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Lack of parent-child companionship of parents, relying on highly paid tutors, education "involution" when to rest

author:Education is enjoyable

In the eyes of ordinary people, the make-up class is three thousand a month; the make-up class in the eyes of Haidian parents is three thousand in one class.

The madness of Haidian parents has always been a myth in the field of education. Three thousand pieces to make up a lesson, this kind of thing may seem very crazy, but in fact, it may not be empty. In the real Haidian parents, it is really a very common thing to spend a high price of three thousand yuan per lesson to make up lessons for their children.

Lack of parent-child companionship of parents, relying on highly paid tutors, education "involution" when to rest
The class gap is widening our understanding of education.

However, the high price of three thousand yuan does not seem to be the most exaggerated thing. Recently, a recruitment notice circulating on the Internet for students of Renmin University Affiliated Middle School to find a tutor is really shocking! The parent's requirements for tutoring are not inferior to the recruitment requirements of some top domestic enterprises, and the treatment is even more staggering. Most importantly, from this job posting, we seem to see another problem.

This parent is simply outsourcing his child to a tutor.

Lack of parent-child companionship of parents, relying on highly paid tutors, education "involution" when to rest

First of all, from the parents' self-descriptions of the child, we can see that this child is actually quite excellent. He once won the third prize in the di national innovative thinking competition. He won the third prize in the Asia-Pacific Youth Science and Technology Innovation Competition. He began learning robotics at the age of eight and studied Python for a year at an online school. The Chinese Academy of Fine Arts Sketch Grade 8 has entered the re-competition of the National English Proficiency Competition.

If these are just extracurricular activities, then this student's grades in the class are also quite excellent. Midterm exams, Biology 95, English 94, Mathematics 90, Geography 82, Chinese 82.5, History 89, Sipin 89. Such results, for a first-year student, are actually quite brilliant.

Lack of parent-child companionship of parents, relying on highly paid tutors, education "involution" when to rest
But! This child, out of 38 classmates in the class, ranked second to last.

This result, I am afraid, will make many parents shout the worldview "collapse". Because in most schools, this grade should definitely be among the best. Unfortunately, this classmate's school is known for its competitive pressure.

However, in any case, we can see that in the learning and growth of this child, parents really spent their minds and worked hard. However, the parents of this classmate are obviously still not satisfied with their children's grades, so they have the idea of recruiting tutors.

Lack of parent-child companionship of parents, relying on highly paid tutors, education "involution" when to rest

According to the requirements of the child's parents, the tutor must be a student of Tsinghua, Peking University, Renmin University and other C9 schools, and must also be finance, accounting and other economic-related departments. There are requirements not only for universities, but also for junior high schools with tutors!

It is best to study in the famous Haidian Liu Xiaoqiang before high school!

In addition, for the work of the tutor teacher, it is required to pick up the child from 3:30 p.m. to 10 p.m. every day, which is basically equivalent to outsourcing the child to the tutor.

Lack of parent-child companionship of parents, relying on highly paid tutors, education "involution" when to rest

Of course, such a harsh requirement is also a good treatment provided by parents to tutors. If you can really meet the requirements of this parent, estimating that the annual salary of one million is really not a big problem.

But the question is, is education really something that can be done with money alone?

Admittedly, having such a top tutor is indeed a great help for children. However, judging from the parent's expectations of the tutor, the child has basically become a learning machine and has no time left. Even for the ten minutes of rest every hour, parents strictly demand that their children do sit-ups, volleyball, and dancing, which are obviously to cope with school sports.

Lack of parent-child companionship of parents, relying on highly paid tutors, education "involution" when to rest

Perhaps, the children of Haidian parents really do not deserve any entertainment.

Can a child who learns in this way really ensure that the child "learns to understand"? Will there be a situation of all kinds of looseness? Will you suffer from mental illness due to strong learning pressure?

The biggest problem is that without the company of parents, all learning processes are guided by tutors. Can such outsourced children really have a better future?

In the face of the college entrance examination, when will the "in-volume" education be closed?

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