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Every encounter is fate

author:Mu Xiaoyan
Every encounter is fate

01

I wanted to write this article two months ago, but I haven't had time to write about it.

Little did I know that my classmate, who liked me in college, would become my colleague four years later.

In fact, before my brother came to our school to report, I knew that he was coming to our school because I had read the list of new teachers in advance.

It was really dramatic.

Back in college, my brother was going to confess to me, but I had something to do later, and then he was drunk there alone, and he got drunk before I arrived.

When I arrived, my friends said, you came too late, the student just said he liked you, you missed the wonderful moment.

But I didn't take it seriously, who knows later the student added my contact information, whether I said anything specifically, I can't remember clearly.

I thought this was just a small episode of life, but it was over.

I didn't expect to become a colleague after four years, working in the same unit, looking up and not looking down.

From the time of the incident to the present, I found that I was still quite close to my brother.

But when it comes to feelings, it's a nod.

Because before I met him, I already had someone I liked.

Every encounter is fate

02

The relationship with the students is also the bench game on Teachers' Day, and in the end, only the two of us are left.

It was both embarrassing and ridiculous, and maybe only the two of us knew that feeling.

I really hope that the student has forgotten about that incident, and from a lot of details, I think he, like me, has not forgotten.

But it's okay, because I don't have too many ideas, and I'll just be a colleague in the future.

It is nothing more than to lament that fate is indeed wonderful, but if you think about it, there are too many things that have fate happening in our lives.

For example, you have the same hobbies as someone, you talk speculatively, you have known a few good friends for more than ten years, etc., these are all fates.

Many people also pay attention to fate when waiting for the other half to appear.

I feel that fate has arrived, things have naturally become, there is no need to deliberately look for it.

But sometimes, fate comes too late, and it will only be missed.

Just like me and my apprentices, there is a good relationship, but the fate of too late is also uninteresting.

Every encounter is fate

03

Fate is the same as the order of appearance of life, too early and too late.

It has to happen at the right time for the relationship to blossom.

I once read a book that said when you break up with someone, or are divorced, never contact again.

It means that your fate has come to this point, and your fate has ended.

I never knew that fate would also disappear, I always thought that love had disappeared, but in fact, fate was gone.

So when a relationship is over, there is no need to blame the other party excessively, it can only mean that you have no chance.

But fate can happen at any time, as if the next second you'll meet someone new.

And everyone you meet is driven by fate.

However, fate is also divided into good and bad, deep and shallow, and sooner or later.

When you can always be with one person, it means that the fate between you is relatively deep.

If you encounter it, please guard this deep fate.

Every encounter is fate