On March 28, actress Guo Xiaoting, who played the role of "Hua Yang" in the TV series "Xianjian 3", posted an article because of the N room incident, telling her experience of being sexually harassed by a language teacher when she was a student, calling on women to learn to protect themselves and speak out bravely.
In the text, Guo Xiaoting said that after being harassed, she bravely scolded the language teacher with blunt words, and then retaliated. She responded to other teachers and school leaders, who went unpunished and insulted and intimidated her. The story ends with the bad guy being rewarded and rolling down the stairs and breaking his bones. But Guo Xiaoting pointed out that "such a happy ending of anti-phagocytosis does not appear in the life of every perpetrator", and what we can do is "never tolerate".
She was more brave enough to make her position clear, calling on the majority of female friends: "Learn to protect yourself, ask for help at the right time, establish self-principles, and dare to express your position." Don't be silent because of shame, it is never the victim who should be ashamed. ”
In the impression, Guo Xiaoting is a soft and weak little girl, but when it comes to women's dignity and rights, her speech is loud. Many netizens expressed their heartache for her past experience, felt indignant about the teacher's behavior, and praised her sense of justice.
In fact, as Guo Xiaoting said, whether in school, workplace or life, incidents of sexual harassment by women abound, and every girl has experienced it in her growth. Including many female stars in the entertainment industry, they have also encountered different forms of sexual harassment, even after many years, they still leave a shadow in their hearts.
Actress Yang Rong once posted on the Internet, telling the story of sexual harassment in her childhood in the third person, and said that when she grew up, she remembered this time of indecency, and still couldn't sleep all night, with fear.
Yang Rong pointed out that after girls encounter sexual harassment, they will choose silence because this is a "disgraceful" thing, but silence is disguised as connivance. So this time she chose to speak out bravely and say things out, but instead unloaded the so-called "disgrace".
In the face of sexual harassment, many girls will choose to swallow their anger, but this will only promote the arrogance of bad people, and the correct way is to bravely "say no" to the shameless behavior of bad people.
Actress Han Xue once revealed that she met the "salty pig hand" of the male actor when she first entered the industry. She said that one day after filming, she was sitting in the car, and an actor seemed to naturally take her hand, touching it and saying, Your hand is so cold. At that time, Han Xue was completely frightened and didn't know what to do. But then she learned that on the one hand, she had to become stronger herself, and on the other hand, she had to say no.
Therefore, after encountering verbal sexual harassment when shopping later, Han Xue also directly hung up the brand name on Weibo, angrily accusing it of shielding employees from verbally harassing customers and "leveraging" the brand positively.
Actress Ma Li once encountered perverted and obscene male harassment in the supermarket, angrily posted angry articles, and directly hung up his photo on Weibo. Ma Li said that she encountered exhibitionists as a child, but at that time she was afraid to squeak, but she left a psychological shadow afterwards. This time, she encountered a pervert who touched her ass, and she was momentarily confused, even hesitant to let him go silently, or to point out his evil deeds in public. But in order to stop him from continuing to do evil, she still called the police, but because there was no surveillance camera, the pervert would not admit it.
Although it is a pity that the indecent man was not brought to justice, Ma Li chose not to be silent, and played a good role model for female friends, facing the salty pig hand, it is impossible to tolerate connivance!
Xie Na mentioned in a variety show that she was sexually harassed by the production director of the crew when she first entered the industry, and her handling method was very witty and brave.
Faced with sexual harassment in disguise, Xie Na directly refused, and opened the door, loudly asked the production director to go out, and drove him out. After that, a series of counterattacks were carried out, which was amazing. First of all, he exposed the shameful behavior of the production director to the whole crew, that is, he could not look up in front of the entire crew.
After that, he found the production director's pants hanging outside and burned the crotch.
What if you still don't understand the hatred? Xie Na insisted on painting a turtle on his door every day, and after ten days, the production director finally left the crew, which was really gratifying!
Xie Na's approach not only protected herself, but also protected the other women in the crew, punished the bad guys, and was worth learning. After encountering sexual harassment, women choose to speak out and bravely expose, which is an effective way to punish evil and promote good and protect themselves.
On the March 8th festival, the painter "Tang Badu" posted that he had been harassed by a well-known married voice actor, which aroused the keen attention of netizens.
Later, netizens pulled out that this voice actor was Long Yin, a member of the 729 Sound Workshop, who had dubbed important roles in "Sword Net 3" and many fans.
729 Sound Workshop reacted quickly before the fermentation of the incident, issued a statement pointing out that it was true after verification, terminated the contract with Long Yin, and never renewed it; and solemnly stated that the company pays attention to and respects the rights and interests of women, supports women who have suffered adverse abuses to stand up and speak out, and strongly condemns any violation of social ethics and laws and regulations.
Zhang Jie, the founder and voice actor of 729 Sound Factory, also forwarded this Weibo, and pointed out that "morality is more important" and that "the road of art itself is a path of self-cultivation of virtue, and without virtue, there is no art", condemning Long Yin's behavior. The decisive approach of 729 Sound Workshop has won praise from netizens.
Therefore, in the face of sexual harassment, female friends should no longer be silent, only if you speak, your voice can be heard, and your rights and dignity may be protected. I hope that more and more female friends can be like these brave actresses, face the abuse, and bravely open the wheat!