Hello everyone, I'm Sicily.
Recently, the news that Du Haitao Shen Mengchen may have broken up has spread widely.
Because at the end of last month, Du Haitao had a birthday, at this time in previous years, Shen Mengchen would send Weibo to celebrate his birthday no matter what.
This year, Shen Mengchen did not say anything, not even a birthday microblog.
The most recent mention of Du Haitao's Weibo was also the news that they had donated money together in July.
The rest of the time, some netizens mentioned Du Haitao, Shen Mengchen often avoided these problems.
When recording a certain program this year, when Deng Ziqi asked "Are you not married to Du Haitao because you don't love enough", Shen Mengchen was even more embarrassed and his eyes were evasive.
So some netizens predicted: they have broken up.
From sweet love to frequent rumors of marriage to frequent rumors of breakups, the couple has experienced too much.
But 8 years in love, mentioned a lot of secondary marriage, but still not married.
It is hard to help but feel that it is difficult for them to get married.
A few months ago, shen Mengchen urged Du Haitao to marry the topic once triggered a hot search.
In a certain program, Shen Mengchen said that he did not get married because Haitao could not move.
Many times I have brushed up fake news on the Internet, and I have also had nightmares about the absence of the groom at the wedding site.
Inside and outside the words are that Haitao does not want to get married.
It is also a crazy hint between words: marry me home!
At that time, it was through the so-called talk show and jokes to pour out these pressures, but her desire to get married was overflowing.
Later, Du Haitao also responded to Shen Mengchen's marriage urging through variety shows.
But compared to his girlfriend's enthusiasm, Du Haitao is much lighter.
First of all, he said that this incident caused trouble to his girlfriend, and he felt that he had let his boyfriend be wronged and took the initiative to apologize.
In addition, everyone takes these news out of context and is misled.
When it comes to getting married, it says to "follow the steps"! Anyway, each stage should do what should be done at that stage, there is no need to share it with everyone at the first time.
Well, it feels like saying everything and not saying anything.
Old PR.
After the variety show was broadcast, their relationship was more questioned, and the topic of the two breaking up was hotly searched.
In fact, I can clearly feel Shen Mengchen's expectations for marriage.
Whether it was when they broke up with each other because of external pressure, or now they are looked down upon and questioned.
In this relationship, it is Shen Mengchen who has been insisting and taking the initiative.
She even wrote her wedding speech two years ago.
The moment a girl loves you the most is when she is determined to spend the rest of her life with you, imagining marriage and the future.
But waiting for a long time has no echo, and it always hurts the most.
No matter how good the feelings, no matter how determined the love, dragging on for three or five years has no answer, it will be discouraging.
Therefore, the netizens with bright eyes felt that Du Haitao was not worthy of such a good girl, and shouted to Shen Mengchen to let her run.
It's just feelings, like fish drinking water, cold and warm self-knowledge.
Whether it is true love or a show, it will see people's hearts for a long time.
But Sicily still wants to say that for a girl who wants to spend the rest of her life with you, no amount of signs of love before can compare to the "I'll marry you home" move.
The so-called love should be to plan you into my life.
Many netizens sighed after watching Shen Mengchen's "marriage promotion" drama:
"At that time, Kan Qingzi seemed to want to get married, but Ji Lingchen didn't think so, so she broke up later."
There are also many people who have echoed, "In love for more than a few years, the woman wants to get married, but the boy has not mentioned that if he gets married, he will change people, and he will not have a few years of youth." ”
It is true that there are many such lovers, obviously very sweet love, but it is a delay in getting married, and there is no mention of breaking up, maybe it takes many years to finally cultivate the right results, and maybe turn around and find a younger girl.
Kan Qingzi, 33 years old this year, once looked forward to marriage and love.
I remember that she once talked to her friends about her predecessor Ji Lingchen in a variety show, saying: Men who don't want to marry you must not love you.
"I think a man who marries you is a commitment to your love; if he doesn't even give you marriage, it's not loving you enough." 」
When in love, Kan Qingzi had revealed to Ji Lingchen more than once that he wanted to get married before the age of 30.
Maybe she doesn't hate marriage, she just lacks a sense of security and needs a commitment and guarantee.
The more important reason is that she is really ready to work with that person for a lifetime.
It's just that 30-year-old Kan Qingzi couldn't wait for Ji Lingchen's marriage proposal.
Three years of sweetness, in the end, only she was exhausted, and Ji Lingchen left a plausible "scumbag quote" to end the relationship.
The future we are looking forward to is really just a joke.
That's why I'll push it off again and again, and wait until I've made enough money to marry you.
In his eyes, money is not meant to give you a home to shelter from the wind and rain, but to use as an excuse to prevaricate.
It's not that you don't love.
It's true, not enough love.
"People who want to send you home, both east, west, south and north, and those who want to accompany you to dinner can eat sweet and sour."
The people who want to marry you, poor and white, want to be your sun and give you all the warmth and love.
No matter how sweet you talk, it is better than an actual wedding, a definite future.
People who truly love you won't make you wait too long.
I have seen too many love that runs away in the middle, so I understand a sentence better: the most advanced show of love is "marry you home".
For example, Zhang Xinyi and Yuan Hong.
When the two met, one was a "not expensive" woman who had been divorced once, and the other was a handsome man with a good star.
When Zhang Xinyi knew that Yuan Hong liked her, it was unbelievable.
Even she herself was afraid that she was not worthy of Yuan Hong, who was good enough, thinking that he would not like a divorced "not expensive" self.
So she hesitated, but Yuan Hong dispelled all her concerns.
Give her a grand wedding, all the pampering, and the sincerity of many years.
Deep in love, you can't help but start planning a new life, hoping that everything in the future, the two people can go hand in hand.
The happiest feeling is to go in both directions.
Sicily couldn't help but think of a quote from Gina in an interview: The most romantic thing Lang Lang had ever done was to put her and his future together.
In the two years since Lang Langina's marriage, they have been on countless hot searches, some people mocking, some insulting.
But the love between them never dissipated.
Gina also realized the transformation of the star Gina from the beginning of the "Lang Lang wife".
Admittedly, Lang Lang did.
It is so beautiful to be able to firmly bind each other's future and advance and retreat together.
Because I love you, I know that adult love does not only need to love so simple.
Because I love you, I am willing to give you a definite future.
-Write at the end-
There are only a few decades or eight years in life, and there is no way to meet more lovers who are willing to walk through the bittersweet and bittersweet with you.
Of course, marriage requires time to run into, but time is also limited.
Some people say that the longer love runs, the stronger the feelings.
But feelings are too easy to change.
The cruelest aspect of love is that you have fantasized countless times about me and your future, but you have not imagined having a future with me.
Marriage is not a form, but a commitment, and the courage for you to walk together for the rest of your lives in the future.
Unfortunately, some people miss it and never come back.
Some feelings are procrastinating again and again, and there is no more following.
The person who wants to live with you may not necessarily love you, but the person who is willing to live with you may really want to live a peaceful life with you.
If you really love someone, don't let them wait too long.
Hopefully, everyone will meet someone who is willing to plan you into each other's future.