學會拒絕以後03第一遍盲聽。
當我開始創業後不久，遇見了一個被投資的機會，但是我最終被拒絕了，那次拒絕傷害了我，嚴重到我想當場放棄。但是我想，比爾蓋茨會在一次投資被拒後就放棄嗎？
after a simple investment rejection？Would any successfulentrepreneur quit like that？任何成功的創業人會像那樣放棄嗎？當然不。And this is where it clicked for me？我突然間恍然大悟。
OK.I can build a better company。我能創立一個更好的公司。
Ican build a better team or better product。
但有一件事是必須的。but one thing for sure：I've got to be a better-leader.我要成為一個更好的上司者。
I cannot let that six-year-old，keep dictatingmy life anymore，我不能讓那個6歲的我繼續支配我的生活。
I have to put him back in his place，我要戰勝他。
So this is where I went online and looked for help，是以我上網尋求幫助。Google was my friend，谷歌是我的朋友。(Laughter)(笑聲)。
我搜尋："怎麼克服被拒絕的恐懼？I原木原木overcome the fear of surrender？"。
I came up with a bunch of psychology articles，跳出了很多心理學文章，關于恐懼和痛苦的來源。
about where the fearand pain are coming from。
然後是一些勵志的文章。of "rah-rah"inspirational articles。關于"不要太在意，克服就好。
"Don't take it personally，just overcome it."。廢話，地球人都知道好嗎？Who doesn't know that？(笑聲)(Laughter)，但為什麼我還是很害怕？
Then I found this website by luck.然後我意外找到了這個網站，叫做Rejection石油y.com(被拒治療法)。
It's called rejectiontherapy.com.(笑聲)。
"被拒治療法"是加拿大一個創業者發明的遊戲。Rejection 636y" was this game invented by this Canadian entrepreneur.他叫傑森·康利。His name is Jason Comely，And basically the idea is for 30 days。you go out and look for 蒜蓉，遊戲很簡單，你出門找拒絕，持續30天。And I came up with my own.過渡 ideas.我要自己想象出被拒絕的注意，and I made a video blog out of it.還為此建立了視訊部落格。And so here's what.I did this 就是我做的，這就是那個部落格。This is what the blog looked like.學會拒絕以後。
