In September this year, 61-year-old Andy Lau held a unique online concert,
It attracted more than 350 million viewers, breaking the live broadcast record in one fell swoop, and the national popularity can be seen.
In addition to the concert, Andy Lau also has a whole 6 movies to be released this year,
It can be said that Andy Lau has been conscientious in his 41 years of art, with a good reputation and almost no negative news.
But if you want to talk about the only "noisy point" in his artistic career, it should be the relationship with his ex-girlfriend Yu Kexin.
He and Yu Kexin have been in love for 3 years, but after breaking up, they have been bitterly entangled and retaliated for at least thirty years.
In Yu Kexin's mouth, superstar Andy Lau is a negative man who does not keep his promises,
And the "current Mrs. Liu" Zhu Liqian is directly defined as a "junior" who hinders her marriage with Hua Tsai,
So what is the truth? Is the national idol Andy Lau really a hypocrite with different appearances?
01
Back in time at a dance in Taiwan in 1983, a bad relationship was written.
Yu Kexin, who was only 18 years old at the time, was at the banquet and astutely noticed that an elegant-looking man was constantly peeking at her.
At that time, Yu Kexin was beautiful in appearance, and was even designated by Qiong Yao as "Lin Qingxia's successor",
The appearance must be very outstanding, and I have long been accustomed to the attention and appreciation of outsiders.
But she was still attracted by the man's hot eyes and began to talk to him.
That man was Andy Lau, who had just finished filming "The Condor Heroes", and he was only 22 years old that year.
So, a green and beautiful love began, and in the following days,
Yu Kexin became Andy Lau's tour guide, taking him to eat and drink in the local area,
For five days, the two were almost inseparable, and their relationship gradually warmed up.
Five days later, Andy Lau became Yu Kexin's boyfriend, and when they met for thirteen days, the two began to live together.
The speed of progress is comparable to boarding a rocket, and the two of them are also destined to be your determination and love.
The sweetness of being in love made both of them forget the huge difference brought about by the disparity in status and status.
At that time, Yu Kexin was a complete rich lady, and her father Yu Jiju was a senior newspaperman in Hong Kong.
The social status is very high, and it has provided Yu Kexin with favorable material conditions since he was a child.
But the only fly in the ointment is that the father failed to give Yu Kexin a happy family.
Yu Kexin, who grew up in a divorced family since childhood, is sensitive and fragile in heart, and is very insecure.
When empty and lonely, you can only rely on reading the romance novels of Eileen Zhang and Qiong Yao to relieve your worries.
Unlike Yu Kexin, who is like a princess living in an ivory tower, Andy Lau is more like the knight who fights for happiness through thorns and thorns.
He grew up in a family with many siblings, and from an early age he understood that poor children should be heads of families early.
It can be said that his heart is far less delicate and sensitive than Yu Kexin, but more pragmatic.
But these differences did not show up in the early days of their relationship.
Although it is a poor boy, the outside world unanimously believes that Andy Lau climbed Yu Kexin,
But Yu Kexin still loves Andy Lau firmly, and the two are also more in love than Jin Jian, completely ignoring the rumors of the outside world.
Later, Andy Lau ended his work in Taiwan and returned to Hong Kong.
This little couple who had just begun to fall in love began a torturous long-distance relationship.
But distance does not block the hearts of two people, in that era of backward communication,
Andy Lau of Mune actually wrote a letter of longing by hand, sharing his thoughts about Yu Kexin and trivial things in daily life,
In the letter, he called Yu Kexin "the dearest wife", and his words were full of earnestness and enthusiasm.
And Yu Kexin also responded to Andy Lau's true feelings with actions,
She left behind her career that should have become popular and went to Hong Kong to follow Andy Lau alone.
You know, at that time, Yu Kexin was an artist under Qiong Yao, and Qiong Yao valued her very much,
She is young, beautiful, her family background is still very clean, and she has the power of Qiong Yao, and it is only a matter of time before she wants to become famous.
But compared to these flashes, staying with her lover is what she wants to pursue the most.
In this way, the fairy couple got together in Hong Kong again.
At that time, Andy Lau was not yet popular, and he did not get much remuneration in his hand,
Despite this, he still wants to do his best to provide Yu Kexin with the best of everything.
He borrowed all his relatives and friends just to book the best local hotel for Yu Kexin.
Go out to film during the day and return to the hotel at night to accompany the beauty.
It's a pity that the good times are not long, because Andy Lau and the company's contract has problems,
He was miserably hidden in the snow, did not work for a long time, and could not make ends meet.
And Yu Kexin, with her good looks, gradually broke out of the sky in Hong Kong,
Just when she was about to make a big move, but because of Andy Lau's career, she was hurt,
She had to stop, be by his side, support and encourage Andy Lau to get back on his feet.
And things soon ushered in a turnaround, with the broadcast of "Condor Heroes",
Andy Lau began to become popular all over the streets with the role of "Yang Guo",
He had countless fans overnight and became the dream lover in the hearts of countless people.
Later, Andy Lau was even more famous in the entertainment industry and singing industry, and became the top stream,
Every move is under the gaze of outsiders, under the supervision of fans,
This dealt a huge blow to his relationship with Yu Kexin.
The vigorous love between Yu Kexin and Andy Lau has become an underground love that cannot be seen,
Yu Kexin's three words have become Andy Lau's secret that he cannot speak to the public,
And this made Yu Kexin, who was already sensitive and fragile, very troubled, and began to lose his temper with Andy Lau frequently.
In order to appease Yu Kexin, Andy Lau decisively proposed to marry her, but in order to avoid the tracking of fans,
If you want to get married, you can only go abroad to register secretly, although the marriage will not be resolved later.
But Andy Lau did sign a Taiwanese folk "marriage certificate" in front of Yu Kexin and Yu's mother,
As an explanation for Yu Kexin and this relationship.
It's a pity that the paper can't contain the fire after all, and Yu Kexin was finally discovered by fans,
They were extremely abusive to Yu Kexin, and even the Hong Kong media reporters were not polite to her.
Calling her a "vixen" from Taiwan, her every move could make the headlines at any time,
This relationship gradually made Yu Kexin feel more and more insecure,
And Andy Lau's career-oriented measures made her cranky all day,
Finally, Yu Kexin raised his hand and surrendered, took the initiative to break up with Andy Lau, and ended the three-year relationship.
It is reported that Andy Lau was once in pain after the breakup, and he also asked his cousin to contact Yu Kexin,
I hoped that the two could reconcile well, but my cousin did not convey it, and the two missed it.
02
Yu Kexin did not get back on the right track in life after completely breaking up with Andy Lau,
For more than 30 years, her career has not improved, but she has been immersed and reminiscing about her past love with Andy Lau all day long.
And she, who has read all the sadistic novels of Eileen Zhang and Qiong Yao since she was a child, actually picked up the pen one day,
Pour all the details of her and Andy Lau's past into the pen and ink,
Among them, there is the delicate and tender feelings of the little girl for the beloved man, and the unrestrained and bold to explain the affairs of the two clouds and rain,
As soon as the book titled "Love Sea and Starry Sky: Me and Andy Lau" was released, it caused a huge public opinion sensation.
In the book, Yu Kexin writes:
He hated her because she made his world incomplete and left him unfulfilled.
She hated him because he made her love incomplete, but she didn't know that love was her life, her world. ”
It can be seen from this that until the day of closing the pen, Yu Kexin firmly believed,
Andy Lau has old feelings for her, which is why Andy Lau hates her and hates her for not keeping her promises.
But as everyone knows, after separating from Yu Kexin,
Andy Lau actually didn't feel sad for too long, because he met a woman who really suited him.
The time came to 1986, the year after Yu Kexin and Andy Lau broke up,
When Andy Lau went to Kuala Lumpur with the Hong Kong star football team,
Under the guidance of a friend, he met Zhu Liqian, the daughter of a wealthy Malaysian businessman.
Zhu Liqian has a good family background, good looks, and is also a model for the well-known local magazine "New Wave",
However, her more important identity is Andy Lau's loyal fan.
This also means that she has long belonged to Andy Lau,
The encounter with Andy Lau is a rare luck for Zhu Liqian.
After that meeting, Andy Lau was deeply impressed by Zhu Liqian, and also left her with his contact information,
It is reported that Zhu Liqian, who just got the idol phone during that time, guarded the phone all day,
She also refused to call her from her friends, for fear of missing any of Andy Lau's calls.
Later, the two often contacted each other through phone calls and messages, but Andy Lau, who has always been career-oriented,
Will not stop because of small love, affected by career development, Andy Lau can no longer stay in Malaysia,
Instead, she set off to return to Hong Kong, and although Zhu Liqian is a young lady, she also made the same decision as Yu Kexin.
In 1988, Zhu Liqian came to Hong Kong with her sister, ostensibly to learn beauty knowledge, but in fact, her heart was for Andy Lau.
Like Yu Kexin, she wants to become the girlfriend of the Heavenly King, and hiding is the "unspoken rule" that must be accepted.
But unlike Yu Kexin, Zhu Liqian did not complain at all, nor did she propose to Andy Lau to break up,
She just hid behind him for ten years, being his "underground girlfriend" on call.
At that time, Andy Lau had already become famous, and once the relationship was made public, it would be a fatal blow to his career,
And Zhu Liqian loves Andy Lau deeply, so she loves the house and Wu, and also loves and respects the cause he loves,
So although Zhu Liqian knew that Andy Lau flatly denied her relationship in public,
She has never had confusion and sorrow, which Yu Kexin is completely unable to give and understand Andy Lau.
Different from when Yu Kexin once went to Hong Kong, Andy Lau booked a luxury hotel to greet him,
When Miss Qianjin Zhu Liqian first arrived in Hong Kong, she could only borrow to live at Andy Lau's friend's house,
Then secretly meet Andy Lau.
But despite this, the number of meetings is also pitiful, according to Andy Lau,
At the height of his career, there were only 4 weeks of vacation a year,
He took two weeks to accompany his parents and two weeks to accompany Zhu Liqian,
This kind of "widowed" love, I believe that few girls can endure it,
And Zhu Liqian endured it like this, and she endured it for 21 years, and she was still willing to eat.
But although their secrecy work has been done perfectly, Zhu Liqian's name was still dug up by someone with a heart,
She has received no less doubt and attention than Yu Kexin once was,
She even retreated to her hometown in Malaysia for a time, unable to withstand public speculation, and did not return to Hong Kong until 1997.
Until 2009, Zhu Liqian's father died of illness, Andy Lau accompanied Zhu Liqian back to the funeral as a son-in-law,
At the airport on the way back, the long-awaited media reporters finally took photos of the two in public.
It can be regarded as a confirmation of Zhu Liqian's "Mrs. Liu" name, and Zhu Liqian hid for 21 years before it was made public.
03
Back to Yu Kexin itself, before Andy Lau's official wife identity was disclosed,
Yu Kexin has been trying to do the last death throes,
In order to make Andy Lau pay a little attention to her, he did not hesitate to take the sword to the edge.
At the instigation of his mother, Yu Kexin did not hesitate to sacrifice hue and took a series of large-scale photo albums,
Turning around, he transferred the explicit photo album to Andy Lau, but Hua Tsai immediately left in black as soon as he saw it.
In addition, she also made her and Andy Lau's old past public in her autobiographical book "Love Sea Starry Sky",
There are many descriptions of the private lives of the two, and there are also some personal private things of Andy Lau,
She even bluntly said that she hated Zhu Liqian because it was Zhu Liqian who destroyed her relationship with Andy Lau.
After the autobiography was released, the media questioned Yu Kexin's motives for doing so.
But she claimed that this was to find inner peace, but shouldn't it be nice to find peace with her ex?
Now he has made a big move to publish a book, not only defining Andy Lau as a negative man,
Even put himself in an abandoned situation, occupy the moral high ground, and beat Zhu Liqian as a relationship destroyer,
This series of her assumptions not only did not get Andy Lau's attention, but made him more disgusted and disgusted.
And the most puzzling thing is that at that time, the two had no relationship,
Yu Kexin moved out the Taiwanese folk marriage letter that had been hidden for many years in public,
Try to prove that Andy Lau once had a "marriage" with her, and she is the righteous "Mrs. Liu",
And when the media asked Andy Lau about his views on this matter, he had already no feeling for Yu Kexin, and only left one sentence: It doesn't matter,
And this hit Yu Kexin to the bottom, and then she had a serious illness,
Taking advantage of this illness, she began to make a big fuss again, saying that she hoped Andy Lau could donate sperm and let her have a child,
I have to say that Yu Kexin, who has come to this step, has gone crazy, and there is no reaction in the face of Andy Lau again,
Yu Kexin is constantly struggling, she is like a beam-jumping clown who does not admit defeat,
The more Andy Lau denied and ignored this relationship, the more Yu Kexin jumped to his feet and frantically broke the news in front of the media,
I want to use everything I used to prove the beauty of the past, and I want to use my previous memories to attract Andy Lau's attention to her,
And all this is nothing more than futile and useless efforts.
And Yu Kexin, who has been biting Andy Lau for decades and refuses to let go, really loves Andy Lau as much as she said?
04
In 2005, Yu Kexin chose to cooperate with hype expert Song Zude,
Adapted the autobiographical book "Love Sea Starry Sky" into the TV series "Glass Love",
It has done enough marketing since before the broadcast, claiming that the play is adapted from the true love history of the heavenly king Andy Lau,
It attracted a lot of attention for a while, and Yu Kexin also gained fame and fortune by promoting Andy Lau's privacy.
It's just that she turned popular with Andy Lau's popularity, ask her heart, can she still be frank now?
Presumably, Yu Kexin really loved Andy Lau when she was young, and Andy Lau also truly loved her.
But Yu Kexin's love is too selfish, she was born delicate, ten fingers do not touch the spring water of the sun, and have not suffered the hardships of life,
The divorced family made her extremely insecure, sensitive and fragile,
But she is very yearning for the dependence and uniqueness of "one life and one couple" in Qiong Yao's book,
This makes her completely unable to accept Andy Lau, who is career-oriented, and unable to understand his heart for hard work.
Not to mention being as anonymous as Zhu Liqian, hiding behind him for 21 years without a name or a part.
And judging from her future high-profile large-scale photo albums and boldly chatting with Andy Lau in her autobiographical book,
It is also enough to see that she acts perversely in her bones, and this is very different from Andy Lau's ideal low-key woman,
Therefore, the missed by the two seems to be an accident of fate, but it is actually a predestined inevitability.
As for the rumors that Yu Kexin targeted Zhu Liqian's mistress, it is even more nonsense.
Andy Lau and Zhu Liqian met the year after breaking up with him, but Yu Kexin had not yet come out of the haze at that time,
Andy Lau, on the other hand, has already packed up his mood and reopened a new chapter in his life.
It's just that decades have passed, Andy Lau has struggled from the top to the status of a generation of heavenly kings legends,
Zhu Liqian also kept the clouds open and saw the moon, and exchanged 21 years of forbearance for the righteous identity of "Mrs. Liu",
Only Yu Kexin himself, who has been indulging in self-fantasy and intoxication for 37 years since the breakup,
Packaging selfishness as an affectionate blade, while stinging others, will eventually eat herself,
Now having nothing and achieving nothing is the biggest wake-up call for her refusal to wake up.