The TV series "Little Shed" pushed the tepid Song Jia to the peak of traffic, and no one expected that she was 41 years old this year and coincidentally gained attention with a parenting drama.
She plays Nan Li, a reasonable and intelligent mother in the play.
In the face of the increasingly "inward" situation of raising a baby, she still chooses to respect the nature of her children and let her daughter grow up happily.
This person is very pleasing, and Song Jia has also gained the love of a large number of audiences.
But in fact, outside the screen, the 41-year-old Song Jia is still unmarried, and even at the 19-year youth movie feast, her friend Haiqing also ridiculed Song Jia's privacy.
"In order to prove that she is young, Song Jia has not yet married, and privately let us call her Xiaohua." Song Jia, a straightforward northeastern girl, also directly replied at that time: "The above views only represent Haiqing's personal views. After saying that, he got off the stage, leaving Haiqing on the stage very embarrassed.
In fact, Song Jia has had three relationships before, but none of them have a good ending, so she still cares about others' public ridicule, after all, her history in the entertainment industry has always been controversial.
01
On November 13, 1980, Song Jia was born in a well-off family in Harbin, Heilongjiang, her parents are civil servants, the family is very well-off, and as an only child, she naturally received great love from her parents.
Although Song Jia's parents love their daughter, they never spoil her, and have carried out strict education for her since childhood, not to distract her from playing, Song Jia has been reciting Tang poems and Song Ci since she was a child, so she has always had an elegant temperament.
After going to primary school, her parents specially made a point for her, so that Xiao SongJia visited Feng Shaoxian, a national first-class player and a famous yueqin player, as a teacher to learn traditional folk music.
At first, Xiao Songjia was very fresh about learning musical instruments, so she studied carefully for a few days, but she gradually felt that it was too boring to be locked up at home to practice, so she secretly broke the piano and thought that this would save her from the pain of practicing.
After her parents knew, they were very angry, and they beat up Little Song Jia, and she accepted the heart to practice seriously.
Song Jia studied at the Secondary Music School affiliated to Shenyang Conservatory of Music in high school, and in order to better take care of her daughter's schooling, Song Jia's mother also quit her job to accompany her to Shenyang.
According to her mother's planning, Song Jia should be admitted to the Shenyang Conservatory of Music, and after graduation, she should be a music teacher in peace and stability, which is a decent and easy job for girls, and she will find an ordinary person to marry in the future.
But little Song Jia gradually grew into adolescence, with her own independent thinking, she began to feel that her mother's love suffocated her, she wanted to escape from this life controlled by her mother, so mother and daughter often quarreled.
Before the college entrance examination, Song Jia was practicing in the piano room, when suddenly a student sister came in, and the two talked happily.
This student sister, named Fan Zhibo, was studying acting at the Shanghai Theater Academy at the time, and when she knew the bitterness in Song Jia's heart, she comforted her.
"The Shanghai Theater Academy has an examination center in Harbin, and is undergoing enrollment work, your image and temperament are very good, and you have a talented body, maybe you can try it."
Song Jia was excited and worried after hearing this, she wanted to break free from her mother's control too much, but she had never left the northeast, and it was still a big challenge to go to Shanghai alone, and her mother would definitely not agree.
After thinking about it again, Song Jia took the Shanghai Theater Academy exam without her parents, but she was too nervous in the first exam and made several mistakes during the poetry recitation, but fortunately, she designed two musical sketches herself and won back a round, and the teachers present appreciated her very much.
In the summer of the millennium, Song Jia was admitted to both the Shenyang Conservatory of Music and the Shanghai Theater Academy.
The parents learned that their daughter secretly applied for the Shanghai Theater Academy, and at first the mother did not agree, but seeing her daughter's excited appearance and not being able to let her give up her dream, she could only send her to Shanghai to study.
When she first arrived in Shanghai, Song Jia was very excited, she could finally live an independent life without being disturbed by others, but gradually she became more and more unable to study.
Most of the students around her have a foundation in acting, and she has no experience in acting when she learns music since she was a child, and often cannot keep up with the pace of teachers' teaching.
Song Jia began to become cautious, very nervous in front of people, stumbling as soon as she got on stage, and had an inferiority complex.
But this stubborn northeast girl did not give up, privately practiced the basic skills, gradually found a way to learn, but also adapted to the new environment, learning became better and better, won the affirmation of teachers and classmates.
In her sophomore year, Song Jia participated in her first TV series "Actually Don't Want to Go", she was very young at the time, and her acting skills needed to be honed, so this TV series did not set off much splash, but fortunately, she also officially stepped into her own acting career.
02
In 2003, Song Jia met her first love, named Chen Long, who was also a student of the Shanghai Theater Academy, and was 4 years older than Song Jia.
The two came together because of the drama when they were working together on the TV series "Izumi Hibiscus".
Chen Long is a native of Shanghai, his appearance is very handsome, he is Song Jia's senior, often take care of her in private, but also take Song Jia to shanghai's old alley to hang out, the two often go out together to eat,
In this way, Song Jia immersed herself in love and successfully spent her university life, and the two became a couple that everyone envied at that time.
In the following years, Song Jia successively participated in TV series such as "The More Alive and More Wonderful", "Very Romantic", "Against the Cold Water", "Please Close Your Eyes When Dark" and so on, although they are all supporting roles, she has accumulated enough acting skills in the process.
In 2006, Song Jia, Hu Jun and Liu Jialing performed together in the movie "Curiosity Kills the Cat", in which she played the straightforward and touching "hair washing sister" Liang Xiaoxia, which vividly interpreted a beautiful and sexy and confused woman.
Even the lead actors Hu Jun and Liu Jialing greatly appreciated her acting skills.
Kung Fu pays off, song Jia was also nominated for the 26th Golden Rooster Awards for Best Supporting Actress because of this work, and she had a place in the acting industry for the first time.
After coming to prominence, Song Jia received a lot of attention, and even Wang Jinghua, who has the "first agent in the mainland", invited her to join the company.
This agent is very capable, and has won the popular Chen Daoming, Li Bingbing and other famous actors.
Song Jia knew that his opportunity had come, and he was very excited and had been planning to go to Beijing with her boyfriend Chen Long to develop, but Chen Long debuted early and already had his own career in Shanghai, and he could not leave with his girlfriend.
Song Jia fell into a difficult choice, and in the end she chose to go north to make a move, and this youthful love of her youth was ended, and many people regretted it until later.
In an interview many years later, Chen Long also generously admitted the love affair between the two, and said: "Before it has been not open because of fear of affecting Song Jia's development, he does not want the other party to sacrifice for himself." "It's also a very kind ex-boyfriend."
03
After Song Jia came to Beijing, her career gradually became prosperous.
Wang Jinghua knows that Song Jia has acting skills, and does not want her to rely on beauty and sexiness to win attention, she gave Song Jia a national-level drama "Breaking into The Guandong".
The drama was broadcast on January 2, 2008 on CCTV1 Prime Time, starring Li Youbin, Sarina, Xiao Songjia and Zhu Yawen, and received rave reviews as soon as it was broadcast, and also won the 24th China Television Golden Eagle Awards - Long-form TV Best Work Award.
"Breaking into Kanto" officially opened Song Jia's drama road, she played the well-behaved and stoic "Xian'er" to life, and the audience was very distressed about this bitter woman.
During that time, the big aunt on the street saw Song Jia and hugged her warmly, and she also accumulated audience popularity, and the name of little Song Jia was well known.
After Song Jia became famous, she was invited by director Wu Yusen to shoot the movie "Chibi", in which she played Li Ji and extended her play path to the field of ancient costumes.
Then director Zhang Li found her and invited her to shoot "Once Upon a Time in China", this Zhang Li already had a family at that time, his wife was Liu Bei, and this Liu Bei was Zhang Ruoyun's stepmother.
Liu Bei first married Zhang Ruoyun's father Zhang Jian, and later after the two divorced, they were with director Zhang Li.
But this marriage did not last long, because the media broke the news that actor Xiao Songjia and director Zhang Jian had a relationship when they cooperated, when Liu Bei was pregnant, and she was discouraged from divorce and her ex-husband after giving birth to her son.
After the divorce, Zhang Li and Xiao Songjia were even photographed going out shopping together, and it is suspected that they have lived together.
For a time, the voices of the outside world began to test Song Jia's private life, and in the face of various doubts, Song Jia deliberately kept a distance from Zhang Li at the beginning, and even did not hesitate to concoct and other people's scandals to divert the attention of the media.
Even angrily shouted at the media: "It's all bullshit! ”
The feelings of the two are indeed not accepted by everyone, when Song Jia was just 28 years old, and the director Zhang Li was 51 years old, the difference between the two was 23 years old; and Song Jia was young and beautiful, and Zhang Lichang's appearance was not proud and had 5 marriages.
Until Liu Bei remarried her ex again, the two finally couldn't help but start attending the event together like a pair of lovers, and director Zhang Li also tailored a number of film and television dramas for Song Jia.
But public opinion did not let them go, and for a time the attacks and insults of "Xiao San and Jiàn Rén" poured in, and Song Jia fought back in front of the public this time:
Although the words are tough, after all, the reason is a loss, the husband's pregnancy infidelity is a fatal blow to any woman, but Song Jia is holding "dare to love and dare to hate" as a shield, covering up the fact that she is a "little three" is immoral.
Shortly after Song Jia spoke out for love, the two broke up, and in this relationship, Song Jia became the person who was spurned by everyone and left the scene.
04
In 2012, Song Jia and Zhang Jiayi collaborated on "Cliff" to bring her career to the peak again, winning the Golden Eagle Award and the Magnolia Award for two best actresses in one fell swoop, which is a very important award in the Chinese performing arts industry, which makes Song Jia once again recognized.
In the following years, she also made many dramas, but there was no fire, and she made a boyfriend in the middle, but in the end she did not come together.
Until Haiqing's words on the podium in 19 years once again stung her nerves, her former boyfriend Chen Long had already married and had children, and the 41-year-old Song Jia was still single.
Maybe she still has expectations for love, but the mistakes she made can no longer be repaired, and she can only devote all the value of her life to her career.
Her acting skills are becoming more and more mature, and this year she has also become popular with "Little Shed", but she has always been missing something in life.
Everyone has a young age, the mistakes made by reckless impulses can ruin themselves, and the gifts that fate gives you have long marked the price behind their backs.
For Song Jia, success in her career is already the greatest consolation, and she hopes that after everything, she can harvest her own happiness.