A black dot cannot cover the entire white paper, and a dark cloud cannot cover the entire sky;
One note does not determine the whole melody, and no annoyance should suppress all happiness.
Everyone will have troubles, and life cannot be wonderful all the time. Annoyance is like a small black dot on white paper, although the area is not large, but it is impressive, and even feel that with it, white paper is not "white paper".
The reason is simple, people pay too much attention to this small shortcoming. It's like people are overemphasizing their flaws.
When dealing with the flaws of life, people often look at them with a magnifying glass. It can even be said that the imperfections are viewed under the microscope, so that the existence of beauty is obscured and the existence of beauty is ignored.
Therefore, something that is not beautiful suppresses beauty and causes troubles. People put their troubles under the microscope again, thinking that they are so large that they even occupy their entire lives.
In fact, after the trouble, look at the things that are your troubles, you will feel that it is not a big deal at all, but why did you have to die for this little thing at that time? Or a word: you take your shortcomings too seriously.
Therefore, people should learn to relax their minds, adjust their breathing, and see how small the things that are their troubles are. Or smile and greet tomorrow, worrying about that little thing, it's not worth it.
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