Text | Nanagi Year Edited | wheat
On April 8, Andy Lau's global fans will post a Weibo post saying: "Untamed, serious huadi." ”
Speaking of Andy Lau, one of the four kings, the mainland audience can be said to be familiar with him, and he has become a representative of the Hong Kong showbiz circle.
In the nearly 40 years since his debut, Hua Tsai has achieved high achievements in both the film circle and the music world, is an all-round artist, and more importantly, Hua Tsai has almost zero scandals over the years, and is also very dedicated to Zhu Liqian emotionally, which can be described as a "fairy lover".
But a love affair before Zhu Liqian, I have to say. There is one person, I have to mention.
That woman, who loved him fanatically, hated him absurdly, this woman was Yu Kexin.
A woman who is truly obsessed with love and destroyed by love.
Yu Kexin, the stage name given by Aunt Qiong Yao, seems to be doomed to the love-hate entanglement of this life.
In 1983, Andy Lau traveled from Hong Kong to Taiwan to shoot films.
At a publicist's birthday party, he fell in love with Yu Kexin at first sight. Yu Kexin did not like to socialize, but it was difficult to refuse on his birthday. So under the arrangement of fate, she and Andy Lau met for the first time.
During his time in Taiwan, Andy Lau went to yu Kexin when he had time. His talent and handsomeness quickly made the little girl fall.
In just five days, the two fell in love.
Yu Kexin wrote in her book "Love Sea and Sky: Andy Lau and Me" that on the 5th day, he gave his first night to Andy Lau.
Men and women in love often lose their minds.
And Yu Kexin is a person who dares to love and dare to hate, and he regards Hua Tsai as his true son of heaven and entrusts himself to him without reservation.
Romantic encounters, sweet love, but do not know that after many years have become a poison that burns the heart.
After Hua Tsai returned to Hong Kong to work, he and Yu Kexin were separated from each other.
Although the two often communicate by letter and call each other "husband and wife", they really can't stand the pain of this lovesickness. When Hua Tsai went to Malaysia to perform for "Eagle Hero", the two sides agreed to secretly meet with Malaysia.
Unexpectedly, Yu Kexin got herpes zoster before leaving, commonly known as "snake wrapped around the waist", and her parents did not agree to her going abroad.
However, in order to see the sweetheart who had his heart in his heart, Yu Kexin went with an illness, and Hua Tsai was also carefully cared for, and the feelings between the two became deeper and deeper. Yu Kexin determined that Non-Andy Lau would not marry, and Hua Tsai also promised to give her a beautiful marriage.
Yu Kexin, because he had no drama to pick up in Taiwan, went to Hong Kong to negotiate a drama with shaw company. Hua Tsai had a conflict with Shaw's film director before, so he did not like her to shoot for Shaw.
As a result, Yu Kexin gave up the cooperation with Shao, and that cooperation fell on Wang Zuxian's head.
Love makes Yu Kexin lose herself, have no plan for her life, and do not care about her acting career. Every day, I live in Hua Tsai's rental house and wait for Hua Tsai to leave work.
To this day, we have not seen any classic works by Yu Kexin. Some are just large-scale eye-catching photo sets.
Andy Lau's achievements are obvious to all.
The love affair between Yu Kexin and Andy Lau was targeted by the media because of Andy Lau's continuous popularity.
At that time, the acting company did not allow artists to fall in love, not to mention popular students like Andy Lau. As a result, the love between the two has become an underground love affair, and they must hide from the paparazzi everywhere they go.
Yu Kexin couldn't stand such a gap in feelings and was often sad. Andy Lau is too busy to care about Yu Kexin's feelings because of his work.
The seeds of emotional rupture are gradually sprouting.
But Andy Lau still hopes to live with Yu Kexin for a long time. He planned to marry Yu Kexin abroad and register in the United States.
They were also witnessed by Yu Kexin's mother, and the two signed a marriage certificate, although there was no legal benefit, but it also showed Hua Tsai's determination.
Andy Lau, who originally had a rapid development momentum, was frozen by the company for half a year because of the renewal problem. TVB wanted to renew his contract, and he was afraid that the contract would limit his ambition to develop a film career. Knowing that it would be frozen by the company, he still insisted on not signing the contract.
The most difficult moment of the half year was when Yu Kexin accompanied him and encouraged him. Hua Tsai is also very grateful to him.
However, the feelings of the two people still cannot be exposed to the public, which makes Hua Tsai very stressed, and the quarrels between the two people gradually increase.
Yu Kexin wrote in "Love Sea and Sky":
"One day, when we were worried about the future again, he suddenly reversed his attitude of coaxing me into the past and simply said to me: 'I said that marriage is a lie to you, and I don't want to be bound.'" I just don't want you to leave me. ’”
Even if this is Yu Kexin's one-sided words, we also see the crisis of this feeling.
Yu Kexin said that she and Hua Tsai broke up and there was no third party.
Instead, like the common problem that most idol movie stars will face, it is impossible to make it public.
Yu Kexin and Andy Lau were friends for more than a year before they were known to the outside world. In more than a year, Andy Lau has already risen in fame.
On the other hand, Yu Kexin only developed intermittently in Hong Kong. For the public, it is a newcomer, and it is deliberately to take Andy Lau to hype himself.
Andy Lau takes into account the fans' concern for him, and naturally does not dare to openly communicate with Yu Kexin, which hinders their emotional life everywhere.
When Yu Kexin lacked trust in Andy Lau, he proposed to break up. Andy Lau also calmly accepted.
A three-year relationship ended with a "good" word answered by Andy Lau.
Some people, in love, learn to be strong, even if they break up, they can live beautifully.
And Yu Kexin, who lost himself in love, because of love and hate, he could never get out of the cage of love.
Caritas has become a thing of the past, but Yu Kexin often repeats the old things in front of the media.
This love history, which has long been exhausted twenty years ago, is often revealed by her as a shocking insider, and the more explosive it is, the more explicit it is.
In 1999, Yu Kexinto's reporter transferred his dew point photo album "Very Meow" to Hua Tsai, and Hua Tsai left with a black face.
In September 2003, Yu Kexin published her "First Night" with Hua Tsai in Hong Kong's Next Weekly. She vividly tells the story of their sex life.
After the public sexual history, Hua Tsai remained indifferent, and Yu Kexin escalated his actions. He even publicly expressed that he hoped that Hua Tsai could donate sperm to her to give birth to her and let her leave a memorial of love.
What has been said cannot leave a trace, Yu Kexin is obviously not satisfied with this way, and the next thing to do is to publish a book.
Therefore, before the publication of "Love Sea and Starry Sky - Me and Andy Lau", it was a series of campaigning behaviors.
Yu Kexin revealed at the new book launch that the book "Love" spent more than a year to sort out the content, roughly calculated, the time is very consistent.
That is to say, Yu Kexin had already decided to write a book as early as the end of 2003. At that time, the public "first night", sexual history and sperm donation incident were only preludes, and the publication of the book "Love" was the right scene.
Previous love, unwavering. Later hatred, bad intentions.
The love of two people is giving; the love of one person becomes a taking.
Originally in love, there is no right or wrong. The separation from Andy Lau is also a breakup that Yu Kexin took the initiative to mention.
After the breakup, it is not good to develop your career. It is the next policy to rely on the hype of love history, to sell meat and eyeballs, and to retaliate against Andy Lau in this extreme way.
No wonder Hua Tsai responded: "One thought of heaven, one thought of hell." ”
Today's Yu Kexin is 54 years old, and she is no longer the beautiful girl who stands tall.
He is still single and not married. Her appearance is no longer what it used to be, wrinkled, and it is rumored that her breast augmentation and plastic surgery now looks like a failure.
Once, when Yu Kexin and her mother were guests in a program, Yu Kexin's mother angrily rebuked Andy Lau on the show. He said that Andy Lau was a two-faced person who was very good at pretending to be a person.
He also said that Andy Lau spent a lot of money to bribe many Hong Kong journalists in the early years, so that they should not write about their own bad things, and because of this relationship, many reporters did not dare to write about Andy Lau's bad things.
Looking at Yu Kexin's mother, we seem to be able to understand what Yu Kexin has done over the years. Fortunately, Hua Tsai broke up with her early, otherwise today I don't know how badly I will be hurt by her!
In 2010, it was rumored that Yu Kexin married Andy Lau's royal stand-in Du Yiheng in the United States, but she denied it.
Bad deeds, old and ugly, I'm afraid now it's difficult for Yu Kexin to marry anyone!
Looking back at Yu Kexin's 30 years, it can be described as: a lifetime of absurdity, full of bitter tears. All cloud women are stupid, who understand the taste.