Introduction: Whether a woman is running a business or a love, she needs to use a little bit of cunning and strategy. Of course, using mental scheming is not the same as hypocrisy, but will make your goals more smoothly achieved, or achieved faster. It will also maximize your charm, enhance your charm, and naturally increase your value.
Looking at real life, no man really likes to surround himself all day long, trying to please himself and please himself with women. On the contrary, the desire to conquer in their bones favors women who are unruly or cold and difficult to approach.
Therefore, many times, women must calm down and be able to "hold on".
Of course, not all women are suitable for taking the high-cold style route. Even if it is "silly and white and sweet", you must also master your own bottom line principle, that is, love yourself more than love men, and will not lose yourself and get carried away for any man.
What Silly White Sweet needs to protect is his own clear kindness and pure heart, and this charm is irreplaceable.
<h1>1. The King of Qin, who is both good and evil, wins the donkey</h1>
Returning to the truth, Mi Yue's attitude towards men in "The Legend of Mi Yue" varies from person to person. She will adjust her style and strategy at any time according to different men. Mi Yue was birdish and clear in front of Huang Xie, but in front of Qin Wang Yingsi, it was another arrogant and cold posture with a strange and unpredictable mind.
This makes Mi Yue look quite different among the many harem concubines of the concubines and wins, and at the same time has some mysterious and new tricks.
For Win Si, Mi Yue is a woman he can never conquer, even if he later embraces Mi Yue into his arms and takes her to the dragon bed, he still can't conquer her mysterious heart. It is this trait of Mi Yue that has a fatal attraction to Win Donkey.
The win in the original work is not the same as the win in the TV series, and the win in the TV series is calm and practicing, rigorous in style, and does not smile. However, the winning donkey in the original text is a "prodigal son of a wandering man". In fact, it is not appropriate to say this, more accurately, it is difficult to understand that the winning donkey is "both good and evil". He is a king with a dual personality.
When Yingsi married Mi Shu, she was in her thirties, which is the most attractive age for men. In the original book, he is introduced as follows:
Qin Wangsi was in his thirties at this time, although his appearance did not belong to the list of handsomeness... However, because he has been in a high position for a long time, his words and deeds naturally carry a kind of prestige, and he is extremely intelligent, he can see through people's hearts at a glance, and when he looks at others, he will be flustered, and three words and two words can point directly to the secrets of others' hearts.
It is no wonder that Mi Shu would have fallen in love with him at first sight and was crazy about love, for such an experienced and good at spying on people's hearts, how could the teenage girl Mi Shu resist?
At that time, Mi Shu was directly dazzled by the charm of Win Si. The appearance of Yingsi satisfies all of Mi Shu's fantasies and expectations for her favorite male god. Therefore, it is better to risk the loss of fame and honor, but also to sneak to win the coaching inn and willingly "make raw rice into a mature meal" with him.
After Mi Shu led her daughters to marry into the Qin Kingdom, after only a few days of hard work, Mi Shu surrendered to the King of Qin. And several of the concubines around Mi Shu were even more coaxed by the King of Qin to be confused, so their hearts were full of flowers. The original text reads:
In front of these teenage palace maidens, what they think, what they want, what they want to show, what they want to cover up, between them, or they can play some mental tricks, but in front of him, who has been in power for a long time, it is like a stream, clear to the bottom.
However, seeing that The King of Qin led Mi Shu and others to walk in front, slowly walking and speaking, pointing out the palace que, the gorgeous words and chapters came by hand, the mountains and rivers of the world were all in the palm of their hands, but they were able to understand the temper and hobbies of Mi Shu and the women of the concubines, and they talked and laughed in every way, and the Kwa Meng Zhao clan "women have a line", the Kwa Ji Zhao clan "beautiful eyes and hopes", the Kwa Qu clan "Kui You Hehua", the Kwa Jing clan "Yan Ru Shunhua", the Kwa Jing clan was full of joy, and the faces were blushing.
Look, the winner in the original book is a master of the wind and moon, very good at flirting, not at all like the people set up in the TV series as serious and stereotyped, not smiling.
The girls had just entered the Qin Palace, and their hearts were troubled, and after following the King of Qin along the way, they all relaxed and became talkative and laughing, but they could hear the laughter and the sound of the voice in their ears.
<h1>2, different, difficult to tame Mi Yue</h1>
Yingsi, who is in the flowers, will instantly transform into a central air conditioner, sending spring wind to every woman, sending warmth, and blowing their spring hearts and confused feelings. And this scene is exactly what Mi Yue does not want to see, she also thought that Win Si was a cautious word and deed, step by step, and affectionate and dedicated love saint, but he was so frivolous and promiscuous.
Mi Yue couldn't help but sneer in her heart: "The king of a powerful country is nothing more than that." Far worse than my son. My son Xie only loves me, even shu sister's overtures have refused, my son Xie although the surname is Yellow, but not yellow at all... Not like this Qin King! ”
The King of Qin and Mi Shu walked side by side, and when they turned back occasionally, they also saw that the original tense and respectful state of the concubines had relaxed, and the original waist and limbs were stiffly following behind, and now they were also Gu Pansheng. But only Mi Yue still maintained a state of stiffness and tension, and there was a slight surprise in her heart, and she couldn't help but pay more attention.
Seeing that Mi Yue was not at all moved by his sweet words and flowing style, he would naturally have some doubts in his heart: "What do you mean?" You gave me a little response, the other women were all taken off their horses by me, and they were eager to immediately throw themselves into my arms. What is your reaction? Isn't my charm worth a look? Strange, how come this guy isn't like a human being? Is this ignoring my charm? Hey, hey, do you want me to perform a more exciting performance for you? I said, the girl who is not looking at me has noticed, hey, I, I'm here..."
Obviously, Yingsi has been attracted by Mi Yue's distinctive high-cold style. From this moment on, Mi Yue has already occupied a dominant position in the relationship between the sexes. This is also one of the "behavior patterns of dealing with lowly men", the more he rushes to the women who are good to him, the less rare he is, but the more women who do not take him seriously, the more they will stimulate his curiosity and desire to conquer.
Mi Yue is best at using different "strategies" for different men. Do the opposite, and win by surprise. Her strategy has been used more than once.
When he first encountered assassins in the streets of Chu and Yingsi, Mi Yue deliberately called the King of Qin, who had the imperial prestige, "Old Uncle", which instantly stimulated Yingsi's curiosity and freshness. Because it was the first time in his life that he was called "Old Uncle", it was too interesting and surprising.
After he returned to the inn, he kept pondering the meaning of these two words: "Old uncle? Is it that I am old? Or is it an allusion to me being as kind as the old man next door? Or is it demeaning me for not having imperial prestige? Or is it a secret satire on my earthy and rustic atmosphere? What the hell does that mean? ”
No matter what the answer is, Mi Yue's words have already taken root and fermented in Win Si's heart, and once a woman's words are willing to be spent a lot of time by men to ponder, what will happen over time - the result is self-evident, right?
Therefore, in the management of love or career, women need to learn a little bit of heart attack, do not chatter and nag. This will not only not be able to catch the other party's heart, but will make the other party dislike you and stay away from you. To extract the essence of what you want to say, find a suitable time to smash on the other party's soft ribs or heart!
Statement: Although Yujun said that the head is the Tao, but it is only a bystander Qing, his low emotional intelligence has no to fight. The literary friends can just laugh at it, don't take it seriously.