those who are not sober are bound to be confused and have no direction. To maintain self-awareness, we must be clear about how many pounds we have, what we have, what we can do, what we will do, and we must avoid blind arrogance and arrogance. Obviously know that I am not a piece of stock speculation material, but I have to go to speculate in stocks, and in the end I can only end up in ruin, making a mess of life and making a mess of chicken feathers. Life is originally a difficult problem, we must be good at management, give full play to our strengths and avoid weaknesses, give full play to our own strengths, find the best position to play our own advantages, manage life well, make fewer mistakes, and do not run into walls. As the saying goes, without diamonds, don't do porcelain work. To maintain self-awareness, you must be clear about what you do, what you should do, what you can do, what you can't do, always grasp yourself, don't get carried away, and don't be afraid of anything. Those who deserve to be imprisoned are not unwise, they are not ignorant of the law. The reason, as in common as his remorse, is a momentary lake. There are no small things in life, and nothing can be painted for a while. People often say that big things are not lake painted, the implication is not that small things can be painted, but small things are not calculated, not impatient. Do not do what is good and small, and do not do it with evil. Often small things are painted on the lake, and eventually they will accumulate into large lakes. Life is a process of continuous awakening, and it is necessary to live to wake up to old age. The same is true of life, only by maintaining self-knowledge and self-knowledge, will the more you live, the more delicious you will be, the more meaningful you will be.
Life is not a lake, it should need to be content. Shao Yong, a famous theologian, mathematician and poet of the Northern Song Dynasty, has a contented poem: "Carefree and undesirable, why bother with small chips?" The bright moon breeze is at will, and the green mountains and green waters are at your disposal. Contentment is better than elixir, self-denial is better than a cow. Don't look forward to Shu, Shen Yi dreamed of steady and slow whitehead. This is how people should be, so should life, and it needs to be content. Contentment can always be happy, and must not be blindly compared with others. Otherwise, you will lose yourself and your life will be a mess. If you learn to be content, if you understand contentment, your life will be leisurely and you will be happy. Gain and loss, suffering and happiness, love and hate, encounter and parting, all the time, as long as you see it and think about it, you can get contentment. To know that happy people are not without pain, happiness and pain are relative, contentment, happiness. Life is like drinking water, hot and cold self-knowledge. Everyone has their own way of life, and happiness does not need to be compared. In the pursuit of a better life, the contentment of one's own heart is the most important. Don't be harsh on everything, nitpick every bit, be relaxed, life will have rules, there will be no mistakes, and there will be no confusion. There are too many things to pursue in life, and having it is not necessarily happiness, and losing it is not necessarily a bad thing. After suffering, we know that peace is the best, and after danger, we know that frankness is difficult to find. Although life is light, it is good to be content. The most beautiful thing in life is that you are not blessed in the blessing, and you are precious only when you lose it. One cannot do everything as one wishes, but one's heart needs to be content at all times. Only when you are satisfied, will life be satisfied and there will be happiness to speak of. If you learn to be content, you will understand life, know what you should need, what you should have, the road of life will be extended, and there will be joy in your heart.
Life is not a lake, you should learn to adapt. The ancients went to the countryside to follow the customs, to what mountains to cut what firewood, and to sing what songs. Life is actually a process of constant adaptation. Learning to adapt is both the need for survival and the need for life. Life cannot be as still as water and smooth sailing, and it is always necessary to encounter such failures and setbacks, and encounter unexpected changes and disasters. In the face of such a situation, the best choice is to accept reality and learn to adapt. Only by learning to adapt can we drive life and make our lives handy, not disorganized, and not disordered. Learning to adapt is both a challenge and a learning. In these rapidly changing times, everyone's life cannot wait until everything is ready to set sail. Any situation in the world is constantly changing, and to adapt one's thoughts to new circumstances one has to learn. Life is also like this, you need to continue to learn, broaden your horizons, increase your insights, enrich your experience, change yourself, and surpass yourself, in order to make yourself more and more intelligent, make life more smooth and perfect.
About the Author
Qiu Lianshan, who served in the army for 28 years, changed careers in 2006, served as the director of the provincial organs, and retired in 2019. Write a book and talk about masturbation.
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Qiao Nan, pen name Lou Lan Twilight Xue, likes to sing, read, dubbing, photography, sports (running, cycling). Motto: Those who have the ambition can accomplish things, break the cauldron and sink the boat, one hundred and two Qin Chuan will eventually belong to Chu, the bitter heart of the people will not bear the burden, the salary will taste the guts, and the three thousand Yue Jia can swallow Wu.
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