Hello everyone, I'm Xiaodong. Many people regard the relationship between Yang Guo and Xiaolongnü as a classic, but with the passage of time, there are also many different voices, for example, some people think that Xiaolongnü's personality is more indifferent, and Yang Guo is always flirting with other girls.
During this period, Xiaolongnü first inexplicably fell in love with Yang Guo, and then was the first to withdraw in this relationship, wanting to marry Gongsun Zhi, and in Yang Guo also found that he had clues about liking Guo Fu, here the author interprets them one by one for everyone.
First of all, although the little dragon girl gives people a feeling of not eating fireworks in the world, after all, it is a person who falls into this mortal world, coupled with the life experience of the little dragon girl, anyone who has been living in the mountains, without contact with the outside world, can do the brain of the little dragon girl is still flexible, it is already very difficult. Therefore, many times the little dragon girl is not indifferent, but does not understand the sophistication of human feelings. This is the advantage and disadvantage of the little dragon girl.
The reason why Xiaolongnü likes Yang Guo is partly because of vows, and part of the reason is also because of nature, because people will always be attracted to the opposite sex at a certain time, but they have not opened up before. Therefore, many people think that Yin Zhiping is the elder of Xiaolongnü and Yang Guoyue, which is wrong, although he has played a certain role in promoting, but only to achieve his original desires.
It is undeniable that Xiaolongnü did have a confused stage because of Yin Zhiping, but who she liked in her heart and who she loved in her brain could still be clearly distinguished, so don't think that Xiaolongnü has special feelings for Yin Zhiping, even if there is because she mistook the other party for Yang Guo.
Don't think that Yin Zhiping took a very big advantage, he just got a temporary enjoyment, relatively speaking, when Xiaolongnü is willing to give her true heart to Yang Guo, that kind of spring breeze-like feelings are yin Zhiping can not get in his life, the most precious thing in terms of feelings is a person's concern for another person, not desire.
After that, the reason why Xiaolongnü chose to marry Gongsun Zhi was, on the one hand, because she was afraid that she couldn't help but go back to Yang Guo, create trouble for the other party, simply come to a quick knife to cut the mess, cut off her own back road, on the other hand, she didn't know how deeply the other party loved herself, and whether she was willing to be with herself and not care about the eyes of others.
Although the two people have been together for several years, but Yang Guo is not yet an adult after all, but also makes the little dragon girl feel insecure, to put it bluntly, when you fall in love with a person, you may feel inferior, afraid that the other party loves himself not enough, leaving himself, this is reflected in both boys and girls.
At that time, Yang Guo had already confessed to the little dragon girl, but he always respected each other, which made the little dragon girl also feel a little strange, of course, this also had the reason for Yin Zhiping's evil, so the little dragon girl would waver and try to accept the kindness of other men.
In fact, love at first sight may not be able to come together, even if there is no feeling at the beginning, when you are getting along, the other party makes you feel comfortable, you can slowly accept each other, and the best way to get out of a relationship is also to try new feelings. Therefore, it is not wrong for the little dragon girl to choose Gongsun Zhi, but Gongsun Zhi is not as good as he appears, the fake is false after all, look at how ugly his face is afterwards, it is not difficult to find that the arrival of the little dragon girl is the punishment of heaven for him.
Speaking of Yang Guo, the two people grew up together, Xiaolongnü is Yang Guo's master, if he had long wanted to be wrong with Xiaolongnü, it would have been impossible for him to concentrate on learning martial arts, on the surface he had learned a habit of jianghu, but in his bones he was still a very upright person.
It is undeniable that Yang Guo is born to be seductive, and has a heartwarming moment for every girl he contacts, such as kissing the bone for Lu Wushuang, seeing Cheng Ying's yunhu is not happy, and even Yan Ping, who has nothing to do with him, has been regarded by him as a substitute for the little dragon girl. So before that, he didn't understand emotion at all, at best, he was verbally taking advantage of others, but when he really got to know other women, he found out who he liked.
Maybe at the beginning Yang Guo did not dare to think in his heart, nor did he expect that Xiaolong would like himself, coupled with his integrity, he would not easily do that kind of thing that was contrary to the master and apprentice, but when Xiaolongnü put forward his wishes, he would also treat the other party as a member of the opposite sex, try to accept, try to convince himself. Although Yang Guo is smart enough, he will also experience a brain chaos, deny the self, and then accept the process of self.
As for Guo Fu, Yang Guo really liked her when she was a child, and she could even be regarded as Yang Guo's first heartwarming first love or crush. Because of this intention, he never expressed it, and Guo Fu was a stupid girl who did not know that she had already fallen in love with each other.
When Guo Fu and Yang Guo met again, they saw that each other would have some shy performances, knowing that he was overwhelmed by his beauty, and secretly proud in his heart, when Guo Jing announced the marriage of the two people, Guo Fu would also show a shyness, rather than rejection.
Later, after Guo Fu understood the matter between Yang Guo and Xiaolongnü, she always used the matter of master and apprentice to stimulate Yang Guo and Xiaolongnü, and even when she knew that Xiaolongnü was defiled by Yin Zhiping, she would also have a certain sense of superiority, which was equivalent to knowing that her reasoning was not perfect enough, and she was sure to win. Guo Fu is more concerned about being affirmed in others, which is a very difficult to detect inferiority, because her parents are too strong, there are always people who ignore her efforts, and she is indeed unqualified, so for Guo Fu, feelings can not come first.
And obviously, Guo Fu does not know how to express her emotions, she grew up in a superior family, with too much arrogance, so the reason why Yang Guo is obsessed with Guo Fu is more of a spirit of not accepting defeat. In the relationship, only when you recognize the imperfect self can you make the other party accept it with an honest heart. And very few people can do this, so many people like Guo Fu have not been with their loved ones in their lives. I am Xiaodong, welcome to like the small friends to share comments, like attention.
Returning to the love affair between Yang Guo and Xiaolongnü, after Yang Guo's Xiaolongnü disappeared, he could wait for 16 years as a day, and when he learned that the other party had no news, he was still able to give up all the cliffs to commit suicide, which was enough to show his love for Xiaolongnü.
Some people say that there is a lack of passion in the feelings of two people, in fact, when the moment when the broken dragon stone is put down, Yang Guo is willing to die with the little dragon girl, that kind of feeling has already taken root in the hearts of the two, and when the two face danger again and again but do not give up, how many people can do it?
Think about it from another angle, 16 years later, he is already a world-famous god eagle hero, with high martial arts, and a little fan sister like Guo Xiang, as long as he wants, Guo Xiang can love him like a little dragon girl. But he didn't do it, he didn't even think so.
I once read the story of the ladder of love, the old man who lived in seclusion with his wife in spite of other people's eyes when he was young, he used his whole life to build roads for his wife, he did not think that he was so great, nor did he label himself so much, he thought that what he did was taken for granted.
When faced with the interview, the reporter asked him why he was firmly together, and the old man thought for half a day, with only two words: conscience. He told us in the most simple language that there are some things you can't think about too much, and if you think too much, your conscience will be broken.
In real life, we all say: trees move dead people move people live, people must know how to be flexible, do not hang on a tree, and so on. And emotionally there have indeed been many bad examples, you love each other like life, the other party regards you as grass. But when you have a close lover, worth your life to protect, then even if you have a better choice, you should not live up to this love, you live up to this love is equivalent to betraying your own character and principles, you will not be happy with other women.
Yang Guo is indeed smart enough, but the most rare thing about him is to always maintain a pure heart and be emotionally unswerving. In this relationship between him and Xiaolongnü, both of them have encountered other opposite sexes, and even some heartwarming scenes, but this is at best a test for the two, as long as you live in this jianghu, you have to face many people, many things, there are many accidents, there are also many surprises, when you look back, that person is still standing still, waiting for your return, is the longest confession of affection.