What is fate? Fate is given by the Heavenly Dao, and there is only one point of the gift. Division is self-cultivation after dependent arising.
There is no difference in size, but how many points there are.
Seeing each other is a cause, and if you can meet and intersect, it is a process of self-cultivation. A thoughtful word is one point more, and a hurtful sentence is one point less. If the division is zeroed, it is also the fate that is exhausted.
This is true of everything in the world. The same is true of parents, children, relatives and friends.
If there is a fate, it is necessary to cultivate, and it takes great wisdom and perseverance to cultivate. Although a point of effort may not have a point of return. The increase or decrease of the point depends on the time, place, people, and the right time is indispensable to meet the right person to do the right thing and say the right thing. Those who have attained enlightenment and understanding have done more with less, and those who have not attained enlightenment have all their fates destroyed. The fate of all things between people needs to be destroyed by each other.