Wen 丨 love words at 10:30
I'm here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
Everyone comes into this world, they are lonely, at the beginning of life someone laughs for you, and at the end of life someone suffers for you. But throughout your life, there don't seem to be many people who can cry or laugh with you.
Life is like a aimless one-way trip, you don't know where to go, in a hurry, meet many people and say goodbye to many people, you will find yourself very lonely, can not find similar souls to accompany you.
It seems that strong social skills can make a lot of friends and get more hilarity and attention than others, as if "social talents" will never be lonely.
In fact, loneliness is not measured by the number of friends, not by the number of words to judge, and not to see whether a person likes to be alone.
True loneliness is not finding similar souls, no one resonating with themselves, no one understanding themselves, and what they are thinking in their hearts.
The ancients once said: "It is difficult to find a voice, but it is difficult to find a confidant." "Finding a soul similar to oneself is a difficult thing to do. Just like Bo Ya broke the string for the bell period, because once the bell period was gone, no one could hear the intention in his piano.
We are the same, we always expect that when we talk, someone will understand the grievances and bitterness in their hearts; when they are happy, someone can understand the smile on their faces; and when they share, someone will respond to that enthusiasm.
But when all this doesn't materialize, disappointment and loneliness take over our hearts.
Therefore, throughout our lives, we continue to try to move forward, constantly through the sea of people, and what we want to meet is only a similar soul.
We long for true confidants, for walking hand in hand as friends, for a soul mate to spend the rest of our lives together as lovers, but it is not easy.
Therefore, instead of spending every day in a bitter pursuit, it is better to cherish the time of the moment and enjoy the loneliness.
Jiang Xun once said: "There is nothing wrong with being lonely, it is not good to be lonely, because you are afraid of loneliness." ”
It is true that we are all too afraid of being alone, and in such a complex world, we are all afraid of being hurt, afraid of being alone in the face of an unknown future, afraid of not even being comforted when we are sad.
But loneliness is unavoidable, what we can do is that after recognizing the truth of reality, we can still enjoy life and face loneliness, which is real optimism and bravery.
Loneliness cannot be eliminated, then we truly respect it, accept it, and enjoy it.
You may wish to read more books, take more trips, collide with the outside world, and there are many different wonderful things in life.
There are good friends in the book, and by reading more books, we can absorb more ideas and have a collision of thoughts and souls with the people who write the books.
When reading countless papers, we always have the opportunity to meet people who are truly suitable for our souls, which is also a way to effectively reduce the loneliness of life.
When there are more rich thoughts in our own minds, we can also have more possibilities to collide with other people's thoughts in the vast world and meet better people.
Traveling outside, seeing more scenery, and hearing more about life will make us more able to see the essence of life, which is actually a journey in the human world.
After walking through thousands of rivers and mountains, through wind and rain, we will become stronger. As a result, loneliness will become less worthwhile.
Because, the world always has more interesting things than finding similar souls, and there is a better future waiting for us to develop.
When you feel lonely, you may wish to get to know some more people. The relationship between people is built by communication and communication, if you always close yourself, it is difficult for others to understand what kind of person you are, let alone be able to walk into your heart and make deep friends with you.
Meet more people of all kinds, get to know each other's thoughts and lives, maybe this is the beginning of you, finding the soul that is similar to yourself.
Low-quality social, not as good as high-quality solitude, when you have gone through half a life, after the wind and rain but still can not find the person, can resonate with their own soul, then let go.
Sometimes loneliness isn't that scary, and loneliness can be a form of freedom.
In this noisy and noisy world, peace of mind is a rare thing. If you want to achieve goals and ideals in this impetuous environment, loneliness may become one of the factors of success.
Writer Jiang Xiaoying once said: "A person alone seems to lose a lot, but it will also gain a lot." ”
In a life alone, you can stop and go, think about your own direction, accept your own pride and disappointment, without considering the eyes of others, no more constraints, no need to rely on others, can be more self-disciplined, love yourself more, these will eventually make you more excellent.
The poet Hermann Hesse, the beautiful world in his heart, is a person alone but very comfortable, asking for nothing else, sunburned by the warm sun.
If we can recognize the nature of loneliness and enjoy living alone, we can also have our own beautiful world.
True loneliness is to not find similar souls, so what? Before that, why don't we first spend time alone with our interesting souls?
In the short journey of life, cultivate a fun soul and a strong heart, maybe one day in the future, someone will find your cuteness!