Before saying Cai Kangyong, I had to mention his cattle father.
Cai Kangyong's father, cai tianduo, drank with a group of classmates the day before the college entrance examination, and missed the first subject exam.
However, even if he was missing one subject, Cai Tianduo's overall score still ranked second, and he was successfully admitted to the Law Department of Fudan University.
Therefore, Cai Kangyong's intelligence is inherited from his father.
Regarding studying abroad, Cai Tianduo gave Cai Kangyong three conditions:
1, only to read the master's degree can be, do not need to study for a doctorate;
2, must be the best school;
3, can not go outside to work, all the expenses he will be responsible.
Cai Kangyong is notoriously high in emotional intelligence, and he is always eloquent and gentle on stage.
Offstage, he is a "cold" person in the eyes of others.
The little s who hosted with him for many years said:
"Under the stage, he seems to have a transparent membrane covering him, which is very distant."
Cai Kangyong said that to be your own person, the interpersonal relationship is like this:
It's you who guide how others see you, not that you're forced to accept other people's views.
It is to be alone when you want to be alone, not to be forced to be alone.
It is to properly understand what others say about us, rather than to live according to other people's wishes.
In an interview with the show, Li Ao asked him, can you really ask anything?
Cai Kangyong replied that you can ask anything!
Li Ao said do you like boys?
Cai Kangyong said yes, that's it.
Cai Kangyong later said that at that time, he felt that there was something about this, and this matter must have been asked one day.
Today we will talk about Cai Kangyong.
"Kangxi is coming" let Cai Kangyong and Xiao S suddenly spread all over the two sides of the strait, Cai Kangyong as one of the hosts, his words are sharp, sometimes emotional, sometimes dreamy, in him we can see a lot of different aspects, he is warm, but always permeated with a trace of coldness. He was observing the world coldly, and he was also gently confronting the world with the rebellion in his bones.
In the eyes of the public, Cai Kangyong always appears as a host of variety shows
But few people know the story behind Cai Kangyong, his family lineage.
Friends who like Cai Kangyong can actually try to explore the same, a deeper Level of Cai Kangyong.
In the entertainment gossip, funny and unlimited variety circle, Cai Kangyong is one of the few hosts who still maintains a gentlemanly demeanor. Many TV viewers also believe that it is the decent and erudite Cai Kangyong who supports the cultural connotation of the entire variety show. The ability of erudition and versatility determines that Cai Kangyong has a very rational attitude towards life.
He has never limited himself to the requirements of others, nor has he confined himself to a comfortable circle, always trying new roles and new identities, and constantly making new positions and adjustments to his life.
These also allow him to present a richer and more wonderful world, and also let us see his vigorous life energy.
When Recalling his childhood, Cai Kangyong mentioned that from childhood to adulthood, he could always hear such voices:
"I want to study stage play." "What's the use of this?" "I'm reading 'Remembrance of a Time Like Water.'" "What's the use of this?" "I can play Bach." "What's the use of this?"
But thankfully, he has always done things as he pleases.
So Cai Kangyong will say, when you are 15 years old, you feel that swimming is difficult, give up swimming, and when you meet a person you like to swim at the age of 18, you have to say, I will not; 18 years old feel that English is difficult, give up English, 28 years old has a great but english work, you have to say, I will not ah; the more troublesome in the early stage of life, the more lazy to learn, the more likely it is to miss the people and things that make you move, miss the new scenery.
It's hard to define what kind of person he really is. On the surface, he is a chicken soup king, and he has the most thorough view of the world in his bones, but he also brings arrogance and disdain to look down on all this. Seemingly soft words can always give you a fatal blow, wake you up and inspire you to have a new perspective on life.
Cai Kangyong once said in "Strange Story":
"The most important thing in life is not happiness, but calm. If you pray for a happy life every day, that life cannot be lived, emotions come and go, if we only want to use a drink to cut off this emotion, we will eventually become a daily smile and giggle, is that the pursuit of life?
After Cai Kangyong became famous, he wrote in his blog: "My growth makes me believe that the most important things in life are actually of no use: love, justice, freedom, dignity, knowledge, civilization, these forces that have repeatedly saved me and comforted me in the gray moment, for many people are 'useless', but I insist on believing that these are the treasures of life and can withstand repeated pursuits." ”
As he said, "people in the entertainment industry come to ask me before they come out"; the pressure of the identity of "coming out of the closet mentor" also overwhelms him, and Cai Kangyong bluntly said that he was "too lonely". Speaking of emotions, Cai Kangyong could not help himself, and broke down in tears on the spot, "The only thing I can do is to prove to my parents that we are not monsters."
When talking about Li Ao, Cai Kangyong said that afterwards, Li Ao also regretted it and apologized to him.
At that time, Cai Kangyong was already light and breezy.
"Actually, I don't blame Li Ao for this, he is a human rights fighter, and it is quite interesting that this matter is linked to him."