正常的孩子什麼樣?
他們隻是吃飯，生長，甜甜地笑着嗎?
不，不是那樣的。正常的孩子，如果信任父母，他們會全力以赴釋放自己。
成長過程中，孩子會通過擾亂、破壞、恐吓、消耗、浪費、搖擺和占有展示力量……
一開始，他們絕對需要生活在一個充滿愛和力量的環境中(持續地抱持)，這樣他才不會太害怕自己的思維和想象，而在情感發展方面取得進展。”
——溫尼科特《剝奪與不良行為》
“What is a normal child like? Does he just eat and grow and smile sweetly? No, that is not what he is like. The normal child, if he has confidence in mother and father, pulls out all the stops. In the course of time, he tries out his power to disrupt, to destroy, to frighten, to wear down, to waste, to wangle, and to appropriate . . . At the start he absolutely needs to live in a circle of love and strength (with consequent tolerance) if he is not to be too fearful of his own thoughts and of his imaginings to make progress in his emotional development.”
― Donald Woods Winnicott, Deprivation and Delinquency
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