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In 2014, the first issue of the first season of "Strange Story", audition.
A boy dressed in black, but without a trace of masculinity, walked in.
As soon as he came up, he said that he "didn't want to be a strange thing", pointed at Teacher Cai Kangyong with an orchid finger and said" "How to talk", and asked Gao Xiaosong for a "through card".
This is Xiao Xiao, who met everyone for the first time in "Strange Story".
At that time, Ma Dong said:
"There is no way to imagine that "Strange Story" does not have a player like Xiao Xiao, how can it be called "Strange Story"."
This "snake spirit man" stayed until the sixth season.
In this journey, Ma Weiwei left, going to the outside world to upgrade and fight monsters; Fan Xiangxiang left to pick the trophy of the best actress at the peak of the world; Chen Ming left the strange planet and went to other cosmic centers to call for love.
And some people are still there.
Xiao Xiao is still the most gorgeous flower in the strange planet. After seeing the "pink snow", it became more and more dazzling.
From the first season to the sixth season, Xiao Xiao changed, he is no longer the young grandmother who can only throw and roll before, but the baking that everyone loves.
His mother has to have texture, and he has to be measured.
To borrow an evaluation from Zhihu: he is a vain and real, lazy and hardworking, brutal and cute boy.
Before encountering "Strange Story", Xiao Xiao was just an eighteen-line announcement artist, ready to leave Beijing and return home at any time.
Like all North Drift, there are goals, willing to work hard, but no results.
He participated in Super Speaker, entitled "I Love Myself", which tells the story of his previous participation in competitions:
A teacher said that he was like a plate of peanuts on the table, it didn't matter if he was there or not, he had to nod, smile, and be patient. After he went back, he was not reconciled, took out his manuscript and changed it over and over again, crying and laughing in front of the mirror like a fool.
In the competition the next day, Xiao Xiao took the first place. The teacher's rating was removed as the lowest, and he was convinced that the teacher saw his value.
At the end of the speech, Xiao Xiao shouted emotionally:
"Xiao Xiao, I love you, I love your optimism and positivity, I love your composure and bravery, I love your thick skin, I love you, I love you, I love you to death."
People are prone to feeling inferiority. It may be that you have made a mistake, or you may just meet someone who is better than you.
It's always easy for us to deny ourselves.
But man does not live for others, man lives purely for himself.
Xiao Xiao said as "How Steel is Made":
"I want to continue to be a lunatic and live the way I dream and not the way others want."
From the beginning of the "Dirty Little Prince" and "Snake Spirit Man", to the fourth season of the bking, and then to the sixth season to start again.
In the process of upgrading and fighting monsters again and again, Xiao Xiao has grown from a "chicken" that stands out from the flock to a "crane" that "stands out from the flock".
From a wild road to a professional debater, turning weakness into the sharpest blade and pointing it straight to the point.
On this road, there are hardships that ordinary people cannot imagine. What has not changed is that he still maintains a love for himself in the face of outside gossip.
In "Strange Story", there is an issue of the debate: "There is a button that can see the score of your partner who loves him, will you press it?" ”
Xiao Xiao said:
"I won't press, I like you, but I prefer to sit across from you myself. You don't enter your partner's name, you enter your own name, always monitor yourself, whether you love yourself enough. ”
Love yourself before you have the key to loving others. Only then can we open the door to the love of the world.
From the beginning, people looked at Xiao Xiao with colored glasses and labeled him with various labels: lady cannon, snake spirit man, and dirty little prince.
At that time, what wrapped Xiao Xiao was a lot of negative evaluations:
"Plastic surgery monster, there is a face to participate in the show, do not take the mirror to look at themselves, the whole ghost look, I am afraid that even the mother does not recognize." 」 "I don't look at anything about myself, and I still talk nonsense in the program with my teeth and claws, and no one can understand what I say, so I know that it is a shame to be angry there."
In the face of doubt and smear, the average person will choose to compromise and converge, but Xiao Xiao is biased, but it has intensified.
Still in the show, wear a skirt, wear heavy makeup, insert a waist, a finger of the hand, what to say, just say.
"You want me to be a good boy, I just want to be a bad girl!"
A hundred poisons do not invade Xiao Xiao, but they are not born strong.
When Xiao Xiao was a child, his father was always sick and vomited blood at every turn.
At first, he was scared to death. After a long time, I also slowly got used to it, knowing that as long as I called 120 and silently waited for the ambulance to come, My father would come back from the ghost door.
However, 10-year-old Xiao Xiao could not wait for his father's return.
After his father's death, his mother raised him alone and had a great influence on him:
"When I'm nervous, I'm scared, I make mistakes, my mind is blank, my first reaction is my mom, she can make me quiet, reassure me, make me feel like this level, grit my teeth and pass." 」
My mother opened a tea house, a beauty salon, and ktv.
Occasionally someone makes trouble, drinks too much and smashes things. The mother, who had always been thin, was like a lion, grabbing a man's collar and dragging it out, but was knocked to the ground.
Xiao Xiao, who was only twelve years old, could only shout a few adults and stuff the troublemakers into the taxi.
Looking at the mess on the ground, the mother and son hugged their headaches and cried. At that time, Xiao Xiao hated his own weakness and wanted to grow up quickly and defend his small family.
Later, he did.
If you think of thorns as a field full of flowers, nothing on earth can torture you.
Li Shi commented on Xiao Xiao:
"In my opinion, his greatest strength is that he is real, and he is useless except true."
Counting the previous "bbking", Ma Weiwei, Qiu Chen, and Huang Zhizhong have all served as judges in the international debate competition.
Compared with them, Xiao Xiao is more like a "crooked door and evil way" that does not take the usual path.
When others called him a mother, he replied, "I am a textured lady!" ”
Others scolded him for plastic surgery, and he said frankly: "My face has been changed a little, and I don't recognize the original look anymore." ”
Others said that he played a big card when he had achievements, and he admitted: "Whether I became famous or not, I have always been a person who loves to play big cards. ”
Others said that he worshipped gold, and he responded: "All the happiness and joy in my life now is brought to me by money." ”
Xiao Xiao has an extremely clear self-awareness, knowing where he will be attacked, but he does not care.
As Ma Dong said of him:
"He's actually very smart and measured. He clearly knew his weaknesses and never let the 'mother' and plastic surgery affect and bind himself. He turned 'mother' and plastic surgery into his own weapons and was invincible. ”
At the end of the fourth season, Xiao Xiao once choked up and said:
"In order to win, I am changing myself, but in fact I am very sad, I am the most hypocritical person to say. In the relationship with friends I unconsciously want to be a smart person, I became sharp, even I did not like myself. ”
Dare to admit your own hypocrisy, in fact, is the greatest truth.
Perhaps, those who like him favor his truth.
Even in the spotlight, let others judge, he can roll his eyes and say: "The old lady doesn't care." ”
Xiao Xiao's four years in "Strange Story" grew faster than after four years of college.
At first, the attractive point of his body was strange, it was a sense of variety, and it was possible to speak our hearts with a bit of barbarism and bitterness.
Later, his earnestness and hard work were the greatest source of charm.
In the fourth season of the bbking scramble, the debate is: "Seriously you lose?" ”
Xiao Xiao's answer was:
"When this society becomes evil, do you lose if you are good?" When this society becomes hypocritical, do you lose by being yourself? When this society becomes impetuous, are you serious and you lose? ” "The scariest thing in the world is that I could have. The meaning of seriousness is that you can see a real self; the meaning of seriousness is to give yourself an account. Seriously, you don't necessarily lose, not seriously, you will definitely lose. ”
Since embarking on the road of debate, Xiao Xiao seems to be playing tricks, but in fact, step by step, he has walked very steadily.
He knew that he couldn't really conquer the audience by relying on the paragraph, so he would stick to logic and play his own style of debate.
He would carefully analyze the debate methods of Ma Weiwei and Huang Zhizhong and ask Ru Jing for advice on the methods of debate.
Carefully prepare each debate, and when preparing for "should the leftover men and women be almost there", even send messages to all the single men and women around them to ask for their opinions.
He would prepare to write a book until four or five o'clock in the morning for an argument.
Seriously, you will never lose.
In fact, the most valuable point about Xiao Xiao is that we see a possibility.
Although the education is not high, but with the strength of not accepting defeat, trying to fight again, we can also get what we want.
There is a saying in "The Best of Us":
"Not all persistence has results, but there are always some persistences that can cultivate a hundred thousand blooming roses from the frozen land."
When we have nothing, we can at least choose to be serious and persistent.
Man lives in the world, nothing is meaningful, meaning is given by man. Seriousness itself is an incomparably shining meaning.