Text/little sunglasses
Figure/Source network
There is a saying: "There is nothing more exciting than love, because it produces the greatest illusion and at the same time gives life the greatest comfort." Otherwise, life is so empty and desolate. ”
Deeply. Love makes people blind, and at the same time, love also makes the human body taste happy. Otherwise, there will not be so many people who yearn for love and are eager for love.
And it is precisely because of the particularity and importance of love that love is very complicated, resulting in men and women who are deeply trapped in love, entangled and wandering for love.
Does the other person really love me? Does the other party really cherish this feeling? All kinds of questions followed, making everyone in love uneasy.
Especially for men, because they can't understand women's psychology and can't feel women's hearts, they are even more insecure. I once watched a TV series "I want to understand and get married again", in which "Guo Yan" is like this. He has been pretending to be a rich second generation to fall in love with Li Youyou, he deeply loves Li Youyou, overdrafts his credit card, does not hesitate to ask his parents for money, borrows money from friends to meet Li Youyou's needs for designer bags, jewelry, clothes and her vanity.
However, even if he had given everything for Li Youyou, he was always worried that Li Youyou would leave him. He wasn't sure if Li Youyou really loved him, he wasn't sure how Li Youyou viewed the feelings between the two of them, this sense of security made him fall into a dead loop, and he could only desperately spend money on Li Youyou in an attempt to stabilize Li Youyou's heart.
But the paper can't cover the fire after all, and if he pretends to be rich and the second generation, sooner or later, this fragile relationship that he has tried his best to maintain will also be full of twists and turns because of his lies.
In fact, in the eyes of outsiders, they all understand that Li Youyou does not love Guoyan, and all she likes from beginning to end is Guoyan's money, or just Guoyan's obedient and honest willingness to spend money on her and the identity of the second generation of the rich.
However, the words that were unable to extricate himself from love in it did not understand, and love made him lose his mind. Of course, it may also be that he knows in his heart that Li Youyou does not love him, but he is not willing to admit it. But we all know that if we continue like this, we will inevitably be hurt and sad.
Leaving aside Guo Yan and Li Youyou's relationship. Let's talk about it, in fact, whether a woman loves a man or not is characteristic.
When a woman only wants to desperately let you spend money for her, only wants you to pay for her, does not care about your situation, does not care about your life, does not want to have a future with you, it is enough to prove that she does not love you.
And when a woman has this obvious feature, nine times out of ten she loves you from the bottom of her heart, this obvious feature is "possessiveness". In "Want to Understand and Get Married Again", there is also a couple, Yu Xiaoyu and Long Xia.
The couple admired each other after experiencing some things, and naturally talked about love, and after determining each other's intentions, we can clearly feel the possessiveness between them.
For example, when Yu Xiaoyu's leader cares for her, Long Xia will be jealous and will be hostile to Xiaoyu's leader, which is caused by men's self-esteem and possessiveness of lovers.
When a man loves a woman, there is a sense of crisis, and other men are not allowed to go near their women and show affection to their own women, even if they know that it is impossible between these two people.
Similarly, when Long Xia's ex-girlfriend chased after Long Xia desperately, desperately wanted to save Long Xia, and challenged Yu Xiaoyu to find out who Long Xia was more worried about and who he loved more, Yu Xiaoyu agreed without hesitation.
The woman's strong possessiveness makes her eager to announce to Long Xia's ex-girlfriend that Long Xia only cares about her. This is the manifestation of a woman's heartfelt love for a man, and this strong possessiveness is the most powerful proof of deep love.
And when a woman doesn't care about another woman's challenge, or even bothers to fight, it shows that she doesn't care about the relationship and doesn't want to know who the man really loves.
Because I don't love, I don't have possessiveness, I don't want to cause trouble, because I don't love, so I don't care, and I won't take the initiative.
I also watched a TV series "Perfect World", when the heroine and the male protagonist confirmed the relationship, the female protagonist was obviously not happy when she saw the nurse who had been taking care of the paralyzed male protagonist. She does not want the nurse to have the key to the hero's home, and she does not want to see the nurse intubating the male protagonist, and this possessiveness of the male protagonist is a strong proof that she loves the man from the bottom of her heart.
A woman is always possessive of the man she loves dearly. This possessiveness, in the early stages of love, will become a catalyst for the love of two people. Because this possessiveness will make men feel needed, especially in front of other people, this possessiveness will make men especially faceless. After all, everyone understands that the stronger the possessiveness, the more the woman cares.
The irony is that this kind of possessiveness is regarded as a kind of "bondage" by men in the later stages of love or after marriage. Because a woman's possessiveness has the potential to limit a man's movements.
For example, restrict men from going to some places, do not let men have friends of the opposite sex or confidants with red faces, and for example, women will be unhappy when men drink.
This kind of bondage makes men feel that they have no private space of their own, and over time they will feel bored, so that they want to get rid of their lovers, and even more so, they will really make up their minds to separate.
Therefore, while a woman's possessiveness can prove that she has a deep love for her partner from the heart, it is also like a double-edged sword, which has a positive effect on feelings and a negative effect.
Therefore, women do not take it for granted that their possessive men should be satisfied, many things are too late, and it is enough to occasionally show their possessiveness, once it is over, it is easy to gain more than they lose.
And men should also understand that women or wives are possessive of you, binding you all the time, it seems that you have no more personal space, but in fact you should be thankful that this is a manifestation of her deep love for you, if one day she no longer has a strong possessiveness for you, you should worry about whether the other party has already changed his heart or has betrayed you.
Love needs to be carefully cared for by everyone in love. May everyone who encounters love cherish each other and take good care of this hard-won relationship.
Especially when you are sure that a person loves you from the bottom of your heart, you must know how to cherish, do not live up to this deep love, and do not know the blessing in the blessing, and lose this happiness.
END.