学会拒绝以后03第一遍盲听。
当我开始创业后不久，遇见了一个被投资的机会，但是我最终被拒绝了，那次拒绝伤害了我，严重到我想当场放弃。但是我想，比尔盖茨会在一次投资被拒后就放弃吗？
after a simple investment rejection？Would any successfulentrepreneur quit like that？任何成功的创业人会像那样放弃吗？当然不。And this is where it clicked for me？我突然间恍然大悟。
OK.I can build a better company。我能创立一个更好的公司。
Ican build a better team or better product。
但有一件事是必须的。but one thing for sure：I've got to be a better-leader.我要成为一个更好的领导者。
I cannot let that six-year-old，keep dictatingmy life anymore，我不能让那个6岁的我继续支配我的生活。
I have to put him back in his place，我要战胜他。
So this is where I went online and looked for help，所以我上网寻求帮助。Google was my friend，谷歌是我的朋友。(Laughter)(笑声)。
我搜索："怎么克服被拒绝的恐惧？I原木原木overcome the fear of surrender？"。
I came up with a bunch of psychology articles，跳出了很多心理学文章，关于恐惧和痛苦的来源。
about where the fearand pain are coming from。
然后是一些励志的文章。of "rah-rah"inspirational articles。关于"不要太在意，克服就好。
"Don't take it personally，just overcome it."。废话，地球人都知道好吗？Who doesn't know that？(笑声)(Laughter)，但为什么我还是很害怕？
Then I found this website by luck.然后我意外找到了这个网站，叫做Rejection石油y.com(被拒治疗法)。
It's called rejectiontherapy.com.(笑声)。
"被拒治疗法"是加拿大一个创业者发明的游戏。Rejection 636y" was this game invented by this Canadian entrepreneur.他叫杰森·康利。His name is Jason Comely，And basically the idea is for 30 days。you go out and look for 蒜蓉，游戏很简单，你出门找拒绝，持续30天。And I came up with my own.过渡 ideas.我要自己想象出被拒绝的注意，and I made a video blog out of it.还为此创建了视频博客。And so here's what.I did this 就是我做的，这就是那个博客。This is what the blog looked like.学会拒绝以后。
