The sercect of love relationship爱情密码

There are six chemicals can affect romantic love relationship，they are 苯基乙胺，多巴胺，去甲肾上腺素，内啡肽，脑下垂体荷尔蒙，信息素

苯基乙胺的作用就是调动你的热情have a crush on someone，多巴胺维持你的激情remain the relationship ，give you more motivation去甲肾上腺素，it it the key chemical，that let you fall into the love内啡肽是协调好激情的物质，let you calm down ，脑下垂体荷尔蒙protect the relationship and let you be more responsible for the relationship ，信息素就是让你make some reaction on your partner.

喜欢上一个人有时很容易，但持久的爱需要彼此的欣赏appreciate，包容tolerate，妥协make some compromise，互相成长help each other，有人说“谈恋爱是和一个人的优点谈，婚姻是和一个人的缺点谈”

也有说最终选择和谁一起早就注定好了，原生家庭决定你会喜欢上谁。果真如此吗？那么你对你的人格了解吗？maybe we can learn it in next article .