Women, after the age of twenty-five, seem to feel that aging is a very fast thing, and when they wake up one night, they will find that their eyes have more fine lines.
The skin is also sagging and dull due to collagen loss, and no matter how expensive the skin care products are used, they do not return to the state they were in before the age of twenty-five.
Can no longer be as careless as before, eat and drink, because now their own basal metabolism is reduced, the wind open mouth fat three pounds, clothes will also buy those tender, when others ask their age, also began to say one year old, people, it seems that suddenly become old.
Seeing those little girls in their early twenties, the skin is smooth and tight, they look good without makeup, they are slender, and wearing grandma's vests can't hide the breath of youth, and they can't help but sigh, it's good to be young, how good it would be if you could return to eighteen.
However, there is also such a group - they have passed the age of confusion, some even have Huafa, but they are still the focus of the crowd, still do not lack the favor of the opposite sex, and the temperament they exude makes many young people look out of reach.
Psychological research has shown that when women reach middle age, there is a reason why the opposite sex takes the initiative to show love.
Even in middle age, they have different charms
No matter what age a woman is, she will exude a different charm and an irreproducible beauty at her own age.
Although middle-aged women do not have the advantage of being young, they are like aging, and with the passage of time, they have become more and more attractive.
Such women are calm and heavy in their way of thinking, emotionally tender like water, they have experience, know how to understand others, and understand that gentleness is a woman's weapon.
Therefore, such a woman will not reduce her charm with the passage of time, but under the carving of time, it will more and more exude the charm of a mature woman, so that the opposite sex will linger. Let the opposite sex just look at the crowd one more time, and never forget that feeling again.
So, when a woman reaches middle age, how should she cultivate her charm?
Not stopping self-growth is the guarantee for maintaining women's self-attractiveness
Some people, although they have not yet entered the middle age stage in terms of age, in fact, most of them have "died" long ago when they are twenty or thirty years old, because they pressed the pause button on their lives early, and from now on, they are just living in their own shadows, and the rest of their lives are only spent imitating themselves.
Day after day, year after year, more mechanical, more pretentious.
However, for a woman, the sign of her real aging is not that she is getting older, not that she has wrinkles on her face, but that she has stopped, no longer grows on her own, and has only stepped in the same place since then, repeating the previous day's life day by day, and the days can be seen at a glance.
Boiling frogs in warm water refers to the fact that when a person stays in a comfortable environment for a long time, he will become numb, he will lose the ability to think of danger in peace, and he will also become short-sighted, have no foresight, get by, and when there is a change, there will be no way at all, and he can only be slaughtered.
And the women who know how to jump out of the comfort zone, they never stop growing themselves, in the first half of their lives and the second half of their lives, they will make mistakes, they will also have efforts, but no matter what the result, they will not allow themselves to stay in the same place for too long, because they understand that the reason why water can remain clear is that it keeps flowing forward.
No matter what kind of environment you are in, you must know how to please yourself
Once, when the actor Zhang Junning was interviewed, many netizens were amazed by her good state.
Zhang Junning is a person who is about to reach the age of no confusion, but her skin is tight, her posture is straight, and the whole person looks more like a person in her early twenties, not at all like a person who is about to enter the age of confusion.
The secret of Zhang Junning's frozen age is that she loves sports, in daily life, as long as she does not shoot, she will do sports, morning running, rain or shine, in addition, she is constantly trying new things, such as rock climbing, such as bungee jumping, such as gliding, such as skydiving and so on.
Zhang Junning believes that if time must be wasted, then it must be wasted on himself that is the most meaningful, and this is also the case.
She has superb acting skills, a good figure, tight muscle lines, and is the self-discipline goddess of the entertainment industry.
In fact, we came into this world to see how the flowers come from and how the trees bear fruit, not to say that we put the family, marriage, and children in the most important position in our lives, but we only forget ourselves.
We have to learn to please ourselves and live for ourselves, as Bo Bonnie said in the variety show "Strange Story" - "No doctrine is greater than your life, no value can kidnap your freedom, you are a woman, you love to come as you come, you can live as comfortable as you want." ”
the end - Author | Psychological counselor Fu Dongsheng The main writer of love and marriage psychology | Use psychology to analyze love, marriage, and life WeChat public account: love marriage psychology