Text/Jiang Wanyu
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The saddest thing about a person is not that he cannot get the support of others, but that even he cannot support his own decisions. If you don't even believe in yourself in this world, who can you expect to support you and always stand behind you?
Dong Qing once said that she is a stubborn and curious person, always likes to chase new things. This is because she likes it, so she will continue to subvert herself in the process of work and make some shocking choices.
Few hosts choose to go back to campus again and again to enrich themselves when they are at work. But Dong Qing just likes this, as long as she has time, she will go to the campus to study, for this woman, taking a degree seems so simple, I think this is because she will read and the demand for knowledge as extremely natural, do what she likes, of course, do not feel difficult.
Even if there was no time, Dong Qing even chose to chase his heart, wanted to precipitate himself, and immediately left all the achievements and aura at that time. Just a few years ago, when Dong Qing was in the host world, just when she could always be seen in the CCTV large-scale program, Dong Qing suddenly disappeared in a torrent.
Some say she married a wealthy businessman and quit the industry; some say she secretly had a child, but not publicly. Dong Qing said that she went to the United States and re-entered the campus to study and precipitate herself.
I don't know which one to believe more, but whether it is to choose to leave for marriage and family, or to let his soul run away in freedom and settle in a place far away from the hustle and bustle, it is Dong Qing's own choice, and it is a choice that others may not understand.
She walked for more than 20 years to get to this position, worked hard for more than 20 years, and has today's achievements, and once she leaves this post for a long time, everything in front of her will become a bubble like a storm and snow, and may disappear at any time. But Dong Qing thought of it and did it, saying that he would leave without nostalgia.
Similarly, when she had a new idea for the show and wanted to come back and talk to the audience again, she simply clicked back. This time, she even changed her identity, not only as a host standing in front of the stage, but also as a planner standing behind the scenes, not only to tell other people's stories, but also to pass on her own values to the audience.
This is equivalent to abandoning all her achievements in hosting, starting from a new choreographer, and even bearing more pressure and scrutiny. And this time, Dong Qing seemed to be unable to withstand failure, because she was no longer young, she had stood too high.
There must have been someone who prevented her from making such a risky choice, obviously she can lie on her past achievements and enjoy the rewards, obviously she has done enough and gone far enough, why bother to toss it? But Dong Qing still chose to do it when she thought, she was always so determined, always clearly understood what she wanted, and always be her first supporter.
This is an indispensable confidence. A person must have the courage to support himself to prove that he is confident and trustworthy enough. Only in this way can it be difficult to lose oneself in the face of difficulties, it is not easy to treat one's choices with an attitude of doubt and questioning, and it is not easy to waver in the process of moving forward.
Life is a long way to go, and it is difficult for us to get the support of others from beginning to end. It's like someone once said, "If everyone agrees with you, what will your ordinary look like?" As a person with a unique personality, we will eventually have our own independent thinking and ideas, Mo said to get the approval of everyone, but only to get the support of relatives and friends around us is sometimes difficult.
At this time, you don't support your own ideas, who else can you expect to stand behind you? Remember, in this life, only you can accompany yourself to the end, so there is no one to rely on, only yourself.
It is precisely because thousands of people rely on their own ideas that they can stand up as an independent person! Dong Qing is like this, you can also be so.
A girl once confided in me that she was getting married, but she was not happy. It turned out that she had a boyfriend who had been together for a long time, who was a good person and had a good relationship with each other. But what's the use of that? She has always been well-behaved, she has never rebelled against her parents' ideas, so under the opposition of her parents, she has struggled, but she can only compromise and break up.
"Watching my mother cry like that in front of my eyes, saying that if I married so far away, to marry a poor boy, she would not live. I...... I can't do anything about it..." The girl told me with tears in her eyes.
Now, she was going to marry someone her parents liked, a person she didn't hate, but she didn't have any feelings. However, she also knew that he seemed very suitable for marriage, and that everyone around him was blessing them and happy for them.
The whole world told her it was her best bet. But did this choice really come from her heart? Her bitter expression was the best answer.
I really want to shake this girl awake. Wake up, don't sing bitter melodrama anymore, are you Juliet born hundreds of years ago or Zhu Yingtai? We are just ordinary people, there is no choice, there is no way to go, in the face of men you don't like, as long as you don't want to marry, the whole world will not be able to force it.
I'm sorry for you, it's not your parents or your relatives and friends who are not trying to persuade you, it's not your own. If you can stick to yourself, how many regrets can be saved? How many people don't have to pretend to be happy about the choices they don't want to face.
No one can make decisions for you, you have to do it yourself. Happiness and glory can be enjoyed, pain and responsibility must be shouldered, no matter how many gossip and gossip there are for millions of people, you have to tell yourself that you always have a supporter.
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That's your own heart.