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The sixth season of "Strange Story" has finally begun.
After watching the first episode, I was fanned by Xiao Xiao.
I didn't like him very much before, although he was highly recognizable, but a man like a demon always felt strange.
His previous debates were good in content, but the most eye-catching thing was more about his image, tone of voice and body performance.
In short, after reading his debate, I can't remember what he said, only his movements and appearance.
The format of the sixth season is very cruel, whether you are a new or old strange, or even a BBking like Huang Zhizhong and Xiao Xiao, you have to start from scratch.
Newcomers are generally very afraid to argue with them, and the sense of oppression is really too strong, but there are also people who come to the old strange and have to fight with them to feel fun. And generally such newcomers are super powerful and confident.
During the one-half survival game, Xiao Xiao was debating with a novelty "Little Black". Xiao Hei is also a very recognizable person, and is a professional werewolf killing player, it is said that the werewolf killing game requires good eloquence and clear logic, in fact, he is indeed very powerful, and his views are very good.
Xiao Xiao was once nervous to stutter when he spoke, after all, as an old stranger, and was once a champion, the psychological pressure was very large, afraid that his growth could not keep up with the growth of the audience, and he was afraid of not playing well, sorry for himself.
But in that debate, Xiao Xiao did a particularly good job, from the content to the rhythm to the tone, it was just right. The most important change was that this time he didn't use some strange body movements and focused all his attention on the debate itself rather than on the performance.
I think he played better this time than ever before. Many viewers also said that he has now become an idol player.
I like the purer him now, and it turns out that when he focuses on the debate, many people have a different perception of him, before it was more controversial, now more praise.
In addition to Xiao Xiao, there is another person who has changed a lot is the Great King.
I didn't feel good about this girl when she came on stage, thinking she was just a performative person, she would take a small comb and brush her hair from time to time. The host asked her why she kept combing her hair, and she said in order to pick up the shampoo ads.
I don't like this kind of jittery wit very much.
But when she got into the debate, those little moves were gone, and the content of her debate made me feel amazing.
Not only me, but many players on the scene made exclamations, thinking that the king was so stunning that he simply played the momentum of the king explosion.
She won, not by those nonsensical little gestures, but by the content.
Later, I learned that the king is actually an old stranger, but she has always paid more attention to performance, and she has the feeling of pretending to be crazy and stupid on stage, and the content is relatively weak.
She said that she didn't want to pretend to be crazy and stupid on this stage all the time, hoping to attract people with content instead of performing.
When she put more energy into the content, she was reborn on the stage, and circled a large wave of fans.
The most interesting thing about the show "Strange Story" is that in fact, many contestants are really strange, obviously it is a debate program, but some people have turned it into a fashion show, a performance show, a talk show, a monster show...
These add to the fun of the show, but for the individual contestants, they are not remembered for it, so they are liked.
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In addition to Xiao Xiao, Qibao said that the champions of each season are more focused on content than performance.
Zhan Qingyun, who became popular in the fifth season, let alone performed, rarely even talked about the paragraphs, and was not humorous and funny at all, but her content information was too large, even if it was a little boring, or circled a large wave of fans.
Champion Chen Ming won every debate, and he hardly said a paragraph, humor, or performance.
Because in this show, what you say is the core thing. As for what you performed, you won't add a lot of points to yourself except for Bo's laughter.
However, many players mistakenly think that as long as they are strange enough, or that they are not capable enough, they use performances to make up.
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This used to be a problem that bothered me for a long time.
I don't speak much publicly, but I have a kind of obsession, I hope that when I speak, it is more humorous and funny, and I can hear everyone laughing.
In order to pursue this effect, I will pay special attention to the reaction of the audience, and sometimes when I say a word, others do not laugh, and I feel lost. Even in order to pursue the "laughing fruit", it will speed up the speed of speech, disrupt their own rhythm, and the expression will be poorly managed.
As a result, I was frustrated with every public speech because I didn't make people laugh much, and I paid more attention to humor, and what I wanted to express was not well presented.
I began to reflect, feeling that I was too weak and needed to learn, so I took a lot of classes, wanted to learn humor, and wanted to make others laugh quietly.
I am so obsessed with humor because I feel that I am not a big coffee, and the content of the speech is not necessarily very good, if you don't let others laugh, is it very boring, and others can't listen to it at all?
I hope that others will listen carefully to what I am saying and not be too bored to listen to.
Once, I attended a friend's new book sharing meeting and temporarily came to the stage to speak a few words. After talking about it, I was very dissatisfied, and I began to be anxious, how to talk about it when I published a book to get a signing meeting in the future?
Friends told me that it is actually very simple, just say what you want to express clearly and completely, if you are afraid that you can't say it well, you can write an outline in advance, or even write a verbatim draft.
I said: I want to be humorous, but I can't always do it.
She said: First make sure to express the meaning completely, it is very good, people who come to listen to you want to listen to the content, not for humor, if you want humor, watch the talk show and watch funny videos, why listen to you.
I thought about it, if you just explain what you want to express clearly and completely, it seems that it has become very easy at once, and there are many solutions, you can also calm down and polish the content better.
When I tried to understand this, all the anxiety about speaking publicly was gone.
As long as the content is good enough, everyone must be willing to listen, I polish the content. Being able to be humorous is of course good, no, and not deadly. But what would I become if I had only humor and no really meaningful content?
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Whether in the debate arena, in public speech, or in life and work, there is actually a core, and what we have to do is to grasp this core.
Instead of struggling every day about whether to have a good relationship with colleagues, it is better to improve your workplace ability, because in the workplace, this is the core. Instead of struggling with what to wear and what gifts to wear when meeting others, it is better to think about what to talk to others, because this is the core. Instead of struggling with how to win the mother-in-law, it is better to improve yourself and give yourself the ability to ignore her at any time, because this is the core. Instead of struggling with whether to write an article with humor or not, whether the writing is super beautiful, think about what you want to express, because your point of view is the core.
Grasp the core content, you will find that many things become simple, people are not so tired, and it can give you the results you want.
This is also a subtraction for life.
We have to slowly understand that many things are just flower racks, and some are icing on the cake, and it doesn't matter if they are not big. Because in the end, the only thing that determines success or failure is the most core thing.
You have to put your main energy there.
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